Why do mixed raced relationships where the man is black bother so many guys out there?

[beenherebefore]

[Anonymous]

I'm a Black man that's not in favor of interracial marriage in general (was raised by parents that taught me the importance of giving back to my community through marriage). However, I am not expecting anyone to agree with me nor accept my reasoning. I will leave that for another post.

I will play the Devil's advocate for the sake of this conversation, and try to give a nuanced answer.

Black men in America do not have a good reputation. How much of that has to do with systemic racism and media portrayal vs bad behavior? Again, both are arguments to be made, but I believe in cause and effect.

See, I'm the product of 2 academically-driven parents that come from privileged backgrounds. Not meant to brag, just telling my story. I understand that this is far from the normal experience for the majority of young Black men out there, and I also understand that the lack of strong male role models can and does affect their upbringing and attitudes growing up.

I also understand that the low property taxes in poor neighborhoods due to low property values => underfunded schools => higher probability of dropping out of school => lower chance of getting a white collar job (or job in general => combined with the lack of great male role models and presence of alternative bad influences may lead to a lifestyle of crime. After you get s criminal record, your job prospects are really over.

Are these things unique to Black men? No. That's the tricky part, because when everyone highlights it, people who went through that experience say "but I also went through it, what about me?" And it's true. However, if one community is disproportionately affected by it, it's not without a reason. On the other hand, criminality is celebrated and supported in Hip Hop music, and many young and impressionable Black men support this rebellious image that comes with it, even if it can harm them. That is unfortunately not something you can help someone with, they'll have to want to open their mind to new possibilities, and then the help can arrive.

So that's for the "lower class" if you will. What about middle class and upper class Black men. What's their experience? Here's where it really gets tricky. When you are on a different tax bracket, you become "tokenized". You're gonna hear things like "wow you're so eloquent" and "why don't you sound Black?" You will typically run into 2 types of non-black people:

1) The ones that generally don't like Blacks, but make an exception for you because you're "different". These people generally tend to cosplay likeness, but you can sense the fakeness and political-correctness.

2) The ones that don't like Blacks and will not make an exception for you, despite your educated status and increased upward mobility.

I will tell you that the majority of people I have met fall into category 1. You can sense it, but you cannot prove it. You learn to let the subtle disrespect slide after a while for your own mental clarity.

The Black men in those relationships are not perfect people. Some of them are horrible/abusive partners, some of them are amazing husband and fathers, and many of them are in between the different shades of gray. The thing I find fascinating is that you will have people who will know a Black man for many years and call them a friend, but will flip-out if they find out their partner is of a different race (not related to the person's family). That's a level of dedication to segregation unlike any other, which could perhaps only be beaten by someone that doesn't even want to make friendships with Black folks.

I'll never tell anyone to date or not to date someone. I don't care. My choice is mine, and everyone is allowed to do what they want to do. It's one thing if the girl's father doesn't approve of her being with Black men, but it's a completely different ball game when her entire family approves but internet strangers call her a "mudshark" and "coalburner" and call him a "c00n" for being with a non-Black woman that I find very odd. I can never be that invested over someone else's life to write negative comments about their choice of partner, that's just unemployed behavior. I went over potential reasons in the previous paragraphs, but I also think that men (and women) that have something negative to say about people getting married with both family's approval are just losers with nothing better to do. Do you really think her dad didn't vet him? Do you think you know better than her dad? Do you think she was going to marry you?

Unemployed behavior. Even worse is starting with 2 parents in the household and STILL ending up as an internet troll despite having had all the tools at your disposal to make something meaningful of your life, but instead decide to waste your time ragebaiting strangers on their wedding.

[Butterfly38142]

Don’t have a good reputation? Deal with it because more than half of you all only respect your ex-owners’ granddaughters

[Opinion Owner]

@Butterfly38142 "More than half of you only respect your ex-owners granddaughters" lmao what nonsense. You sound bitter and butthurt. Was it that Isha Blaaker sude that broke your heart?

