Why do white men and black men avoid black/mixed women?

[Anonymous]

I was just wondering about why they do

[Anonymous]

I've lost my virginity to a black girl so I don't avoid them, but I also don't approach them. Most black/mixed girls I've met aren't into white guys. So, most white guys won't even bother approaching a black woman knowing this. If a black/mixed woman wants to date a white guy, then she should approach.

I also think it's important to note that most white guys aren't into girls (of any race) that speak with ebonics. I don't think most black/mixed women talk like this, but enough of them do to create a stereotype, and this stereotype can prevent a guy from approaching black/mixed women.

So, I don't avoid, I just never bother approaching because I figure if a black/mixed girl wants to be with me she will approach me. If I were to avoid black/mixed girls then that would mean I would run away if she were to approach me, but I welcome the approach. I've dated 4 black girls, 2 white girls and 1 Asian girl... The Asian and black girls all approached me and I had to approach the white girls... even when they knew that I liked them.

[EverythingsAwesome23]

The worst that could h have happen is she says boo. We think men are dull hunters and are more traditional than most millennial and think they should approach us. We mostly think you don't like us or Intuit you are attracted to us but are afraid you wouldn't approach us bc we may look different than your circles OR that it may be just a Fetish OR ur gonna say a lit of weird du m b shit to remind us you're white and we're mixed or black/Indian

[front2back]

We don't avoid them, but we don't approach them en mass, either. Mainly because MOST, keyword: MOST black women don't find white or white-ish guys attractive. There's no point in putting a ton of effort in approaching when you are very disadvantaged from the start. That's honestly why.

[EverythingsAwesome23]

Funny... We feel the same way

[Anonymous]

I am a mixed women and tend to find white and black men attractive but i tend to fall more towards mixed or white guys. The reason I never really approach white guys because i feel like they think that we are all wild, hot blooded, and ghetto. I am nothing like that and feel that most black or mixed women feel this way. So I believe the man should approach the girl at least in these sort of cases.

[bailey321]

I'm a mixed girl that tends to be attracted to white guys. After reading this I feel like I'm at such a disadvantage. I'm a very shy person so I'd almost never approach a guy. Usually only black guys approach me. Don't get me wrong, I like many different ethnicities but after reading this I think I may need to gain some confidence to ever date a white guy.

[madhatters4]

they do avoid them? I don't know if that is true across the board. some people may have preferences and not prefer mixed race people but I don't think it is true at all that white and black men avoid mixed race women

[Rail2k]

I'm white and I don't avoid black or mixed women. I actually prefer mixed, lol.

[Asker]

Well you're cute so.

[iUnderachieve]

I never avoid them.. if anything I feel avoid ha.

People tend to generalize mixed/black women today though especially when it comes to their personality and attitudes towards the male population.

[Forca]

I like mixed race girls of all different races, though I have a thing for half-white, half-black girls but none of those girls are interested in me.

[EverythingsAwesome23]

I doubt they're not interested.

[Aquariusmystery]

I think it’s stereotypes they hear. All the stereotypes label them as loud and mean but every black and mixed woman I’ve met has been lovely.

[Grotty]

I love black women especially the dark skin variety but I only admire them from a far because I am not the kind of man women want to date.

[Anonymous]

White guys know that black women aren't into them. Black guys chase after the those white women trophies.

[DesiBoo]

Im mixed and im into white guys, your argument is invalid.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh sorry. I didn't realize I had to account for every single person. Let me fix it.
Most white guys know that most black women aren't into them.

[DesiBoo]

There ya go.

[ChillWhiteGuy]

I'd date a woman who's half white (northwestern european heritage)/east Asian mixed instead of a woman who's half white and African..

[G-Daz]

I generally prefer black and mixed girls :D

[DesiBoo]

I'm mixed and they don't avoid me.

[Asker]

You're also pretty and don't look black!!

[DesiBoo]

Well I am half black so...

[Goldie757]

Well I'm mixed, I doubt thats why men avoid me.

[Annymous8]

Where did you get that idea?

[Asker]

Personal experience

[Annymous8]

It depends on the mix. I'm mixed.

[EvilPimp]

I don't do that. Where they do that at?