Why do men find black women unattractive?

[Anonymous]

How are any of these girls even remotely "unattractive"?

[Valso]

I don't know what men you've been talking to. The first two are inattractive to me because they've used too much makeup and I hate makeup, especially in large quantities. The third girl is quite attractive, though judging by the way the light reflects from her face, she didn't spare any makeup as well.

Unlike many confederate dicks in the States, I wasn't raised by such people, so I don't suffer from prejudice about the skin color.

There's one girl here (one of her parents is black, the other is white) who is very hot but I'm not even gonna try to date her, cuz it's pointless, I already know what she's gonna say - the same thing all others say, that I'm not rich enough for them.

And there are a few other black girls I like a lot, one of them is an American porn actress - Lindsey Woods. The other women I like a lot are actresses too, though not porn - Corinne Massiah from "9-1-1" and Candice Patton. Candice was quite attractive in and during the first four seasons of "The Flash" (meaning on the show and off of it) but after that she must have gotten bad avices about makeup and now because of that sometimes she even looks scary. I used to like Rihanna too at the start of her career but now I can't even recognize her. If it's not for the inscription "Rihanna" under any picture of hers, I won't even know it's her, cuz she look like a bad case of alcoholism.

[MCheetah]

Nobody finds black women "unattractive" but actual legit racists. What people find unattractive, is ratchet (ghetto) behavior, masculine personality traits on women, aggressiveness, nagging, and being annoying. And due to socioeconomic reasons (as in, cause they're poor), more black women in America are likely to be this than other demographics, although it's just as annoying in other demographics as well, such as trailer trash women.

In general, poor people are seen as less desirable than wealthier people are, due to a mix of physical and personality turn-offs. I grew up poor, so I should know.

[AbbasAlsa]

That actually not true black woman are gorgeous but the actions from one culture to another is can be miss understood; that why behaviors of people, can be different of how the raised up upon is right or wrong.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

I haven't seen any men who found black women unattractive. 🤔

[FilmGuy93]

THOSE black women are extremely attractive. There are a number of extremely attractive black women. Black women who look more elegant/delicate tend to be more attractive. The problem is that the average black woman tends to have more rugged, or masculine features.

Black women also have an unfortunate reputation for being combative and argumentative, so I think that probably scares men off a bit too.

[bamesjond0069]

Exactly. I've dated and been close with a few black women over the years. They were all thin or athletic, none were ghetto acting (ie fake braids down to their calves colored blue, or listening to the most ratchet rap music constantly etc), and they were moderate or conservative politically, no blm or anything like that. Now how many black women meet those basic criteria? Not many. Sure other races have similar issues but fr it's even more proportionally bad for black women, a large amount fall into those traps.

[bamesjond0069]

Also I don't date pot smokers... that's another one.

[DoctorSex]

In my opinion BLACK/COLOURED men look for a value that's deeper than just looks first. Ever watched a nollywood movie? Lol this should be evident.

As an African, I look at all those women in my community that are the pillars of the church/community. I wouldn't say any of them are aesthetically hot. They're respected for their vibrational/spiritual energy.

The western system values aesthetics above spiritual value. If black women buy into the western system, Firstly they aren't white, so only a small section of white men would consider you marriage material and the vast majority of black/coloured men will find you to be Spiritually bankrupt. All other communities are closed circuits for entry apart from those fringe outliers.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[RavVid]

I don't think any of these girls are unattractive and I have also met some spectacular black girls in real life.

But there is something in the pheromones for me that says NO or at least has to this point.

Pheromones seem to be important in mating. As I have said I have met some spectacular black girls and I have felt confusion as to why I haven't been more enthusiastic over them then what I have. It was something to do with their natural scent. And no it wasn't to do with their personal hygine.

[Nik1hil]

Personally I like girls who are pure white like milk and really pale and thin less boobs and ass!..

But I have a friend who thinks Diamond Jackson, is perfect black Beauty! He calls her perfection..

I really don't get the appeal, this makes me realise, attraction is complicated and you just put yourself out there and wait for people who find you physically attractive to say! .

Hey I find you physically attractive..

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Those guys that claim that black woman are unattractive are racist. And not necessarily in a malicious way just unwilling to recognize the beauty in the differences.
As a side note though we saw this as saying “why do men find black woman attractive?” And I was blown away at how gorgeous and adorable they all are and that someone would somehow be able to claim them “unattractive”… 😂😂😂

like you said it isn’t possible. Unless their eyes are clouded in someway.

[Chris_675]

I don't.

I'm White and I used to crush on Zoe Saldana a lot. She's probably Mixed race though. Whenever I see her I want her.