[Opinion Owner]

*dude

[Jersey2]

I find it interesting that schools in black neighborhoods are not underfunded. The city near me was majority black. The suburb my kids were raised in was majority white. The city spent 15% more per student than did our county. The city schools were an unmitigated disaster. Our High School was in the top 1% of high schools nationally. It wasn’t about funding.

I wonder how much of that money in the city was stolen though. I remember Oprah giving $500,000, perhaps worth $1,000,000 today, to fix a roof at a Detroit school because the Principal said he could get it fixed due to lack of funds. She gave it to him. He promptly stole it. You can find articles on it in the internet. But parents and Mayors allow this. Not in my county. We built beautiful concert halls too. Magnificent ones. With less money per student.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 I mean let's be honest, the money that the county spends on these school is like pennies on the dollar compared to the percentage that schools make from property taxes.

In the top zip codes, you can find the wealthiest schools, and that's without any money coming from the government as it is not necessary.

Is there a degree of corruption? Yes. Is it the only reason? No. It's more like the cherry on top of a rotten pie.

And by the way, I grew up in the suburbs and studied at a private school, so I know that scandals of corruption can also take place in these environments, just may be not as publicized.

[Jersey2]

I don’t really track your line of thought. Whatever the reasons, there isn’t accountability but rather scapegoats which mean I won’t change. Wringing of hands and gnashing of teeth hasn't and won’t help. But it is easy.

[Jersey2]

It won’t change*

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 I gave a reasonable and nuanced answer, and you're still not happy. I did mention the celebration of bad behavior, and I also said that I don't condone it. However, it is cause and effect.

I don't think calling a problem like it really is "scapegoating". If you're inconvenienced by me mentioning it but cannot debunk any of what I said, you need to do some self-reflection.

[Jersey2]

Your reasonable and nuanced answer left me flat and slightly confused. I found it meaningless. I pay a property tax and school tax so I can see exactly how much goes to the school. I have voted to increase that amount. My guess is the school budget is public information if it’s not broken out where you are but it sounds like you don’t actually pay properly or school tax personally as you probably don’t have a house. I could go 9n dissecting your comment but it just doesn’t hit the key points of the conversation.

They have the money. It was given to them and more than white schools. It’s not a money problem, that’s a tired excuse that just isn’t real.

[Butterfly38142]

That’s true though. As a person who’s neither black nor white this is my fair analysis

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 Again, you're objectively wrong.

1) Your payment of property tax doesn't change the data published and clear patterns that exist.

2) Public schools are funded through through state taxes, local taxes and federal taxes. Property taxes are local taxes, but they are make a huge chunk of the pie chart. Even if we count state taxes, or average Black majority schools still receive less funding per student than white majority schools from state taxes. A simple Google search will show that.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 A 2022 study by EdTrust had concluded that schools with the highest non-white number of students received about 16% less funding (or $2200 USD less per student) from both local and state resources than did the schools with the highest number of White students.

Go ahead and quote your own study that disproves this claim, and do not rely on anecdotal evidence or "personal experience".

[Opinion Owner]

@Butterfly38142 Your analysis was that some Black man broke your heart? You need to get over him. That's what most normal people do.

[Jersey2]

I selected Baltimore and asked Grok AI for the data. Give me another city and I will do the same. Baltimore is not the city I was referring to in my previous post but it has the same results unbeknownst to me when I selected it.

Pouring money into that system won’t change the result. Wholesale replacing the schools will help. Moving the kids to an offsite school where they stay and learn would help. Keeping as is a dumping money into it won’t, that is not the answer. The problem is corruption and the community values. Period.

### Per-Pupil Spending and Average SAT Scores: Baltimore City vs. Nearby Suburban Districts (FY 2025)

Baltimore City spends more per pupil but has significantly lower average SAT scores (Class of 2024 data) than surrounding whiter, wealthier suburban districts.

District Total Per-Pupil Est. (State + Local + Federal) % White Students Avg. SAT Score (2024)
|-----------------------|------------------------------------------------|------------------|-----------------------|
Baltimore City ~$23,000 ~15% 867
Howard County ~$20,000 ~50% 1240
Montgomery County ~$21,000 ~40% 1180
Anne Arundel County ~$19,000 ~55% 1080
Baltimore County ~$18,000 ~45% 1060

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 Again, there are 2 flaws in your logic.

