How often do toxic women in relationships blame their partners and break up?

[Anonymous]

Like does anything ever change down the road or does the pattern continue. I ask because I’m going through this now she’s verbally and physically abusive and decided today that’s she’s not compatible with me. Most people only know what she tells them they don’t know about the abuse she does to me she plays victim and villainizes me to both her friends and family so this relationship has ended with me getting verbally and physically abused plus a bunch of people disliking me for no reason based on lies and manipulation

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This girl has always carried a superiority complex with me that she has felt she was better than me

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry you had to deal with that honestly. The LGBTQ+ and modern day feminism ideologies/agenda have warped female minds where women think acting that way is acceptable, it’s not, it’s despicable. That girl you mentioned is a loser, be thankful it’s over. Block contact with her, delete any emails or pics of her on your phone, everything. I really do hope you meet a terrific gal one day where she treats you with respect and you and the new girl of your life have respect for each other and it’s a healthy relationship. Good luck, chin up, you dodged a bullet.

[mattclark242]

I don't know. I know scam artst do it a lot.

I get that women are good at manipulation women are super good at manipulation.

maybe one day she understand what she did wrong.

I sorry you had to deal with it just say safe and try do better.

[On_cloud_wine]

why I do t have many girlfriends. The majority I’ve met are like this and I get fed up and detach myself quickly

[Anarcamus]

Honestly, it doesn't matter about gender here. This person sounds Toxic outright.

[Asker]

She has smacked me in the back of my head twice now and has tried to play it off as a tap to her family she also has gotten up in my face pointing with her finger

[Anarcamus]

well I would say try to stand up for yourself, without being physical.
next time she gets in your face, remove yourself from the situation.

[Asker]

I do stand up for myself I call about the abuse, she grew up in a violent household where her mom and dad beat on each other and her previous boyfriend sexually abused her by manipulating her into performing sexual acts. Ok with all that being said I told her that I won’t tolerate this it’s sad about the stuff you been through but you won’t recreate your parents relationship with me

[Anarcamus]

Then remove yourself. doesn't mean end the relationship but make a point to stand by your word.

[Asker]

That’s not acceptable to her cause she said she wasn’t gonna stop and she ended the relationship

[Asker]

Cause I’m on the spectrum and certain things about my autism she doesn’t want for her future husband she said

[Anarcamus]

Then does she really care?

[Asker]

No she doesn’t but honestly I’m beyond it my sister says she’s ruining my life

[Anarcamus]

well in what ways?
Let's think that way really.
your sister isn't dating her, so remember your sister still only hears one-half and also is going to favor protecting you :-)

[Asker]

No my sister is very objective she has heard both sides

[Asker]

She had heard how she talks to me and was like that’s not ok

[Anarcamus]

you mention autism, want to expand?

also, your sister is going to protect you... when did she last hear him talk to you?
When did she last talk to him?

people grow and I don't know how long you two were together...

[Asker]

So I have Asperger’s basically there’s a lot of behaviors that my then girlfriend would ridicule me for also her family would as well and just say I’m making excuses and her mom’s boyfriend was like don’t call him autistic and I was like but I am I can definitely show my paperwork that I have a diagnosis. My sister was with me when I got diagnosed in 2010 she’s aware of my behaviors but she’s also aware of my strengths too. So the ex girlfriend basically would guilt trip me or try to make me feel bad for doing any of the stuff that I would usually do that was a part of my Asperger’s like repeating phrases or even things like my ocd I would wash my hands and she would say you do that intentionally just to mess with me and ultimately it turned into a situation where it felt like bullying because im different. I and my sister tried to get her to read books to better understand but she wasn’t interested they would just collect dust. The final conclusion was she doesn’t want her future husband to be autistic and she doesn’t want the possibility of passing autism genetically to her children.

[Anarcamus]

That's unfortunate

[Asker]

So now has your perception changed

[Anarcamus]

What do you mean?

[Anarcamus]

Not changed, you seem functional

[Asker]

No I mean to how she seems hateful and a bad person like she literally said she didn’t want someone with my struggles in her future implying I’m inferior to her

[Asker]

This has been another common theme in the relationship she treated me like I’m inferior because if my disability

[Anarcamus]

Hey it happens. I'm not sure of all the details here honestly. It sounds bad but maybe this only one perspective

[Christoff92]

Assuming great amount. a lot of them come from oppress families even families that think that they're all up there. Pretty much Supremacy 😬🫤

[shades777]

Asking a woman to be completely honest about the details is like searching her home without a warrant

[Anonymous]

Same as toxic men. It is always someone's else fault.

[inhua]

toxic men don't blame their girlfriends. they just beat their girlfriends

[Anonymous]

Been there, done that. Bro, turn your back and run, and never look back. Women like that are a dime a dozen, and they will always be toxic.

[inhua]

all the time

[LazerBean]

Probably always.

[Anonymous]

Lol move on

[NATesque]

Often