Should it bother me that girlfriend goes online and doesn’t reply to me?

[Anonymous]

[Zack-Bann]

It shouldn’t
But also it should


technically you come off as needy and clingy if you just sit there expecting replies and monitoring her online activity.


But also it’s not unreasonable to expect someone who cares about you to make a small effort and reply to texts


You should bring it up but make sure you do it in a non-needy way

[ChicoFromThe305]

I can understand even if the person wasn't your partner, it just shows they aren't busy enough not to reply so there's no other way to put it besides that they are ignoring you lol

[DishLady]

How do you know she's online? And if she's your girlfriend aren't you going to just see her shortly anyway?

[Anonymous]

Unless you're annoying her by messaging her like every 10 minutes, then yes.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it should bother you.