1) I already gave you a NATIONAL study where all states were covered, and you want to argue with me about specific cities. Not all Blacks live in Baltimore.

2) Grok is inaccurate. Use Chatgpt.

3) If you want a newer study (EdTrust 2019 was pre-pandemic), their post pandemic data shows that the gap per student now is in the realm of $2700, so it has grown by about $500 in 3 years (in the December 2022 study).

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 And number 3 wasn't necessarily a flaw (I know I said 2 flaws), it was about a potential follow up "2019 is old"

Find me a reliable recent (after the pandemic) national study that contradicts my claim, and cite your resources.

[HawkPerception]

I think it's mostly about the stereotype of black men having bigger dicks, so a lot of men assume a woman is with a black man for that.

And statistically, black men have the highest rate of leaving children without a father present in America... at 65%, whereas other races are much lower. So it's a questionable decision when the odds are literally against you.

But for me, I don't care. Who they date doesn't affect me. I know the kind of girl that I want to be with, and I'm hoping one day the girl who wants to end up with a guy like me finds me.

[Jennz6]

@HawkPerception
That has nothing to do with it, it’s just racism

[HawkPerception]

You don't have to take my word for it, but there's a reason why men don't say the same things about men of other races. It might be partly racist, but the reasons I listed are definitely factors for the majority of men. If you have eyes, you'd see it too. It's just pattern recognition and observation skills.

[fishcake_buttie]

@Jennz6 Is it racism when my black friends say they prefer to live amongst white people instead of the n*ggers (their words) they escaped from? They also despise race-mix coupling for the exact same reasons "white supremists" talk about... What others call racist, others call good sense and reality - it's only racist when white people speak the truth.

[fishcake_buttie]

My ex best mate (female)... Went for a night out, met a black guy, went home with him... To find his friends there with a pistol on the table and smoking dope, was pinned down and raped for hours. I could go on about statistics and cultural differences but because I am white I am just shut down with "You're Racist!".

[HawkPerception]

@fishcake_buttie I'm not white. I'm pretty mixed with pretty much the whole world in me. So I'm not against interracial dating, otherwise someone like myself wouldn't even exist. But I agree with you that black people tend to have victim mindsets and call everything racist. It's extremely distasteful. The statistics about them don't lie. Their culture is usually pretty trashy. I'm not saying every black person is like that. I have a good friend who's black and extremely intelligent and classy. But he's white washed. White people tend to have a better culture. There's more crime in areas with black people. In America, they make up 13% of the population and account for 60% of the crime.

[fishcake_buttie]

Hello refreshing person... You can join my White Supremist (TM) political movement if you like.

Just understand this, please... ONE group full of evil scum-bags has been manipulating ALL races for centuries, to create race-wars and to dilute nations with race-mixing. I am British, my people introduced thousands of technologies that the world had never seen or conceptualised, my people literally created the things that became what we have today, other nations did this too but not quite like we did. What makes my people who we are is the blood in our veins, it is what makes us able to come up with things like that. That one group I mentioned is trying to dilute the blood of my nation, the mix-race people born today ARE NOT like us, they are different and we have many examples of this. We agree that some of them are more like us than they are the other half of the genes, but the dilution is changing the core of Great Britain. We don't wish harm on anybody but those fomenting these changes. None of you can help being born as what you are, all that we ask is that all peoples start paying attention to the importance of blood and realise that we ARE NOT white supremists wanting to kill everyone else, but simply want our peoples to exist as exactly what we are. I have friends of all kinds that absolutely agree with me, it's funny because most of them get called white supremists because they sound like my people do and then get to shut the real racists down by telling them they aren't white.

[HawkPerception]

@fishcake_buttie Honestly, nothing of what you said I disagreed with entirely. And it really is sad to see Europe dying due to mass immigration and Muslims infesting their population. Poland seems to be one of the few places in the world where Europeans seem to flourish nowadays. I'm all for there being locations with primarily white people and I'm all for pure blood relationships. And the truth is, I prefer to live in communities with white people than other races, as racist as that may sound. It would be a sad day and age where I no longer see any pure blooded Europeans.

