How Can I Improve My Tinder Game? (25M, 4 Matches in 4 Days)?

[Anonymous]

I've been on Tinder for 4 days now and have only managed to get 4 matches. I feel like my profile could use some improvement. What can I do to make my profile more appealing and increase my match rate? Any feedback on profile pictures, bio, or messaging strategy would be greatly appreciated.

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[genericname85]

fuck tinder. tinder is designed to feed you hopium once in a while. just enough so you won't leave the platform. it's not "impossible" to find someone on there but you should really practice going out and talking to real people in the real world. that's far more effective.

[genericname85]

if you want more attractive fotos, have some group photos with the boys having fun avoid the weird selfis. if you're gonna do a selfi, do one in a situation worth displaying you chose to be in and you enjoyed, to show who you are and what you do. not jus the random ones in meaningless places.

[Sevenpointfive]

bro... ? the beard? it's not full and only in one place.

[DishLady]

Improve your overall dating game by turning off all the apps, not taking any more selfies and just meeting a nice gal organically.

[Anonymous]

4 in as many days

I didn't get that in 6 months

[Asker]

Actually I got all 4 in 1 whole day but it’s been 4 days and no new swipes from girls let alone new matches since

[Levin]

That's because as @genericname85 said, Tinder is based on psychology, manipulation and 'hopium'.

They up-rate your profile in girl's card stack so you get a whole bunch of likes in the first day. You get suckered in and think that it might just work. Then they cut you off after 24 hours so you start to hate yourself and waste your money on premium.

It's so transparent and such a scummy blood sucking company who help to destroy men's self esteems. I believe they're all owned by match and pretty much the same.

Work on interacting with women in real life.

Also, it's even more meaningless because no doubt your mile range is stupidly high, and you just swiped right on pretty much everyone. Plus there's bots, thots and whores on there.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Match_Group

[Opinion Owner]

Should add I quit the lot after a year

[Levin]

Oh, another interesting tidbit, I believe they keep your data after deleting for 3 months (might be different outside of EU due to GDPR laws). So if you return after deleting you will still be on the same stunted algorithm. If you return after 3 months then you can still have the worthless 24 hour joiner 'bonus' again.

If you want some genuine advice, and I hope you take this the right way. But reduce your body fat and work out. Focus on being healthy. Get interesting and active hobbies. Meet people in social activities. And focus on improving, nurturing and valuing yourself.

[Levin]

" Should add I quit the lot after a year"

If you don't want to hate yourself, then yes.

I consider myself pretty attractive and don't get matches on it.

It used to work 5+ years ago when the company wasn't such a vulture.

Don't get suckered into that machine.

[Opinion Owner]

Too busy between my work and dying for that