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For Those Wondering Why Modern Women Say They "Prefer Being Single" (They're Not) - Short Take As Ex-Feminist

So this message is especially for men wondering why women really say this kind of stuff. As a ex-feminist, I have used this buzzword as well. But of course I did not mean it. So you can take this take as some kind of truth. There are two reasons we say this:

Cope because men opting out from marriage

Modern women are upset that men are opting to remain single. To deal with the resentment that comes from knowing men do not want us, we tell ourselves and others, that we prefer being single. This becomes a coping mechanism, a way to "show men" that we can live single just as well as they can just to feel good about ourselves and also to give you a subtle message that we are equal. All in the name of equality. Perhaps the biggest false promise that the world has ever heard.

But why do more men opt out of marriage? Simple: modern women have become corrupted. We are spoiled by mainstream media that tells us we can do no wrong, and that everything we do, even when it is foolish, is good and "empowering".

To not betray the core of feminism

For Those Wondering Why Modern Women Say They Prefer Being Single (Theyre Not) - Short Take As Ex-Feminist

Feminism, like many other modern ideologies, is based on the idea that men and women are equal to men and that women do not need men. This idea is strongly pushed by those who shape the mainstream narrative, and many women accept it because it feels good. When something makes us feel good, we are less likely to question it or think critically about it.

The media plays a big role in this. We are constantly told that the average man oppresses women just for being women. Over time, this message makes women associate femininity with oppression. Because of that, many modern women try to escape being feminine, since they do not want to feel weak or controlled.

Feminism then becomes something like a Gospel, a belief system that is treated as “natural” and unquestionable. Instead of examining it carefully, women often accept everything it teaches because it is comforting and boosts the ego.

This shows up in everyday questions like, “Do you need or want a man?” or “Do you want a relationship?” Even when the honest answer from the heart might be yes, there is often a pause. A woman may think, “If I say yes, it means I am going against feminism, and I don’t want to betray something that made me feel empowered.” So instead, she says no, not because it is true, but because it feels like the safer answer.

Conclusion

In other words, of course women need men and prefer being in relationship. But they are asking to destroy their inner self thanks to feminism.

In fact, every sane normal human being would know that women need men more than the other way round. I do not mind saying this. And a lot of women know this as well. But do not want to admit it. And let me tell you this: most feminists hate being women.

For Those Wondering Why Modern Women Say They "Prefer Being Single" (They're Not) - Short Take As Ex-Feminist
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