A sad statistic is 100 years ago, the white population globally was about 22 to 28%. Now it's gone way down to only 9 to 12% of the global population. White people are being out bred. Europe needs to push for mass deportation and start to have more kids of their own. The great displacement theory is not a theory. It's literally happening.

[fishcake_buttie]

You see it doesn't sound racist to me, it just sounds like good sense. To be clear about what I said before, I am a National Socialist, people are trained to call us "Nazis". I am also a Marcionite Christian, that means I even love my enemies and my spiritual beliefs don't clash with my political views. You'd be more than welcome in my circles because there are NatSocs in ALL nations.

Of course you prefer to be amongst whites, every single married with children foreigner in my town that I have spoken to about all of this (I have NO filter whatsoever and say what I want to) came to my 98% white town because they could not bear living amongst their own kind that THEY want sending home because they refuse to act like civilised people.

Don't white people make you cringe when they are open and proud about destroying their own kinds? I hope you tell them off for it EVERY SINGLE TIME!

I truly appreciate you. Good day.

[HawkPerception]

@fishcake_buttie White liberals (especially the women who are really pushing that movement) are definitely strange for that reason... they're proud of destroying and shaming their own kind. And I do speak out against that illogical nonsense. I post about it often on social media and being it up in conversations with others in the hopes it opens their eyes.

Respect brother. Keep doing what you're doing and stay strong in these strange times.

[fishcake_buttie]

You too bro... Much love!

[Bitter_Sweet94]

A lot of it comes down to insecurity, not the relationship itself.

Some men feel threatened by the idea of a Black man being chosen because it challenges their ego, their sense of superiority, or the stereotypes they grew up with.

Instead of admitting their own fears or biases, they project it onto the couple.

Mixed race relationships don’t bother confident people.

They only bother the ones who haven’t done their inner work yet.

[beenherebefore]

I think you explained it really well. Thanks for answering.

[msbelli123]

BS... I have never had problems pulling girls, .. I had tons,... but I've never been attracted to black girls. Some people just don't like interracial... so what? that make me insecure?

[fishcake_buttie]

Insecurity, are you insane... We simply acknowledge that the blood of a nation makes it what it is and that race-mixing destroys nations by changing demographics. We simply want our children to look like us and act like us and our grand-children to be the same. Every single person like you will be whinging when your own nation ceases to exist and nothing gets done and everyone is struggling.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

You’re free to have your preferences.

That’s not what I was talking about.

Preference is personal.

Hostility toward other people’s relationships is insecurity those are two different things.

People who are comfortable with themselves don’t feel threatened by how others choose to live or who they love.

They simply move on.

[Anonymous]

Racism and stereotypes, point blank. If you see a couple where the man is black and immediately you are incredibly bothered by them not based on something bad you see him doing, or you hear him saying, or if you saw him actually treating the woman badly, what other tangible reason is there? There is none.

[Summeroflove]

I really don’t have any idea. If someone’s in a relationship with anybody… Simply move in and find someone whose not in a relationship.

It’s possible there is racism behind it or they feel insecure. I do think it’s weird when someone over fetishes race. But then again…. Someone weird wouldn’t be worth my time or energy anyways.

I think it’s more to do with… Seeing two people genuinely happy. When they either can’t find someone or can’t find a relationship that’s happy.

[Rei13]

Some people are weird and not worth the energy

[AviatorTom]

That doesn't bother me at all.

I suppose some guys might be jealous that the guy got a really good girl, one that they would have liked to get.

[eninytxis]

Because they're racist. But unfortunately there are a lot of white women that date or are married to black men that are surprising racist and think black women are ugly and are jealous of them and say very racist things about not just black women but all blacks and anyone that's not white and think white people are smarter and superior to anyone that's not white. And these always seem to be the really hot white girls that date or marry black men. Just look at this post on another site very racist white woman that's married to a black man. She's even calls herself Proudwhitewoman and she claims the Egyptians were white.

