Why do white men find black women unattractive? Why even the mixed ones?

[OlderAndWiser]

Attraction is not a conscious process that we consider and direct in any way. It is wired into us and we are either attracted or we aren't. I can tell you what kind of women are attractive to me - such as petite, cute face, 32A to 34B boobs, small butt, etc. - but I can't tell you WHY those features are attractive to me. And I can't tell you why I am attracted to only some of the races.

I have dated Asian women, Hispanic women, American Indian women, and women from eastern and western Europe, but I have never dated a black woman and I have never had an atraction to a black woman. I can't tell you why but that is just the way it is.

[Anonymous]

I've found some incredibly attractive. I think this is a common stereotype and not really true. If you're basing this on the fact that you never get asked out or guys don't approach, just look at this site even, you're not alone. And it's not just from black women. And it could be this negative thinking and insecurity that is why guys aren't approaching. You know how most women like confident guys? Goes both ways. Insecurities (if you're letting them show or be known) is unattractive. You don't like to see it in guys right? Turn off right? Diddo.

[notwoke]

on average they are less feminine that women of other races. Similar to the reasons that Asian men fare poorly at dating - least masculine males among any race. I think this could be overcome by the more attractive black women, but...

If you are in the USA, roughly 80% of black females are overweight or obese as well. So you have to expect most men will deselect them because of their weight. That being said, a white man has very little chance to come by a highly eligible black woman since in total black women are only 6-7% of the population and those black women who are 'weight eligible" will be highly pursued by the most eligible black men. With all of this being said, you will not start seeing lots of white men with black women anytime soon.

[RolandCuthbert]

Yawn. . . why is this troll posting the same crap over and over and over. . .

[Jamie05rhs]

Simple: you look different from us.

There's nothing wrong with you. You just have different features.

Same with east Asian girls.

We (white men) feel closer to Latinas because the Spanish people who settled in Central and South America were European, and therefore similar to us.

In the same way, Middle Eastern and Central Asian people are also similar to us, because we have common historical ties with a lot of trade and some genetic connections.

And we feel closer to light-skinned African girls -- such as Moroccans -- for the same reason.

[snatchhound]

Well sweetheart not all white men find black women unattractive but ones that do five black women go to tracking have problems or not being at women for what they are we inside they're only looking at color and that s*** wrong because even white women have problems and it can be very unattractive

[ohshee]

I don't know how any man could not save that picture and whoever it is is unattractive because they would be a liar they would be lying to themselves whoever that picture is she is absolutely beautiful only on the outside but on the inside I can see it in her eyes the outside is just an added bonus

[Curmudgeon]

Well, THOSE girls you have pictured certainly are appealing, especially #3. But what I sadly all too often do see is like this (yes, it's a cartoon, but you get the idea). And no, a White lady of similar build as the cartoon certainly is not appealing either:

[Socal99]

You need to fucking rephrase that racist shit. Why do white men find black women unattractive excuse me I'm fucking white and I don't find them unattractive I think they're incredibly sexy and hot. I think a lot of races are fucking hot I don't judge her come across races at all I'm not a racist person and that comment white men why don't you say some white men not all get the fuck out of here with that fucking racist shit we words your fucking shit

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I love women of all races and I am a White guy, I think some Men have issues I had this Biracial girl tell me I looked like her brothers and I figure she was rejecting me yes it hurt me cause she was gorgeous and I emailed her back but nothing back from her

[Browneye57]

They don't. Who fills your head with such drivel?
Every nationality, race, creed, country, all around the world, has beautiful women. It really has little to do with a particular race. There are mixed-race couples all over the world, all throughout history. Time to get over it honey. It's about YOU, not your race.

[oddwaffle]

It's mostly the Hollywood effect. It's the same thing why white men got to be the rich good guys and Asian guy got this math nerd smarty stereotypes.

Oh and fatass friend would be Black or Asian. Hispanic gangster immigrant.

[De_La_BakedBeans]

That's far from the truth. Plenty of white guys find black women attractive, myself included. I would argue that most of us do.

[Dragonpurple]

Totally not true, I find black women extremely attractive.

I even made a move a couple of days ago to a black woman and she ignored me, lol... so I could say she doesn't find white guys attractive... but I'd be lying, she just didn't find me attractive.

I would love to date a black woman.

[Capt_Obvious]

Some do, some do not..
Some like blonds, some like brunets..
Some prefer light, some prefer dark...
Despite this.. we all change.. what we prefer today, will be different tomorrow...
To me... Sounds like its more of a timing thing...

[JustinTheGreat]

I’m a white man and I think every race has attractive people and ugly people. Race is not something I pay attention to when it comes to being attracted to people. There are so many black women who are absolutely beautiful including all the pics here

[whosDmann]

Well I think u will always get a variety of different answers... !! But for arise... I think they find them exotic !!! Now I'm not sure if ur just inquiring for a personal reason ... because I'm pretty sure they find white women attractive , Mexican, Phillipino women... same with other guys... I'm almost sure every race of guys thinks all types of women are attractive..🤷‍♂️

[TommyMountainFigure]

That's not always true. I'm a white man, and I find Rihanna gorgeous.

[MTC29]

Black women? Not in the least. Mixed race women are among the most beautiful of all.

[loveslongnails]

All of those women look beautiful to me, and I'm a white man, so there goes your theory. I actually think Rhianna is the least attractive of the three!! Love the other 2.

[MCheetah]

This is false. The only women those men don't like are ghetto-ass hood rats and MOST men don't like women like that. A classy woman, regardless of race, is favored by almost anyone.

[crmoore]

That's not true. I'd imagine most people find some women of every rave attractive. There may be a few people who have strict racial preferences but they're not reflective of everyone.