Are women to blame for the failure of modern dating?

[Anonymous]

I’ve had probably a thousand matches over time and not a single one materialised. Yet women claim they are just looking for a ‘nice/genuine guy.’ No they’re not!!

They’re looking for something that doesn’t exist, or so far out of reach for them. Most guys are actually nice, they’re just not ALL super rich, 6’5, super models, and jacked like they think they see is common on social media

Women are too greedy. Till they have to settle at 30, when they’re already old. Women, they oversell themselves. Think they’re 10X what they are, they have failed us.

For example, No girl would’ve obsessed over JB if he wasn’t JB. It’s all about status/fame and just being too much of an outlier

I am already exceptional with a big future and struggling. The whole dating game is so dead and boring. When I’ve rejected women - it’s for a good reason.

Women are to blame

Women aren’t to blame

[777GgG]

I'm sorry. I don't mean to sound rude, but do you hear yourself? you're calling women greedy, failures, shallow, and old... And you're wondering why no one has picked you? You've said you exponential with a big future and still haven't found a woman who sees that? Or cares. So obviously they're not greedy or shallow?

I'll say that women reject men for a number of reasons. Sometimes it something you say or do. Or how you respond to a certain situation.

I was dating a guy and I was talking about a show I enjoy. He called it stupid and childish. That was all the reason I needed to walk away.

I talking about my writing hobby on a date and was lectured about how most people don't succeed in that field and that i should consider a different career. There wasn't a second date.

I told a date how I felt about adoption and he told grossly disagreed before I could tell him I was adopted.

Not saying these men aren't entitled to there opinions or beliefs but if they don't align with mine then why continue speaking? It doesn't make either of us failures just means we're not compatible.

I'm sure there are similar reasons that you've rejected women. Lack of compatibility doesn't mean someone is to blame.

[PeachyPie93]

No one likes a "nice guy" being nice comes off as cheesy. So just be your normal regular self and never act too into her or like you're 100% for her in the beginning stages.. Let things flow naturally, since sometimes its not meant to be.

[ohsheeT]

No it's called blame a guy gets turned down
Now the guy spreads , Rumors , they lie Somebody always is lying or cheatand that's where it restarts. The finger pointed the blame.
All because someone gets butt hurt

All the above woman to it to
It's just like this question. You know how guys are. You know how you are. And I would think you would know the answer. But only if you were honest about it.. and to answer your question. More men fuck this more than Women. But women are getting smart. They can only be use so much and they catch on. Hate to tell you they don't need a man. And they are going to start making the rules.

I'm sure there are a lot women that are like me I don't get cought up in drama this this so they don't think that way but the ones that do will change everything... and forgot reason

vice Aversa

[Anonymous]

Largely, but not completely. Dating today sucks for three primary reasons:

1) Feminism has destroyed gender relations and created distrust and animosity between men and women.

2) Related to #1, women have completely reset expectations about casual sex, creating the so-called hookup culture we have now. Men now expect casual sex and will move on from a woman who won't "put out" because they know the next one will. That's what dating has become. Women looking for a real relationship are out of luck.

3) Technology and online dating have changed dating for the worse. Dating apps are really just hookup apps.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. Women are to blame in the sense that they wanted equality but didn't really understand what the word EQUALITY meant. They're not to blame in the sense that men kept conceding power to them to the point where they decided they didn't need men anymore. Now with many lacking in plain logic and a history of making one poor decision after another, many of these women have painted themselves into a corner of unhappiness. And since a man cannot tell these women anything. Men have to sit and just watch her tangle herself up more and more.

[Zack-Bann]

Pretty sure if you botched 1000 matches it’s in you
1000 girls gave you a shot and you blew it


I say this lovingly: your niceness is not even worth it’s weight in tin nevermind gold


This world isn’t for the “nice”


The sooner you learn that the happier you’ll be


So be true. Unapologetic. Challenging


And girls will not be able to deny the appeal


Forget the 6 foot bullshit
It’s just a cope


You’re the only obstacle

[unknowngurll1212]

It’s not about blaming anyone. Everyone has their own expectations, and dating can be tough for both sides. It’s about finding the right connection, not just checking boxes. Keep being genuine, and the right person will appreciate that...

[Anonymous]

Haven't seen you for a while. I was worried your therapy was working. Perhaps 5 days a week isn't enough. You'll need to find one who is available on weekends as well.

[Anonymous]

I went with woman are to blame but to be clear it's not 100% their fault I just think it's more there's than men's these days. in my opinion it's about 70/30 maybe 60/40 if I'm being generous. Men these days are obviously a big part of the problem too because I think one of the core issues is how selfish our society as a whole has become but from what I've seen most of the blame is on woman.

[QuestionObsession]

Women are not to blame because men invented social media and the whole online attention economy and women are just stupid attention whores. What man invented for his greedy selfish monetary gains has corroded women's brains with instant dopamine and has bitten men in the ass.

Women are intelligent but stupid when it comes to emotions and self esteem. They are like a bottomless pit of attention hoggery. Not all women but 99 out of 100 for sure.

[Agape93]

Ahhh blaming us again. If I had a dollar for everytime you did this I could pay your rent for you.

[unknowngurll1212]

lol gurl

[Agape93]

Not even kidding. This dude posts constantly. He doesn't listen. He just bitches and lies. Hmm I wonder if he's Trump 🤔

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I think you need a break from the modern world, I'm your trip advisor:

certified by Nasa

[RedInnocent69]

Because of all the hookers in Belarus and Dubai?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Because modernity is exhausting

[OneViewpoint]

Sounds like another incel chasing all the wrong women. Fix yourself. Stop whining. Then go find some normal women. Stay off Only Fans and out of strip clubs.

[ProbablyClueless]

There's lots of blame to go around. Anyone who is so scared of getting hurt that they're paralyzed in life is to blame for the crap show of modern dating.

[RavVid]

Hmmmh. I'm trying to be fair here... struggling... I suppose everybody tries for the best deal going.

[HighValue]

Women are mostly to blame for many problems in modern society, including relationship failures, but not just limited to that.

[Spencer10]

OK after reading your "question" I think I know exactly who is to blame in your case...

[alice55]

Féminisme and capitalism are to blâme more than just random women.

[jahaims]

Cultural and societal norms are negatively influenced by corporations. Consumerism propaganda has turned both norms in hollow shells.

[Anonymous]

Women are to blame but so are men to some extent.

[LiamJHayden]

Are all women to blame for your personal failures in dating? Is that really your question?

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

Social media setting unrealistic expectations is to blame.

[Anonymous]

Social media and both genders are to blame. Seen more asshole men tho

[Anonymous]

All women mostly want nowadays is money and a 12' inch penis.