Why do white men find black women unattractive? Why even the mixed ones?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

Attraction is not a conscious process that we consider and direct in any way. It is wired into us and we are either attracted or we aren't. I can tell you what kind of women are attractive to me - such as petite, cute face, 32A to 34B boobs, small butt, etc. - but I can't tell you WHY those features are attractive to me. And I can't tell you why I am attracted to only some of the races.

I have dated Asian women, Hispanic women, American Indian women, and women from eastern and western Europe, but I have never dated a black woman and I have never had an atraction to a black woman. I can't tell you why but that is just the way it is.

[Anonymous]

I've found some incredibly attractive. I think this is a common stereotype and not really true. If you're basing this on the fact that you never get asked out or guys don't approach, just look at this site even, you're not alone. And it's not just from black women. And it could be this negative thinking and insecurity that is why guys aren't approaching. You know how most women like confident guys? Goes both ways. Insecurities (if you're letting them show or be known) is unattractive. You don't like to see it in guys right? Turn off right? Diddo.

[RolandCuthbert]

Yawn. . . why is this troll posting the same crap over and over and over. . .

[Jamie05rhs]

Simple: you look different from us.

There's nothing wrong with you. You just have different features.

Same with east Asian girls.

We (white men) feel closer to Latinas because the Spanish people who settled in Central and South America were European, and therefore similar to us.

In the same way, Middle Eastern and Central Asian people are also similar to us, because we have common historical ties with a lot of trade and some genetic connections.

And we feel closer to light-skinned African girls -- such as Moroccans -- for the same reason.

[notwoke]

on average they are less feminine that women of other races. Similar to the reasons that Asian men fare poorly at dating - least masculine males among any race. I think this could be overcome by the more attractive black women, but...

If you are in the USA, roughly 80% of black females are overweight or obese as well. So you have to expect most men will deselect them because of their weight. That being said, a white man has very little chance to come by a highly eligible black woman since in total black women are only 6-7% of the population and those black women who are 'weight eligible" will be highly pursued by the most eligible black men. With all of this being said, you will not start seeing lots of white men with black women anytime soon.

[Flower7]

When you say less feminine, are you more talking about looks or personality?

[DesiUwU]

Boy, what makes you say “less feminine”? You mean ratchet? You wanna go there?

[DesiUwU]

We’re all pretty frikin gorgeous. I’m mixed and I have boys drop dead like flies for me. Usually white boys, since that’s the environment I grew up around.

[bamesjond0069]

@DesiUwU "We’re all pretty frikin gorgeous." <- this is what i call mental instability because clearly obese women are not gorgeous. Id run from any girl who said stuff like this.

[DesiUwU]

@bamesjond0069 being obese is just not healthy, but you can still be pretty and obese

[bamesjond0069]

@DesiUwU no you cannot. Guess you can have dibs on all the 400lb men who can't find their penises since you find that gorgeous. Give me a break. What you actually have is a mental issue.

[DesiUwU]

Lmao dude you’re too extreme. I never said I would date one, I was just saying that we all have our beauty. Ever heard of a personality?

[bamesjond0069]

@DesiUwU personality does not equal beauty or else they would be the same word. Or maybe your a bit shy of a 5th grade reading level?

I love how all you big is beautiful people then say oh wait actually i dont want to date a fatso... smh. Unless you want to be with a "gorgeous" round man with belly rolls and 3 chins you are a liar and you know it and everyone else just thinks you're a total lunatic.

[DesiUwU]

@bamesjond0069 I’m saying it’s not okay to body shame people. Pressure is fucking suicide dude you don’t want to go there

[DesiUwU]

And personality is beauty but you seem to be demonstrating that not everyone has one

[bamesjond0069]

@DesiUwU personality is not beauty. You mean being a liar is attractive? Fortunately most people dont actually think that. you're one of those psychos who would say a brick is a flower just to avoid hurting someones feelings. Thats mentally disturbed. Honesty is the best policy. And fat people are not beautiful. Im personally somewhat grossed out to see an obese person. Thats not beauty. You also miss out that fat people have by default bad personalities. They dont care about themselves and their health (low self esteem), they know they need to workout but dont (lazy), and they know they need to eat less junk food (no self control) and on top of it if they have a mentality about it like you (victimhood and delusion). None of that sounds like a great personality at all but if you find those good characteristics as i said you should date one of these gorgeous beautiful round people because most people won't. But somehow you seemed to dodge that and not want to date a gorgeous person for some reason... if they are so gorgeous why aren't you out there dating your supermodel who you can find in the drive up at krispy kreme?