Go to archive. org and put this in the search engine.

pridenews. ca/2013/03/13/white- woman-to-black-women-dont- hate-appreciate/Proudwhitewoman
Calling white girls “easy” is pretty ironic, considering the single motherhood rate in the black community. Study after study shows that people aren’t attracted to black women, at the same rates they’re attracted to white, Asian, and Latina women. Even black men don’t respond well to black women on dating websites.

White women aren’t easy to control, and anyone who thinks this, has never dated one. We tend to be conniving and underhanded and play the long game. We may not get in your face like a black woman, but you’ll rue the day you anger a white woman. Dont forget, the courts are almost always on our side.

Black men date white women because they are attracted to them, and because many still view it as a status thing. Black women are jealous of white women. They’re jealous of our status and that men are more attracted to us. I can’t go on Pinterest without encountering black women, for no reason, insulting white women: our features, our hair, our smell. Why? I don’t insult black women on their appearance, because I don’t consider them a threat. They consider white women a threat and that’s why they are always so rude to white women, especially ones who date black men. Also this guy needs a history lesson. The Egyptians weren’t black, and Europeans were taking care of their children and “seasoning food” long before encountering Africans. On top of this, white people were sailing across the ocean, building cathedrals, and writing symphonies while black people were living in huts.

[eninytxis]

Then there this this very racist white woman that's married to a black man that not only thinks black women are ugly and are jealous of white women but says very racist hateful things about all blacks and anyone that's not white and thinks white people are smarter than anyone that's not white.
girlsaskguys. com/social-relationships/q1765000-why-are-black-women-so-hateful-towards-white-women

There's a couple other very racist white women on that question that say black women are ugly and jealous and say get racist things about all blacks and anyone that's not white and that white people are better than anyone that's not white.

[Butterfly38142]

BECAUSE A BLACK MAN IS SIGNIFICANTLY MORE RACIST

I am speaking from personal experience. They worship white girls like crazy in the West and make excuses why they shouldn’t be called out for their racist bias. I was a fan of this black pseudo celebrity Isha Blaaker and kept supporting him but he blocked me when I called out his racist bias. He ignores everyone else but white girls while participating in protests about “innocent man getting killed” They should face what they do to non-white women like myself

I am happy he only gets small roles even when he dreams to play James Bond which is a role he is never going to get and I loved reminding him that his fanbase is mainly black men and women. He is often heard complaining “I don’t get roles because I’m not a white man” Deal with it racist!

[Anonymous]

Because they don’t marry the women and take care of a family. They knock her up, convince her that the government will give her more benefits instead of marrying and that he will help out which is a lie. He will abandon her by the time the two children are age 6 if not a lot sooner and will have other children with other fools during that time as well.

They leave women in poverty and the kids in crappy neighborhoods with bad schools. Even Obama was abandoned and raised by white grandparents which saved him.

[FreyaRed]

I think the bothering is much worse among black guys if attractive black girl dared to date white guys. Even thought possibility ending up as single mother or being a victim violence in relationship is significantly lower in black girl white guy configuration then in white girl black guy relationship

[MecheD]

Some is due to ignorance. But a lot is due to the representation of them from other sources. It’s one thing to say what you like it’s another thing to assume others are inferior to them. That may not be your case but the majority in most situations create the narrative that is pushed.

[jtg13]

From my exposure to the matter is pretty much black women who have the problem with this. It's the erosure of the people. Betrayal to the kind.

Statistically black men date outside their "race" significantly higher. Don't quote me but it's like 65% to 18% compared to black women.
Otherwise I haven't ran into it being a problem.

[Butterfly38142]

As woman who isn’t black, I detest the servitude of black men towards women the granddaughters of their owners

[Joshydavid25]

Mostly the stigma and stereotypes associated with us.. The stereotypes that we're packing in the basement area does intimidate some men, but there's also the negative stereotypes like us leaving women as single mothers, being lazy, weed smoking nobody's, and degenerate, unwashed, thugs..

