Why did women ruin dating and relationships?

[AnusNdaPainus]

And I’m asking women because they give the worst dating/relationship advice ever

[NathanDavis]

a boy, is what you still are... leave dating to the actual men

what you could use advice on is... on growing up, and do that properly

but even that could be very much futile... you could always bring the donkey to the river, but you won't make it drink...

[AnusNdaPainus]

Go sit under a rainbow and write poem fruitcake.

[NathanDavis]

right.. truth can sting
here... help yourself

[IslaTheWitch]

@NathanDavis
LoL

[AnusNdaPainus]

Don’t get mad at me because you’re over 30 and the minimal testosterone you had is depleted

[NathanDavis]

are you this resentful with your mother... lol

poor woman...

[AnusNdaPainus]

“ he said as his body flooded with estrogen “

[NathanDavis]

says the guys that refers to other men as "daddy"

[AnusNdaPainus]

How do you know what a dad is when yours clearly wasn’t around you nutless tool

[AnusNdaPainus]

Why are you so intimidated by me

[Anonymous]

Women are judgmental. I'm sure this comes as no shock to you. But women are so judgmental that the woman you ask advice to will look at you and then look at the women you're interested in and then she'll make a judgement on whether you should be together. And If she judges "no" then she will actively work against you. She will deliberately give you bad advice. This is just one of the reasons you NEVER ask a woman for dating advice.😆

[AnusNdaPainus]

Is that single mothers raise single mothers?
Because young girls are easy to manipulate they don’t know what they want, they don’t know how to vet/treat a man , and they fear that even if they get one they can’t keep him

Because I learned recently that some women envy their daughters and see them as competition

So are they just giving them bad advice on purpose?

[Opinion Owner]

Probably only the ultra toxic ones. I think most regardless will still take their own kin over some man. After all it's probably the only person who's ever truly loved her. I don't think they give them bad advice on purpose. If you have no idea what a quality man looks and acts like you cannot teach your daughter. And since she has no quality male role model in her life. She relies on things like pop culture to tell her what a man is... I can't possible see how this could fail.😆

[AnusNdaPainus]

Well most men want young looking women because they’re prettier and time isn’t on women’s side

But women still don’t want to die alone and if they haven’t used their best years to secure a decent guy then how else can they compete with younger women?

[Opinion Owner]

Looks are ALWAYS going to be a factor for both genders at every age. But you'd be surprised how much having an attractive personality can improve a person's physical appearance.
Most of these women have no idea what anything I just said means. Because they've always relied on their outward appearance to net them anything they need. Because no one has told them they have any other value to society. This is what FATHERS do! Or father figures, strong male role models. This is why these women are typically angry all the time is they are born and raised thinking they have to manipulate a man using feminine wiles to get what she wants and when that fails her she just hates men. Because men have become what her mother (who was the same) told her they always were. Not realizing they're both wrong. Just neither her or her mom know what a healthy, loving, caring relationship is or looks like. These women can trick young men. But most guys mature and realize these women's toxicity.

[IslaTheWitch]

Could you please provide some additional information so we can relate and discuss based on facts, not assumptions?

[AnusNdaPainus]

No because I won’t get a direct/genuine answer if I add details women will respond with feelings

[IslaTheWitch]

As I'm data-driven, I can't answer without concrete information. And generalisation doesn't help in any healthy discussion, so I pass.

[AnusNdaPainus]

What aren’t you understanding

[IslaTheWitch]

I need examples for "the worst dating/relationship advice"

[AnusNdaPainus]

Making a man wait for sex.

[IslaTheWitch]

Sex is an interaction that needs the consent and readiness of both sides. If person A is not ready or not sure if even wants sex with person B, then, of course, will make person B wait. It's given. Why should we do things we don't want or aren't ready for?

[AnusNdaPainus]

No no no stop with semantics
Women aren’t dumb they know Men want them for sex

[IslaTheWitch]

AFAIK most men have much higher aspirations, but I leave it to them to prove the point :D

[AnusNdaPainus]

Not when it comes to dating
Any man that takes you out or asks you out
It’s because he wants to have sex with you

Telling women to wait is a fear based tactic that teaches women that sex isn’t enough to keep him and at the same time it’s all he wants

[HelpfulWoman]

@islathewitch
exactlyy. looks like this dude just wanted incels to agree with him over any meaningful conversation. A bit in the vain of anti-vaxxers

[AnusNdaPainus]

@HelpfulWoman sorry for hurting your stupid little feelings

[HelpfulWoman]

who's getting emotional instead of sticking to facts now?

[YAsQuen]

@HelpfulWoman he is saying the reason men and women come together is sex. He is looking at evolutionrily were reproduction is the only goal.

Also its kinda true? Men might not actively think me penis u vagene while crossing the bar but thats what sub conscious is for amirite.

[AnusNdaPainus]

@YAsQuen yes exactly
We cannot notice a woman’s personality from across the bar we notice those cheeks because men are visual

Listen to how men talk when one of them gets a new woman

What do his friends ask first “ WHAT DOES SHE LOOK LIKE!”

[HelpfulWoman]

Ah yes, because Andrew Tate's advice is good?

[AnusNdaPainus]

Who said anything about Andrew Tate?

[HelpfulWoman]

"women give the worst dating advice ever' yet people like Andrew Tate exist. Therefore disproving the statement.
I thought that was fairly obvious?

[AnusNdaPainus]

How exactly do those two things relate?

[Zionne]

It’s not that women ruined dating, dating got harder because of changing norms, social media, and mixed expectations on both sides. Blaming one gender oversimplifies it, the real issue is people giving advice based on ego, insecurity, or drama instead of healthy communication.