Do you think women tend to end relationships over small petty things?

[Steve-the-lion]

If you were to ask a bunch of men why they dumped their girlfriend, you tend to get answers like, "She cheated" or "She was always starting arguments for no good reason." But if you were to ask a bunch of women why they dumped their boyfriend, you tend to get answers like, "I just got bored in the relationship" or "He wasn't giving me enough attention" or "I just mysteriously fell out of love with him."

It's the same when going on a first date. If a man goes on a date with an attractive woman but then decides not to see her again after the date, it's usually for a very good reason. But when a woman chooses not to see a man again after the first date, she tends to give reasons like, "He was too nice" or "I didn't like his shoes" or "He was wearing too much aftershave" or "He admitted that he has been single for 5 years" or "He never made enough eye contact."

The point I'm making is that a man can be good looking and a really decent guy, but he can be disqualified over the most minor, insignificant thing. It just seems that women overthink things and don't see things the way men do. They come across as being very picky and fickle.

[Summeroflove]

I think that a lot of people don’t give the real reason for breaking up. Either they weren’t overall happy, they have found someone else, or they sensed that you were going to break up with them so in order to feel as if they have the upper hand they did it.

I think if someone truly loves someone they aren’t going to break up over something petty. Also if you’re asking random people questions I don’t blame them for not wanting to get too deep into it. It doesn’t matter maybe he cheated, maybe she lost interest, maybe there was a lot of fights, etc. It’s mature to break up if you’re not happy rather then string someone along or cheat.
I honestly think not being happy is a very valid reason to break up not only for your own sake but the other person as well so both can find someone new

As far as being superficial with the dates. Those women are doing you a favor not wanting to go out with you again I don’t want someone whose like that anyways they will be the ones anger when the kind or men they want don’t end up picking them in the end.

Not everyone is attracted to everyone. If you don’t feel attracted don’t only not waste your time not their time either. Cowards are the ones who waste someone’s time. String them along. Not give a direct answer. They don’t need to give a long exclamation either sometimes it’s as simple as there wasn’t much attraction.

[Anonymous]

Yes, women are petty in general. The take the smallest thing and blow it up for the whole world to see.

[abbyjgriffin98]

Look, I can't speak for all women, but I can speak for myself. And I ended my relationship because he cheated on me. I don't think that's small and petty. And if these are the only women you seem to be dating, that shows much more about your character than women, as a whole. And don't play that battle of the sexes thing on me, because I'd tell women who only seek out low quality men the exact same thing.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

So when it's a guy ending things based on preferences they are valid but when a woman does it, it's shallow? Make it make sense.

[Steve-the-lion]

Go back and read what I said. You obviously didn't pay attention

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Then explain it differently because that's how your diatribe comes off as

[Steve-the-lion]

No, go back and read what I said. All the details are there.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

So you have nothing new to add. Got it.

[Steve-the-lion]

All the details have already been given. You just haven't bothered to pay attention.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Uh huh, sure.

[ohsheeT]

Of course they do but it's five millions of those little things that add up and they just don't want to take it anymore

[Anonymous]

It really depends on the woman. SOME women are petty.

I will say this. Those types of women will be in one relationship after another though. So if you vet her at all it'll be very obvious very early.

[Anonymous]

Another shallow misogynist.

[Steve-the-lion]

Your intelligence just blows me away lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you.

[Summeroflove]

Pink anons are just very intelligent and beautiful

[Opinion Owner]

@Summeroflove stop, I'm gonna fall in love.