[Allybear83]

I think it's rooted in the stereotype that black men never stick around after a kid is brought into the equation. They are very absentee parents. It could be a race thing that white men want white women to be with only white men, as most races already practice only being with their own race.

[FunkyMonkee]

I think it's more that we're just so sick of having it forced upon us!! EVERY fucking commercial or movie, these days HAS to have a mixed couple and it's ALWAYS a black guy with a white woman!! Why is it NEVER a Chinese guy with an Indian woman? How about a Mexican guy with an Arab woman?

[Anonymous]

its a penis size thing. White guys fall into 1 o2 categories.

1. Conservative white guys who are intimidated that their girl has been with a black guy before them because that guy was bigger.

2. Liberal white guys who find it a turn on that their girlfriend has slept with or is still sleeping with a black guy.

[Jersey2]

I am conservative but know that D sizes are pretty much the same here. I actually feel bad for the black guy as when the zipper comes down he just doesn’t measure up to the myth :D. It’s awkward I would bet.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 that has happened to me but in general they are bigger.

[Jersey2]

There are many studies out there that say no, there isn’t a difference by race, it’s a myth. Anyway, attached is one of the academic studies that say no:

datasciencemilan.org/...tifically-in-terms-of.html

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 yes studies made by white men.

[Jersey2]

Mmmm, whatever

[Opinion Owner]

@Jersey2 Okay now, sometimes, a man can feel like how long his penis is, is actually important. But is it? When you boys measure your penis length, the truth is it doesn't really matter. What does matter is [starts writing the equation on the board: (L×d)+W/G)/(∠∝(2@t)] Length times diameter plus weight over girth divided by angle of the tip squared, okay? When we're talking about penis size, we can't just use a tape measure. We need a scale.

Example 1: @Jersey2 has a penis that is 4.4 inches in length.
Its angle is 32 degrees. Its flaccid girth is one inch in diameter. His balls are seven centimeters from the base.
@Jersey2 notes that the drift of his penis is four centimeters to penis right, and its dead weight is 0.5 kilograms.
Great! And so divide by the 17. carry the 1, and we can see that @Jersey2's adjusted penis size, or T. M. I., is... 6.3 inches. Do we got that? @Jersey2's length is 4.4 inches, but his adjusted length is 6.3. So how does our example person "@Jersey2" compare to others on the T. M. I. scale? By referring again to the T. M. I. chart, we see that a T. M. I. of 6.3 is.8 inches more than the national average.

[Jersey2]

Troll or not, you are a bit crazy… you know that, right?

[whiskeyontherocks]

I keep getting told this is a issue but I have never met someone that has a issue with it.
I just don’t keep that kind of company.
Racism would be the only reason to hate on them.
Just to hit on the other popular comments-
I wouldn’t call it jealousy because that would likely be directed at any relationship not just mixed ones.
insecure if there insecure because it’s a mixed couple that’s still racist.

[snermcger]

People care? I don't understand how anyone would care? I mean besides your parents. That's just because you will give them a grandchild that looks nothing like anyone in the family. To include you.
I personally could give a rat's who anyone dates. Honestly.

[AngryCarl2]

Probably something about "uppity Blacks comin over here stealin our jobs an our women".

Yeah I don't really get it either.

people gettin angry

[Abbycado]

I'm guessing a good amount of it is because of racism.

[slatyb]

It bothers white men with no social skills who are unable to attract a partner. They think "if only those white women weren't with black men, one of them would be with me." But the wouldn't, they would rather stay single.

[Still-alive]

you probably intuitively know the answer. There's a lot of white racist a holes out there who feel entitled to women and even think they are being replaced. just ignore them though. let em hate

[Pohjolan]

You misunderstood. They are annoyed by women who date a fuckboy without protection and then are upset about not finding a cuck to cover the fuckboys child support.

[beenherebefore]

So you're saying black men are fuckboys?

[snermcger]

70% of black children are created out of wedlock and 48% grow up in fatherless homes.

So, yeah kinda.

[Pohjolan]

@beenherebefore
Obviously not all but its clearly more common among them than say Asians.

[Spencer10]

If it bothers them they are most likely racist. Is there any other real reason?

