Are most women today unrealistic about what relationships are?

[Anonymous]

I said MOST not ALL.

[Effably]

Nah. Maybe more than some time before, ot that we would really know, but certainly not a majority.

[Asker]

You think it's just disproportionately here? There's a lot of petty gripes from women on here. It makes me wonder if most of them understand what a healthy relationship is.

[Effably]

There's a lot of petty gripes from us men here too. I'd wager half of us are whining - now it may be fully justified sometimes and outright important, but it does create a disproportionate representation.

Girls here are the same. Even the ones who seem unrealistic here would probably love to snuggle up and watch some cheesy movie together and not actually care if you are the gigamost of gigachads.

[Asker]

I suppose that's a good point. Maybe I just see it more with women. Because I'm not really paying as much attention to guys gripes.
I just see these women complain and then repeat the same mistakes. It's like hello! Are you just trying to fail so you cab complain again? If it's not working... CHANGE! Lol

[Effably]

That exact answer would apply to a lot of the guy posts. Keep an eye open and you'll spot it.

Although complaining IS important. And so I am not saying not to do it, just to complain about stuff that matters.

Why don't you engage the gals who answered here and see what they expect. You might be pleasantly surprised.

[Asker]

Well, like I said... not all just most lol

[bootieclapper9000]

most women do not want relationships

they want the cc
and the betabux

[In_Trance]

Clearly not, because a lot of women are in relationships

[Asker]

Yes, most for a short period of time. "Here's your sign"

[In_Trance]

Maybe that's what women perceive relationships to be. So suck it betch

[Asker]

What's a "betch"? 🤣

[Jamie05rhs]

"Maybe that's what women perceive relationships to be."
... Which is the point. 😶

[Asker]

@Jamie05rhs gets it.

[Jamie05rhs]

They don't have a clue.

[Dkc123]

Why didn't you said all..

[Asker]

Because I know some truly amazing, strong, loving women. Who are definitely NOT doormats. They give respect, and demand it back from their partners. And not surprisingly these women I speak of have been in their relationships and have maintained them for multiple decades.
So I know it's possible. I see their success, then I see the lack of success of the women on here. And it confuses me how so many women on here can claim to have all the answers, yet continue to be so unsuccessful.

[FilmGuy93]

Yes. Very much so

[TheMajesticKing777]

I know some are

[Blackcosmo]

Please clarify.

[Vesuvius87]

How so?

[hhadeshatesme]

elaborate?

[AFretiredTXn]

Yes.

[jahaims]

Most people are