Do you think women are too preoccupied with Relationships?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

I think women talk about relationships way more than men

Yes

No

[DishLady]

Women have to think in cycles of relationships because we’re the instinctual home-makers. Literally 1/2 our bodies are constructed to be home to a defenseless little creature. That requires stability and sustainable structure.


So nice when some lugnut fails to see the big picture and denigrates the organic beauty of the human condition with flippantly reductive thinking.


What would you prefer, sir? Fast-food service level associations? I believe “rent a gal” has been a thing since antiquity. Just remember to wear your party hat so your twig and berries don’t fall off from STDs….

[Shrimpenjoyer]

I didn't say I only like women just for the sex.
You can be int relationships and still not talk about them all the time.
And if women are so careful about relationships, why do they get into bad men all the time?

[DishLady]

Women are "relational creatures" bc that's how we get stuff done. It's not all about you or about guys or about sex. It's just how we're wired. Relationships are important.

SOME WOMEN TODAY pretend they're not like that bc they try to take on a "more masculine"/"who cares"/"stop whining about it" reductive attitude.

No one said "careful" you're saying "preoccupied". Don't start switching * up.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

What? That last part of your comment doesn't make sense at all.
You implied before women need to think about relationships to feel secure yet apparently they are not careful? What?

[Anonymous]

Yes. They think other people will just come in entertain them and fix all their problems. One thing fails with one guy. On to the next 3 weeks later. Same thing happens again, do we self-reflect? Nope. On to the next. Maybe the grass is greener this time. Nope. Same thing again.

So wrapped up with what everyone else is doing, what they can do for them, that they don’t fix what they’re doing wrong themselves to keep a guy. The next guy will just come along and make them feel good until it falls apart. Then gossip gossip gossip “all man’s fault. I hate men.”

Do they have any hobbies? I don't know. This is the mean girl, serial dater type that has a roster. Exactly how it works.

[RavVid]

They are far more interested in intricacies of relationships of friends and acquaintances than guys are.

I think that reveals their own interest.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

True

[RavVid]

Thanks for a MHO

[melssvdv]

From my experience yes. Modern women are spoiled (thank mainstream media) and think the world is supposed to be their playground. More men are opting our from marriage and living their lives making trades/business/networks, etc.

And women desperately trying to find a husband before her eggs run out. A man can easily create life even when they are 60 XD

[Shrimpenjoyer]

I think the problem is women jumping from one men to the other, it's damaging their mental health, other than just them wanting to get married.
And sperm quality declines with time.

[melssvdv]

Of course.

[Anonymous]

I think it's both genders. But men want sex more than they want a relationship with a woman unless they think she might be the one. While women want a relationship more than they want sex.

So the goal for both is a relationship only because a man knows he can't easily get sex unless he displays a relationship as a want.

And for a woman she knows she has to display sex as an option to get a relationship out of a guy. So both are therefore preoccupied with a relationship.

[YourExLover69]

Nicely explained 🙂 MHO deserving

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks

[Nikki1989]

LMAO. You haven't been paying attention if you seriously think that absurdity.

Look no further than this website; 90% of relationship posts come from male users.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

That doesn't prove anything. One internet website doesn't reflect real life

[lightbulb27]

no they need sperm to make offspring before their body fails and they need support to get through it all. relationship is the path.

It used to be called marriage, but that was whacked back in the 60's.

[CherryLove007]

the body transitions and justly so. Mother nature's perfect design. That's called a pivot. We really can't have Benjamin button women. A relationship can be had at any age for the woman up until menopause we really know this and there is no real rush. Forty year old women were showing up with babies all the time when I was a childcare provider.

[lightbulb27]

@CherryLove007 yes, y'all have a broad window, no pun intended lol, but it is a window. the quality of eggs diminishes and error rate increases leaving risk for the caregiver.
The body is an amazing design, self repairing, but it does have a fuse and the body knows that.
somebody designed it, or somehow, randomly, it just coagulated that way for some unknown reason.

[CherryLove007]

@lightbulb27 yep, It happens for the next generation of women to have a chance to be fruitful. We slow down to a halt to be present for the grandchildren.

[Joshydavid25]

Nah, it's human to want relationships, and women are more of the social and group oriented sex.. So it makes since, but relationships are kinda what makes life..

[Shrimpenjoyer]

You can be social and not talking about relationships

[Joshydavid25]

Being more social also comes with caring about people and their relationships.. I guess I should say that women are more people oriented which usually makes them more social..

[live2dance25]

They can be, but some aren’t. Some actually say they don’t want to date or aren’t trying to force a relationship. When the right guy comes along, until then they will wait.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say "too" preoccupied cos that's like a criticism

I would say they are more likely to talk about their relationship, especially is it's going through a bad spell

Men probably never talk about their relationship unless they are in a counseling group

[ManOnFire]

And not just relationships but they are also preoccupied with being single way more than men are. They think about both things to a big degree.

[snermcger]

Women talk way more than men in general.
A woman could yap for an hour about which color sweater she wants to wear the next day.
Relationships? That's a lifelong, ever evolving drama for a woman. Yap yap yap yap.

[Spencer10]

Well if women are so concerned with relationships why are so many women actively choosing to be single now.

[melssvdv]

You might need to touch grass. They are not choosing to be single. The reason we say it is cope that women use because we are upset men are opting to be single. So in order to battle our resentment knowing that men do no want us, we tend to say 'we prefer being single' out of cope to 'show men' that we can live single as well as men.

[Kingofkings1992]

@melssvdv yes, many women want to be single nowadays. More and more women are adopting this "I'm an independent woman who don't need no man" ideology. Sounds like you need to "touch grass."

[melssvdv]

@Kingofkings1992 "I'm an independent woman who don't need no man"

That is coping mechanism. I was like this as well. But I have changed. Read this to know the twisted mind of feminists: For Those Wondering Why Modern Women Say They "Prefer Being Single" (They're Not) - Short Take As Ex-Feminist ↗

[queenofcardio]

No, i think more women are focusing on themselves.

[WonderingManII]

No but I don't think they are focused on the right things about relationships or they would be happily married.

[BillyBob954]

When I'm with my bros, we don't talk about relationship stuff

[WhitneySnow]

No. I think we care about them just enough.

[LiamJHayden]

I think certain people are.

[smashleyy]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Not all of them are.