Anyway, my point is that I'm drawn to women of color and kissing a Black woman would be hot.

[menina]

Well, some white guys are attracted to Zoe Saldana because she has Eurocentric features. If her skin was darker and her hair was curly or an afro, I'm pretty sure they wouldn't find her attractive anymore.

[Chris_675]

@menina
I would want Lupita Nyong'o too if it makes you feel better.
It's rare that I see a Black woman where i live so when I do see a fit, cute Black woman I do feel an exotic attraction. I'm curious about her.

[menina]

It's not a matter of making me feel better. I'm just telling the truth.

Well if you don't see black women often I get why you're curious about them.

[Chris_675]

@menina
I have my preferences and Asian women are usually my focus, but my heart is open to Black women if I ever found a connection with one.

[menina]

Ok, that's good. Hope you find your match.

[Chris_675]

@menina
Thanks, you too.

[menina]

You're welcome. Well, in my case it's impossible but thank you.

[Chris_675]

@menina
Why's it impossible for you to find love?

[menina]

Because I'm the wrong place to find it and my "preferences" don't help me.

[menina]

*I'm in the wrong place

[Chris_675]

@menina
What are your preferences?

[menina]

I'm mostly attracted to white men.

[Chris_675]

@menina
You're Mixed race right?

[menina]

No, I'm black. Why?

[Chris_675]

@menina
Oh sorry, I thought I had crossed paths with you before and I thought you were Mixed.
Anyway, as a Black woman is there any specific celebrities that would be an example of your type of White guy?

[menina]

Maybe you did because I remember seeing your username. You probably saw some of my comments.

It's interesting because I've never thought about that. But to give you an example I like Ashton Kutcher.

[Chris_675]

@menina
That's funny because he was actually in a movie with my celeb crush Zoe Saldana called "Guess Who" where I think he was dating her and she had to bring him home to her Black family.
It fits perfectly with our conversation, lol.

[menina]

That's true, I've watched that movie Lol
Yes, that's exactly the story and I agree with you Lol

[Hairylegs222]

Some have that awful ghetto type bad attitude and I absolutely can't stand it. That goes for anyone in general too that are like that. Doesn't matter how she looks, if her personality is like that, no way lol.

If her personality is attractive, then I couldn't care less what her skin color is.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats a myth, also the first 2 women are very physically attractive, and the parts I don't like about the third one is the oval head shape and eyebags (which lots of other guys are fine with), her skin color however, doesn't even matter to me.

[Anonymous]

I have to agree w MCheetah. The image that I grew up w a lot in Cali as well as seeing black women on tv in movies portrayed them as ghetto, attitude, loud, obnoxious, etc. so that’s what pushed me away from them. Especially growing up in a society where rap portrayed a lot of them in a not so good image of hoes, chicken heads, etc. Also seeing it a lot myself growing up, so that was my image of what they were like.

[Berethor]

It not how average black woman looks like, in general white and Asian are better looking.

[Anonymous]

It's not that they are physically unattractive. There are a lot of problems in the black community in the US, and few blacks want to take responsibility for them. They would rather blame everyone else for them. That is a black culture thing, and I think a lot of white guys don't want to be a part of that culture.

[menina]

It's mostly due to racism and stereotypes. You know that in Western countries Eurocentric features are the standard of beauty. Whoever doesn't fit them is considered ugly.

[OrhanKultigin]

I love black women. It is not because their physique, their hot skin tune only. I love their energy, their way of romance as well !

I am Turkish. I don't know whether I can be accepted as white or not.

[Sixgunsound]

Pretty faces are a dime a dozen, pretty hearts are not. Since you’ve provided no information about who these women are, what they are doesn’t matter, at least to me.

[TheNameIsRob]

I don’t think that men find black women unattractive. Maybe it seems that way because some men assume that black women wouldn’t want to date them so they don’t approach them as often.
Those women are hot by the way

[Rosexøxø]

They don’t sis 🙏

#SendingHealingVibesYourWay

[Anonymous]

For the last time. Many men don’t. Some have preferences. I like them just fine.

Once you go black you can’t go back. So I love black girls

[KennethNoisewater]

I don't view any of these women unattractive. I will take this one step further and say the top 2 are showstoppers.

[creationempire]

I find all woman that I'm attracted to attractive. Of course oxytocin accounts for the majority of what makes people attracted to each other. I can zero in on an attractive women with eyes shut.
MRP

[exitseven]

I have known a few black girls that I thought were attractive.

[GrapeApe98]

Only the most racist of racists would find these women (or black women as a whole really) unattractive.

