Guys, Boyfriend wants to spend more time with friends?

[Unrealiseddream]

He asked me to be in a relationship with him. Been seeing him since November. He's spent 3 weeks on a lads holiday during that time. He lives with his friends. He comes to see me for a few hours in an evening wakes up and leaves me. What is going on? Is he keeping me a placeholder? Is there someone else? He ALWAYS has times to spend with his bros nights out, video games and no time for me. I've told him and he said he'll fix it. Should I leave him?

[ohsheeT]

I will let him go without saying anything and see how long it takes him to get back with you and then even then hold back a little bit and see how long it takes for him to get back with you again if it's in a week's period of time or two weeks period of time then I would let him go yes because anybody that says you likes you would be in contact with you every night and if he can't do that then he doesn't respect you he doesn't really care for you he just wants you when he wants you

[bowenw]

He obviously has priorities that rank far higher than you and it's doubtful that will ever change. If that kind of relationship is not for you, you may want to tell him to find someone else who is okay with it.

[Unrealiseddream]

True

[jahaims]

He had friends and a social life. That is normal. You are insecure

[Unrealiseddream]

Is it normal to desire so little time with someone whose meant to be your girlfriend? Where did you get insecure from?

[Anonymous]

Why don’t women understand that men have their own lives as well besides their partner… they’ve friends and family too… and they need time for themselves too…. If you’re not ok with him giving time for himself then it’s better u get separated…

[Unrealiseddream]

He's with his friends 6.5 days per week and sees me for.5 of those days lol I think I'm more than understanding. Also I have a life too and friends but what's the point in being with someone who prefers to be playing with their friends lol

[Opinion Owner]

Then ask yourself what is it that he doesn't like spending time with you

[Unrealiseddream]

Well I am but I asked this question to understand from a man's perspective. Sigh. Thanks I guess

[AnonAndrew]

How often does he come to see you?