I heard that my girlfriend was bribed to go out with me the first time, should I ask her about it?

[Anonymous]

My friend told me he had bribed her with money to go out with me on our first date, but that she continued to date me without the money. Should I ask her about it?

[Zack-Bann]

Keep in mind that we’re all strangers until we’re not.
Most people give someone a chance because they’re bored, lonely, or just horny


And THEN they catch feelings and build meaningful relationships.


Just because she went out with you as a paid favor for someone doesn’t mean she faked the entire relationship.
Especially since she’s not actively getting paid


You should talk to her about it, but it doesn’t have to be a fight. It could be something you can laugh about

[Twalli]

Does it matter at this point. So, she may have gotten money to get into a relationship that you both enjoy. In a way, she got paid to incentivize her to get into a relationship that is good for her. If she continually got paid to date you, then that'd be an issue, but first date payment should not be a problem, since it worked out in the end.

[White_Widow]

Only if you are prepared to hear the answer even if its an the answer you might not like.

[Asker]

I feel I could handle it.

[White_Widow]

Its up to you. No matter the answer, would it change anything?

[Asker]

No, I'd still love her either way.