[BJP21]

Say what? Ill date one any day of the week. Single, attractive, compatible, and available. Im not picky because of skin pigment.

[Jamie05rhs]

The girls you showed are beautiful.
Sadly, a lot of black women are not blessed enough to look like that.

[Fuentes]

Actually take a stroll down SoCal theirs alotta black woman who do lol but most women in Cali look good in general. Which why i can't wife nada and wanna smash all n collect money

[Jamie05rhs]

@Fuentes. Yeah, California definitely has hotter people than any other state.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, mu bro is half black and white. He's currently married to a Japanese girl. Personal preference

[es20490446e]

I like black women, and I have already had sex with two.

[Jackblue]

All races have attractive and unattractive people.

[Jackblue]

Honestly many white men say black women are unattractive because they think black women would reject them anyway. Black men may drift towards non-black women because many of them have mommy issues. Those who were raised with single mothers often haven't forgiven their moms for the whoopings they got from them, which among other races would be more the Dad's role.

[KostasKouvalis]

LOL, THAT'S what you call "black"?

[Twalli]

I don't think straight hair works for the third one. The first one is attractive, but I don't like the pose.

[Shy_Steve]

For some reason they are usually more Confident than White Women which makes them look intimidating and Ruder.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Y’all only think black women are pretty when they are Egyptian ( Lightskinned) not Nubian ( Darkskinned)

[TallAnon]

They're not my first preference because the black women I know can be counted on one hand and most on a very superficial level too.

[In_Trance]

Black women are like all other women. Some are good looking, others, not so much.
nevertheless, beauty is subjective

[Anonymous]

Largely depends on the woman but the majority of black women in America are obese.

[Cubus]

These girls you posted are mixed, not Black.

[Anonymous]

Perseonal preferences.

Because dark feet, dark hands, dark underarms and curly hair are not just unattractive but a complete turnoff for me.

This is the pure truth on my part without trying to appease with Political Correctness.

[Anonymous]

They don't, white girls are just EASY. Generally black women know thier worth and demand respect. That's all.

[Anonymous]

I absolutely do not find black women unattractive, I have just never met a black woman who liked white guys.

[Opinion Owner]

I will go one step further and say that black parents are less accepting of interracial couples than most white people i have met.

[EaterPeter]

I don't think most of us are capable of tolerating black woman. We might be afraid or whatever it is

[EaterPeter]

I found some to be very attractive and sexy though for some reason had no courage to take it any further

[Quigly]

Black men that date outside their race have a lot of self hatred.

[Pohjolan]

On average black women are fatter than some other ethnicities.

OP:s examples are more or less in shape.

[ScoobyDooDooDoo]

Reasons. Racism. Anti-Blackness. Brainwashed. Ignorance. Their parents. Their friends. Not being able to think for themselves.

[BLP11520]

They are beautiful, I am white... people are stupid I guess

[Anonymous]

yeah some black women are very attractive like any other race.

[Anonymous]

black women harbor all the bad genes, and those girls in the pictures have some white mixed in

[Anonymous]

Only find the lightskin ones attractive and the darkskin ones unattractive

[Asker]

That's racist lol

[Opinion Owner]

How is that racist? so now preference is racist?

[Asker]

you're saying dark skinned black women are ugly and that you glorify the ones who are closer to white women

[Opinion Owner]

Yes they are not attractive in my eyes just like fat people

[Asker]

Ya so you're racist lol

[Opinion Owner]

okay then let me be RACIST.

[Abdulwahh]

I dont i think a lot is really pretty the first picture to me is a 7 or even a 8 in person.

[Anonymous]

Who said? I find some very attractive, I like the top one and I’m white

[Anonymous]

Let's start with how boiling mad black women are.

[Surely]

Are we supposed to?

[Asker]

You think they're ugly? lol

[Surely]

Not all them! Just like any other skin color.

[John_Doesnt]

Not all black women look like that.

[Andres77]

What men are you talking about?

[aaron210419]

Maybe those men are blind

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

Why gag put this on sexuality?

[swettannie]

racism. black women are beautifull

[dudeinohio]

I consider black women to be very attractive

[Dreamclouds]

I hope you are kidding, i adore them

[Asker]

No, I've seen a lot of men here irl and all over the web say that black women are ugly gross undateable the list goes on :/

[Dreamclouds]

can't agree they have a exotic unique and very intense beauty

[AngryCarl]

What are you on about?

[shortster]

I don't. Women are attractive regardless of race.

[Fuentes]

I like all races from all over

[ItalianKing02]

I find them very attractive