Does a girl have to or expected to offer to split the bill on a date?

[Anonymous]

What if she actually doesn’t want to pay and and it’s an insincere offer. Better to be genuine and not offer if you don’t actually want to split the bill.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I would never go out with someone, and expect them to pay for me - unless I'm with my parents, I expect to pay for myself.

I would say that if you expect someone to pay for you, you should be upfront about that to begin with. - that way if he's not okay with it, he ca choose not to go on that date.

[strawberrybaby3]

The man pays for the date, end of conversation. Especially if he asks her on the date. I’d always bring my own money just in case, but there certainly would not be a second date if the man is cheap like that.

[Asker]

I think if he wants to split the bill on something more expensive you can say I’ll get the next one and then cut contact

[Nifrayu]

Sounds like you're the one who's cheap.

[strawberrybaby3]

Okay 😇

[Anonymous]

It isn't unreasonable to expect a grown woman to pay for herself. Women who believe they are entitled to a man's money is why men don't want to pay anymore. There's being a gentleman and there's being taken advantage of.

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you mean the first date?

[Asker]

Yes first date

[BarryLiverstone]

I would expect her to offer to pay her share even if it’s discussed before the date. I’m old school and I will pay anyway. But if she never offers that’s not what’s expected.

[Asker]

You rather get an insincere offer?

[BarryLiverstone]

No that’s the point. I want her to be sincere as I am a stranger. But I’ll let her pay for a future date

[Asker]

Would you not go out with her again if she doesn’t offer?

[BarryLiverstone]

Her not offering isn’t a deal breaker. I would go out again if she didn’t but may ask her why.

[dustybiker2]

I say be honest with how you feel. It allows men a clear image of what he is getting into. Let them decide if it's actually worth asking a woman out again..

[Nifrayu]

I think I would probably just walk away and leave her with the bill. There wouldn't be a second date.

[DonFredoCorleone]

A guy never has to pay for a girl. woke culture and feminazis are trying to impoverish men, but know that the masculinist movement cannot be stopped