So there a poster her whose fiance literally bought her an engagement ring, said he wants to get married at the courthouse in 3-6 months then have a big wedding next year. You know what the woman poster does? She comes on here and ask everyone is his timeline appropriate and if he's doing things right? I really feel sorry for good men because they're damned if they do and damned if they dont. This is why men are literally going their own way.
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I really don't understand the logic between nitpicking at your spouse. The man is literally gave you the engagement 💍, planned the wedding yet she's still looking for a reason to complain. Ladies please see a therapist. this is definitely a mental illness
Agree or disagree: The majority of relationships end because women sabotage through jealousy, scooping, comparing, and allowing outside influences?
Agree. But it can go both ways as well , but statistics show females’ are more likely to end relationships and marriages more than males’ do , Why so many men these days do not want to get into relationships with girls’ , A majority of females’ today think grass is greener on the other side , and she thinks she needs to be catered to at all times. If things don’t go her way , she runs to someone else because sadly to say , most females’ are vulnerable compared to men. Men just want to feel respected and loved and valued he wants to be her top priority the same way he makes her his , it honestly doesn’t take much for us men to feel satisfied and content but , for a girl to feel satisfied and content , her list is a lot longer than a guys’ list. When we have a beautiful loving girl by our side , that wears our shoes the same way we hope she wears ours , we cherish her and love her and want her all to ourselves , we become blind to other girls’ that hit on us because we know we already have an amazing girl by our side , if we don’t have an amazing girl by our side , that treats us like shit , or that is completely disrespectful to us , and selfish towards us , we will not be blind to that other girls’ , because we don’t get praised like most females’ tend to , so , when we do get praised , we hold onto that moment for a long time , where girls’ get praised all the time from thirsty men , so she knows she has her pick of the litter , we also don’t receive compliments as much as most females’ tend to , especially if she is beautiful and has a great heart , a lot of guys’ will want her. Masculine men do not want to be with a girl that treats him like a convenience or an option , he wants a girl that makes him feel valued and wanted and respected , if he doesn’t receive that from her , he will feel hurt and betrayed by her. Which could lead him to leave her or cheat on her for a girl that makes him feel valued and wanted. Most men will not cheat on a girl that makes him feel valued and wanted and respected, a girl that makes him her top priority and removes selfishness for him , that doesn’t hesitate to be in his arms , that doesn’t hesitate to be intimate and affectionate with him. If he has a girl that does that for him without him having to ask , and he still cheats on her? He is the POS selfish loser that doesn’t deserve anyone, sadly a female can have a loving caring loyal guy , that works hard that stays loyal and faithful to her , but if he isn’t perfect in her eyes , she will be vulnerable to another guy that has more status than her partner does , or makes more money than her partner does , A lot of females’ only want what’s best for herself , she doesn’t know how to give the same way she wants to receive , she doesn’t know how to make her partner her top priority , she chooses friends over her partner , A guy will only choose his friends over his partner , if he isn’t feeling respected by her , He will take as much space as possible from her, if she is constantly on his case about things. Most females’ assume men are mind readers , we aren’t fucking mind readers whatsoever , we just want to feel respected , and loved and valued , and if we aren’t receiving that from her , then we will not respect her period and probably be open to receiving it from another girl. Selfishness is one of the biggest relationship killers , We don’t get into relationships to be single , sadly a lot of people do and they wonder why they can’t last in a relationship, it’s because they are selfish and only care about themselves. Learn to remove selfishness because every single one of us has selfishness inside of ourselves , So remove it for your partner the same way you want them to remove it for you and I guarantee you will have a longer lasting loving relationship with someone , If you can’t remove it , stay single and realize you don’t deserve anyone , your partner should be your partner in crime, through the good times and the bad , You both work as a team and not against each other , you are a package deal , if your partner decides to start prioritizing everyone else but you? Walk the other way and tell them to Go fuck themselves , just like I did to my ex , who decided to become selfish and only started caring about what is best for herself and started treating me like a convenience, so she became my convenience as well.
I picked agree. The newest stat is that 80% of women now initiate divorce... It's just going up from where it is and I wonder if it will get to 100%. I doubt it because the men who do it are getting cheated on and that is almost 100% of the reason they initiated a divorce.
Women have a real bad habit of finding problems that wouldn't even exist if they didn't make them a problem. This is what usually happens...
He will lose contact with his friends and family... she will party with her friends and find some strange. That's it... it's so fucking simple that a retard could color the entire coloring book in under 30 minutes. That challenges to the relationship are usually brought on by the female side of things.
Shit... to get deeper into it why even when that's not the case... it's usually a reaction to shit she's doing. For instance, I finally became a cheater that don't give a fuck... how though? Because I kept getting cheated on. Something broke and now I don't give a fuck... I'll fuck every woman that moves and rub it in her fucking face. Being faithful and honorable didn't get me jack shit. Being a fucking dick got all the respect. Which is fine... I'm a fucking dick now and don't give a fuck. This is what works better than trying to do anything right. Dick head ass hole me don't get cheated on. I make women pay for dates and lick my butthole. I spit in their mouth. You'd have to tell me why this is working better than when I paid for everything, simped out, and tried to capitulate to everything they wanted.
At this point, I just know what works, and what doesn't.
