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I Prefer Feminist Women

First off you're getting a woman who is self aware and capable of independent thought and action. Feminist women do things, they have careers they have ideas about the world they dress like adults and not in frilly degrading costumes that look like something a cartoon character would wear. They walk and talk like they know what their doing. These women even sound better when they talk, they sound like women not like some porn actress or hooker trying to sound “feminine”.
The idea that a man wants to be a protector and provider is utter bull shit
I have never felt any more protective of a woman I’m with than I have friends and family which is normal. However, the idea that if I’m romantically involved with a woman than somehow I have this protective instinct just takes me over is stupid and makes men look like mindless animals. The idea that women want this makes them look like cowardly mindless animals. If such a thing were true what would be the point in being involved with women at all? Your mate is your best friend they mean more to you than any one. Why on earth would a man want a mate who he thought of as inferior in intellect, maturity or confidence? In short if you can’t respect the person how can you love them? Who on earth would want a child like, needy emotional wreck? Who wants June Cleaver when you can have Amelia Earhart?
The idea that men want to be “in charge” is also a lie. Any person who thinks they should be in charge is a sociopath and has no room in their life for others except as pawns in their game. Other people are just not real to such a person they are something to exploit for their own ends
The idea that I should be the boss in a relationship, that I should be telling a woman what to do is repugnant to me beyond imagining. If I’m with her, it’s because I love her, which means I also respect her and her opinions and her personal choices. Naturally this means I want to experience her personality see what she will do in various situations. I want to know what she thinks and experience her acting on those thoughts. She is the object of my affection and desire someone I greatly admire. If I think I should be telling her what to do than obviously I have no regard for who she is. The idea that because I am a man and thus full of aggressive urges and some sort of need to dominate puts me on a cognitive level lower than an ape , men are sentient beings, we think, we reason and we are complex and we have desires based on that complexity just like anyone else. A relationship is either equal, or its dysfunctional.
Gender roles are not normal, their disgusting. The idea that a woman I’m involved with should cook my food for me or wash my clothing is beyond asinine. I can cook my own food and take care of my own things I am not a mental invalid. If you want to impress me, program a computer, build a scientific instrument, write an article do something other than just be pretty. There are a lot of women who are pretty, strip clubs are full of them. I like attractive women but I’ll sacrifice a little pretty for some personality. I certainly don’t want to be with a mindless jellyfish who doesn’t know how to change a tire or worse yet thinks it’s somehow beneath her.
Being “girly” doesn’t make you cool or sexy it makes you dull. Women who get offended if you talk about machines, or tools, or technology are off putting they are saying they are not interested in these things because they are women not because they do or do not have an interest in them. There is nothing more obnoxious than some idiot who can’t use simple tools and never built anything in their life because they are a “girl”. Likewise, it is equally boorish and ignorant if a woman thinks a man shouldn’t be interested in sewing, or fashion or his personal appearance. In fact the later is a big red flag for a big disgusting bigot who wants to cram men into some dehumanizing role based not on his mind and his personality, who he is but based on the shape of his body.
Feminist women are not “bitches” or reactionaries if they are it’s because the individual woman has issues not because feminism taught her to be like that. It’s not feminists that are trying to force men to provide for them or reducing men to atm machines and body guards or sitting around waiting for a man to “rescue” them. It’s not feminists that support male only military conscription. Its not feminists that support biased alimony laws. It’s not feminists that forbid you do be yourself and want you to go out and act like a moronic thug getting in fights, accidents and or arrested. It’s girly girls who live off of men’s self sacrifice and destruction.
I Prefer Feminist Women
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