If an attractive person of the same gender started hitting on you, how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

Excited and even aroused.

Curious to explore where it leads.

Definitely uninterested.

I'm not sure.

[Vesuvius87]

I would simply say ''Thank you but I'm not interested, bye''. First, I'm not into women and never was. Secondly, I'm married and my commitment is towards my husband.

[Vesuvius87]

I would still decline if I were hit on by another man. No thanks, I'm taken.

[Sabretooth]

so, you don't wanna meet me for drinks? shit! and I spend all the money on whine and an expensive hotel, too! that's some bullshit! lol.

[Vesuvius87]

@Sabretooth You need to seek for single women. I'm married, therefore off the market.

[Sabretooth]

I was kidding.

[msg321]

Where are you from?

[Vesuvius87]

@msg321
Lima, Peru

[msg321]

Ok, thanks when I see your profile pic I thought you may be from North Africa so I wanted to ask.

[Shiprex]

But still curious and flattered. I have had this happen as my best friend was gay and the best clubs when we were in our teens and early 20s were the gay ones. It's nice to be approached as a guy because it's still guys who are expected to be making first moves

[OneViewpoint]

Not interested fer sure. Amused not offended. Wouldn’t want to trash the guy’s feelings. Just, “nah, not my thing dude”.

[Crazzyyworld]

I wish all the guys are like you. So many men are homophobic here

[Anonymous]

3 questions about the same thing in a row? Must be the every girl is bi troll

[HawkPerception]

I'd honestly feel uncomfortable thinking "What made them think I was gay? Was it in the way I dress? The way I carry myself? Did I sound gay?"

I'd be kind and say something along the lines of "I appreciate that, but I don't swing that way." Then I'd get outta there asap.

[Finchie40]

I experienced this a few times and I just smile and say sorry I am straight , but I’m flattered you find me attractive. And then I walk away. Only one gay guy didn’t take No for an answer and kept coming at me and that’s when I got pissed off and started being rude and creeped out by him. I actually reported him to my boss and said he isn’t backing off , He ended up getting fired for sexual harassment.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Uninterested.

I'd laugh, tell him I only like women, and that would be the end of it.

I'd be fine remaining friends with him so long as he never hits on me.
The moment he does though, I'm gone.

[NathanDavis]

it happens... no big deal, I just let them know that I don't swing that way... lol

and that's it

[Pet68]

Completely uninterested. I'd just deliberately ignore it, pretend I couldn't see the "signals" (and that wouldn't be hard, because most of the time I don't see them anyway).

[DizzyDesii]

Like im straight and they should get away from me with the gay shit

[Joshydavid25]

Well, it's happened before, and while it was somewhat flattering, I'm still not attracted to men..

[RandomUser1000]

Probably somewhat flattered. But uninterested in it leading further.

[msg321]

as a straight man attractive men or unattractive men don't differ. Attractive women and unattractive women differ.

[Anonymous]

The same as if the opposite gender did it
I look hideous so this clearly a scam or a hooker

[Nikki1989]

I already have a girlfriend.

[Puppystarfish23]

I've had it happen and I just laugh it off

[Jessie1103]

I’d be aroused.

[Gymrat01]

Ask her out on a date.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Probably uncomfortable

[nicfire171]

I’ve been in this situation. It’s flattering tbh

[blackeagle007]

I’m into women. Sorry!

[mynameismynamecuz]

Assaulted and prob harrased

[foxsquirrell]

Offended.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Strange.

[Anonymous]

Suspicious.