I'm a white guy living in Sydney, Australia and I dated a black girl more than 10 years ago (yes the age on my profile is incorrect, I'm 45). She was originally from Kenya, tall, thin and beautiful smile. African women are among the most sweetest and caring women you can ever meet, in a relationship they make caring for their man a priority. She was loving and affectionate, a great cook and generally fun to be around. The one thing though was that she was not so great in bed, I had to do everything. But she had many great qualities and was a good person. She was marriage minded and I wasn't and I had plans in life and a LTR wasn't going to fit in with them. So I broke up with her, it broke her heart and I felt bad about it. But eventually we both got over it and moved on. A few years after we had broken up, when my mum died, she came to my mother's funeral because she had loved my mother, that's how sweet she was. I have no experience however with African-American women and I think they are different from actual African women. African women come from a completely different and much more traditional culture and so they are very feminine, sweet, responsible and well spoken.
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For some people, that is one reason, but also disapproval from her family and friends, or even other sources. When I had a black girlfriend once, even black friends of mine who themselves were in interracial relationships were angry about it!
In other cases, white guys may assume black women are not interested in them, period. Some people might also be worried that they'd get a rep for not being interested in white women simply because they are dating a black woman.
When you are interested in someone of a different race, I think you generally have to take the initiative
They will claim that we are ugly on here just be the best version of you and the men of all ethnicities will approach you. Be on the thin side if you want white boys to approach. NEVER approach a man that is his job remember you are the prize in the relationship never forget that mentality and you will be fine. I've been married to a white guy for almost 6 years so I know what I'm talking about.
1. loyalty to their own race of women
2. lack of attraction
What's funny is that I've attracted more white men than POC.
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I think it’s because black women are accustomed to the forward ness of black men. White men aren’t forward they automatically assume black women don’t like them. Make it obvious you like him wink, smile you know the routine but if you think he’s going to hop out of his chair and stick his neck out forget it. Last words he wants to hear is beat it whitey
I’m just not attracted to most of them. Like sometimes I can be but its rare I find one I’m attracted to and have the good chemistry with at the same time. This problem occurs less frequently with white and latina/hispanic women. However I’m not above it, I’ve gotten some black womens numbers and it just didn’t pan out.
Well it's up to the individual.
Personally I could care less what race, looks or anything like that.
What I want is my protential partner to get me on a base human level. If you can catch my imagination then looks are a bonus.I see a lot of white men with black women, in fact my neighbors are an interracial couple, then again I live in NY so I suppose it depends on where you live
I would date a black woman for sure.
I live in a rural area and there honestly aren't many here.
They look sexy to me though.Well why dont black girls date persian, pakistani, indian guys? My Same question goes for white chicks too
Most black women don't date outside their race, from the articles I've read they see it as betraying their race. As for white men, only they can tell. Black Women and white women, ON AVERAGE, act differently so the social change may be off putting
I love black women but most black women unfortunately, are overweight.
Not afraid of what people will think. Not attracted to them nothing more to it than that.
A lot of white woman are dating black men or have more sexual attraction to black men and it makes it harder and harder to find a girl whose interested.
There r very less black women around me & all r taken. That's why u don't see me with one😌
Their terrible bitch-ass personality, that's what.
For me i dont have a problem dating black girls. My fathers white my moms black lol
Afraid of getting shot probably.
Because they have small penises
I'm not attracted to them, that's why.
The minum height requirement to ride.
maybe if you stop involving race they would.
How they look and their attitudes
Nothing!
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