When a girl asks me out, is it fair to expect her to pay?

[Grovermint]

[Juxtapose]

No, do you pay for your friend when you ask them to go to a Mexican place or whatever to hang out and eat? No? So why is it when sex is a possibility, all of a sudden it becomes transactional?

[Grovermint]

I do, usually, unless I bring up going dutch beforehand. Same thing applies reverse when they invite me. Same thing for family.

[Anonymous]

It isn't unreasonable, but as an adult, you should still be prepared to pay for yourself.

[Rei13]

It isn’t totally unreasonable but honestly you should pay for yourself in that situation.

[Juxtapose]

Reverse the sexes. Same answer?

[Rei13]

@Juxtapose personally I always liked a provider so if I really liked the guy I would let him pay for me, but otherwise I would pay for myself