If you were told 'you don't have that certain something' on the 4th date, can you still ask for another date at some point?

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If so, when would be the best time?

I would very much regret not asking her at least once.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for being perfect no one is & as for dating a lot of times it could be lust at first & down the road love. As for going on dates sometimes it take more then one date to get to know someone & in some cases it could take four or five dates. In life everyone deserves a chance but if the spark isn’t there the spark isn’t there & if you are missing that certain something maybe you should ask her what that certain something is so in the future you can work to better yourself.

Ask her out again & if you are looking for a booty call don’t be surprised if she uses you for a foodie call instead.

[Anonymous]

I think by 4 dates it's pretty definitive.

[Ariesman81]

Sure... if you're into wasting time and money