[beenherebefore]

Clearly racism, I just would like to understand why some men feel so insecure about a woman dating a black man.

[Tonita91996]

I had to block this one guy because he kept harassing me in the comments about it.

[fishcake_buttie]

Because destroying your race and someone elses is EVIL!

[Noredcarpet]

It does? I had no idea, so I can't answer. Just very surprised.

[Jennz6]

Racism, white guys don’t like to see black men with pretty white girls. Black womens don’t like to see black girls with white men and it just goes on and on.

[In_Trance]

This is what the internet would lead you to believe.
If you get offline and go out in the real world you'll see quickly that nobody really gives a fuck about this

[DrPepper12]

Jealousy Racism Ignorance Narcissism Bitterness and all the feels that come with that toxic package of immaturity & bigotry.

[Alex-Snow]

It should not. What does skin color really have to do with things in a relationship. It is the person inside that counts!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Lots of white lads have a five-centimetre (two-inch) c**k and they believe white broads their "property" rather than someone they must woo to get their companionship.

[Anonymous]

I cannot read the minds of other people but I can honestly tell you it doesn’t bother me.

[Anonymous]

They are probably concerned about penis size.

[Anonymous]

Because you can’t see them if the lights are out


Tf should I know

[Tonita91996]

They mad because those guys get the most pussy.

[Tonita91996]

@msbelli123 yes because of jealousy.

[Tonita91996]

@msbelli123 well don’t be jealous don’t your dick isn’t big like theirs.

[Tonita91996]

@msbelli123 yeah we know that the rest of you guys are jealous of black men because they get the most pussy you don’t have to pretend that you get pussy when you don’t.

[Tonita91996]

@msbelli123 you go get a fucking life saying that you don’t care but want to come argue with me over some bullshit. How come don’t comment if you really don’t care. You are a jealous piece of shit because you wouldn’t had respond to my post if the statement wasn’t true. You are jealous because your small is dick.

[Tonita91996]

Your dick is small*.

[Tonita91996]

@msbelli123 alright small dick I don’t give a fuck I don’t have time to waste even reading your bullshit next time you comment I’m going to block you.

[guesswhereivebeen]

Doesn’t bother me… someone has to fuck all those fat white chicks

[jahaims]

I've never met anyone who cares but I don't spend time with trash either.

[Anonymous]

In my country there aren't many mixed relationship. Mostly because there is nothing to mix (mostly Caucasians).

[captain_voidwalker]

Wasn't aware this was a thing, I usually just try to stay out of other people's business

[Anonymous]

There is nothing wrong with that. You like you like you love who you love and that's the end of it. You turning it into a race issue

[Nikki1989]

Racism!

[BarryLiverstone]

Those are insecure guys or racists

[Anonymous]

Does it, or are you just assuming that? It has not been my experience.

[Deserter3]

Collectivist types are weird, they think race mixing is evil

[RxR0954]

probably insecurities

[TonyMetal___86]

Nothing to be bothered of, it's normal...

[OneViewpoint]

I’m a white guy. I have no idea.

[OneViewpoint]

Is it racism? Jealousy? Self pity? Who knows.

[Anonymous]

Maybe different cultures?

[beenherebefore]

I'd say racism.

[loveyouoak]

Because they are jealous of black men.

[msbelli123]

Nah…try again

[WhiteThought]

I didn't know it did bother anyone.

[lilBigPotato]

Insecure

[Northstar84]

If it bothers them it means they’re racist

[LiamJHayden]

Those who are bothered are racists.

[HДLILБΞУ]

It doesn't bother me..

[Ironco]

I don't care one way or the other.

[BlackMaleReaper]

Because his dick is so big other men get upset

[msbelli123]

Dumb question…nobody cares

[roy_ricky09]

Says who?

[beenherebefore]

Oh I've seen it plenty of times men bashing women for being in a relationship with a black man.

[roy_ricky09]

Nope not true... Maybe you saw odd cases, but in general it's not like that

[DavyJ]

Insecurity.

[Sebastian100]

Jealousy?

[Anonymous]

It’s a thug thing

[beenherebefore]

What?