[DesiUwU]

@bamesjond0069 also u commented on my reading level? That’s low man. I would’ve commented on your IQ if you had one

[DesiUwU]

Also my reply on your comment was: “we’re all pretty frikin gorgeous”, you brought up the obese thing you dumbass. Pay attention to the subject at hand and don’t listen to stereotypes dimwit. Did they not teach you that in school or are you already getting dementia?

[notwoke]

@DesiUwU perfect example of why men "steer away". Entitled and overconfident too

[DesiUwU]

Ohhh you go suck a dick, no one asked you

[DesiUwU]

You just don’t want to hear my opinion cuz I have something good to say

[Dragonpurple]

Totally not true, I find black women extremely attractive.

I even made a move a couple of days ago to a black woman and she ignored me, lol... so I could say she doesn't find white guys attractive... but I'd be lying, she just didn't find me attractive.

I would love to date a black woman.

[whosDmann]

Only black tho... u wouldn't date any other race , even tho they were extremely attractive?

[Dragonpurple]

@whosDmann Oh no, I don't even know what the race of most the women I date or go for is. I don't really care, just the question was focused on Black women, so I answered accordingly.

[snatchhound]

Well sweetheart not all white men find black women unattractive but ones that do five black women go to tracking have problems or not being at women for what they are we inside they're only looking at color and that s*** wrong because even white women have problems and it can be very unattractive

[ohshee]

I don't know how any man could not save that picture and whoever it is is unattractive because they would be a liar they would be lying to themselves whoever that picture is she is absolutely beautiful only on the outside but on the inside I can see it in her eyes the outside is just an added bonus

[Curmudgeon]

Well, THOSE girls you have pictured certainly are appealing, especially #3. But what I sadly all too often do see is like this (yes, it's a cartoon, but you get the idea). And no, a White lady of similar build as the cartoon certainly is not appealing either:

[Socal99]

You need to fucking rephrase that racist shit. Why do white men find black women unattractive excuse me I'm fucking white and I don't find them unattractive I think they're incredibly sexy and hot. I think a lot of races are fucking hot I don't judge her come across races at all I'm not a racist person and that comment white men why don't you say some white men not all get the fuck out of here with that fucking racist shit we words your fucking shit

[whosDmann]

Well I think u will always get a variety of different answers... !! But for arise... I think they find them exotic !!! Now I'm not sure if ur just inquiring for a personal reason ... because I'm pretty sure they find white women attractive , Mexican, Phillipino women... same with other guys... I'm almost sure every race of guys thinks all types of women are attractive..🤷‍♂️

[DesiUwU]

Exotic…that’s…a way to put it

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I love women of all races and I am a White guy, I think some Men have issues I had this Biracial girl tell me I looked like her brothers and I figure she was rejecting me yes it hurt me cause she was gorgeous and I emailed her back but nothing back from her

[Browneye57]

They don't. Who fills your head with such drivel?
Every nationality, race, creed, country, all around the world, has beautiful women. It really has little to do with a particular race. There are mixed-race couples all over the world, all throughout history. Time to get over it honey. It's about YOU, not your race.

[MCheetah]

This is false. The only women those men don't like are ghetto-ass hood rats and MOST men don't like women like that. A classy woman, regardless of race, is favored by almost anyone.

[oddwaffle]

It's mostly the Hollywood effect. It's the same thing why white men got to be the rich good guys and Asian guy got this math nerd smarty stereotypes.

Oh and fatass friend would be Black or Asian. Hispanic gangster immigrant.

[JustinTheGreat]

I’m a white man and I think every race has attractive people and ugly people. Race is not something I pay attention to when it comes to being attracted to people. There are so many black women who are absolutely beautiful including all the pics here

[PositiveNote]

I've not really found it that way. I have friends who have married black women, and I personally find them attractive.

[Capt_Obvious]

Some do, some do not..
Some like blonds, some like brunets..
Some prefer light, some prefer dark...
Despite this.. we all change.. what we prefer today, will be different tomorrow...
To me... Sounds like its more of a timing thing...

[jshm2]

They do?

It's nothing to do with race, more likely culture.

[Asker]

k racist

[ShadezMcgee]

They do find them attractive. You are generalizing a whole race to your believed perception.

[jasco]

That's not true at all. Their are plenty of interracial couples across America alone. So yea white people do like black people. Some of them don't but most do

[Godsvengeance]

I'm a white Male and I grew up in the City of Buffalo and I went to school with many attractive black women. I ran into the opposite; none of the black girls dated any of the white guys