With all that said, obviously I'm not going to really treat a woman like shit that isn't testing me like that. I wouldn't shit on a good deal. But, Yes, the majority of relationships end because women sabatoge through jealousy, scooping, comparing, and allowing outside influences. Especially outside influences. All these crazy bitches ending relationships over Trump winning an election is a perfect example of that.
But men also spoil it by asking unnecessary questions and thinking of thongs out of nowhere... like... u were getting too comfortable with him... why was he touching u that way... why he has to be ur close friend... why do u need to go out with men (ur friends group) n so on... relationships are built on trust n that is the most imp factor of any relationship... trust comes even before love
I m saying its not always women who r not being reasonable... many relationships end because of men as well specially if a man is unreasonably possessive
Overthinking or listening to outside influences can definitely kill a relationship. Insecure people have the tendency to self sabotage their relationships I guess.
It's crazy I really don't get it. She didn't complain about him cheating, abusing her, nothing just this searching for ways to compare and contrast so she can ridicule the guy. Sad
Sounds like a bad chase of overthinking for sure, or maybe she’s doubting her feelings for her fiance? But honestly we don’t know what’s truly going on in other people’s relationships so we can’t judge too quick.
I think I saw the post that you were referring to. I don’t think she’s nitpicking on her man though, but she does seem like she’s a bit unsure or maybe having second thoughts
Your question dives into the wonderful chaos of relationships! 🎉 While jealousy and outside influences can put a relationship on a rollercoaster ride, it’s not fair to pin it on just one gender or stereotype. Relationships crash and burn due to a whole spice rack of reasons: miscommunication, unmet needs, red flags waving like parade flags, etc. Everyone, regardless of gender, has the potential to be their own beautiful chaos-maker. Let’s embrace the complexities and find ways to strengthen our connections. 😉
It does go both ways but I do feel sorry for people when someone is genuinely a good person and they put on a front as if they are amazing. Only to find out when they already got you who they really are.
The women who sabotage themselves just let them do it, it’s better then them wasting a decent man’s time and energy. The same as men who sabotage themselves as well
They are simply miserable people who cannot form genuine connections anymore due to various reasons mostly due to their own choices in life. A lot of people use past trauma as a excuse for them to inflict their own traumas on people. It’s not okay at all and it’s nothing but a excuse because they do have control over their own actions.
A lot of people play games that chase off the decent men who want a legitimate relationship and end up attracting on one extreme bums, turds, losers, weirdos, creeps, etc, and on the other extreme players, fuckboys, and that type of guys.
The men who genuinely have something to offer aren’t going to waste their time on a pathetic entitled bitch who thinks people owe her something while having zero of value to offer in return. If all she has to offer is sex then that’s the kind of men she will attract are men only looking for that.
Playing games such as hard to get men of value know that if a woman genuinely wants him she’s not going to play games when he’s direct. Most of the men who are going to pursue her are the men who cannot take no for a answer and the men she genuinely is rejecting.
Then when she sees someone in a happy relationship she becomes envious and jealous. She wants to destroy that relationship and try to cheat with the guy she’s with if she can.
These are only some examples not all women are like this. But just let them be self destructive and not take anyone else down with them.
Majority of the relationships ends because of: - not meeting each other needs (read: not enough sex - usually for him) - lying - lack of trust - craziness of one of the partners (usually her) - not providing enough money for the household (usually for her)
i feel like this is very true i like this girl who is to shy to even talk to me and at least one of her freinds dislikes me from what i can tell so far and she spends the most time with that freind that has the biggest influence in her life
i don't entirely disagree with this. but i think the underlying reason is that traits that lead to this sort of behavior are also the traits that evolved to be really effective at succesfully rising a child.
I was gonna go on a deployment to Japan, I told her that if our relationship lasted the 10 months I was gone I would come back with an engagement ring with her name on it. She loved the idea.
However she got insecure and assumed I’d do the worst. So she reached out to a bunch of guys (all who wanted to get in her pants) asking them what they think I’d do. And of course they told her I’d cheat. Because they knew influencing her to think this would result in her breaking up with me, leaving her single and available.
So she did. Fast forward she now has a kid. And the last time we spoke was earlier this year and she admitted that she regretted letting me go and wished she had the kid with me and not the guy she’s currently with 💀
Wow!!! I make these post for other women so they can stop getting on their own way but that get mad and say "you're a man! You're a woman hater!" Uh no, I see the hypocrisy in our community and how often self sabotage occurs yet these ladies are damn near 40 asking " does he like me? Will he ask me out again?" They don't listen. I'm sure that guy she with knocked her up and treats her like crap
Yeah my ex was younger than me. She’s 24 currently. But it’s crazy. To hear how she apologized over the phone, she probably was expecting me to take her back out of sympathy.
Nope. I told her,
“I care for you in the sense I want you to have a good life. But that will definitely not involve me, you had your chance to have me as your life long partner. But you blew it. Sorry but that’s just how things turned out. I guess what you can do is learn from your mistake.”
She cried a little. To some extent what she did REALLY changed me. It opened my eyes to a lot of very troubling trends I see in the dating scene. Because the problems I faced with her I see many relationships having. I may come off and have been accused of being spiteful towards women. But objectively speaking I’m just critical, hell I even call out other men for doing fucked up things. Because yes, men aren’t innocent either. There’s lots of things men do wrong as well.
Women today want men to uphold their traditional gender roles while they be whoever they want to be and they'll only date men who makes only six figures.
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