Is this double standards? What’s the black guys problem?

[Anonymous]

I'm a light-skinned Black girl who loves pale and tan guys. I like to express my preferences on dating apps or apps for finding friends so I attract my preference. I've noticed that whenever I mention my preference for pale and tan guys, it's always Black guys trying to tell me to date Black guys or saying it's wrong to like pale and tan guys. However, I've also noticed that on some dating or friend apps, some Black guys prefer white or Latina women, and nobody seems to complain about that.

[Summeroflove]

Well everyone has their thing and it’s normal to want to find people who look differently then themselves. Some people get jealous but it’s none of their business what other people are wanting if two people aren’t compatible move on.

I also don’t feel like people should only date based off a racial fetish either. Look I’m sure they’re just jealous ignore them find who makes you happy.

[Asker]

It’s not really a fetish I have dated guys who aren’t pale or tan

[Summeroflove]

Asker I understand you like what you like

[Summeroflove]

Don’t let people make you feel shame for what and who you like.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome asker it’s natural

[Anonymous]

It's always been a double standard. I am white every time I date a black woman black guys hate on me for the most part.. The biggest problem with black guys they assume that white guys are stealing their women.

[Asker]

Tragic 😭

[Agape93]

It's a double standard. Fuck em, date who you want

[Asker]

Thanks