Are women not as committed to relationships as men are these days?

[Anonymous]

Seems like most breakups, and divorces, are done by women. Most cheating, which will never really be accepted. Imagine if your mother cheated on your father? You will also have the children grow up to be drug addicted, and criminal. If you want a serious relationship fellas just stick to a Republican daddy’s girl but otherwise you have a huge chance of getting cucked, and losing everything, and the European/Canadian/Australian, women seem even worse than the American women.

[Anonymous]

We don't know who actually initiated the divorce- just who filed the paperwork, and since women are most often the household managers, or the ones who need the legal things that come with divorce (for example, child support), they are most often the ones who finally file. Many men simply leave when they want a divorce.

It's impossible to know who cheats more often.

The truth is a lot of women cheat, a lot of men cheat, and a lot of people give up on relationships too easily and don't work out their problems like adults.

[Asker]

It’s clearly easy to see when you see too many fucked things. There are exceptions of course.

[Anonymous]

Half of marriages end in divorce today, women file 80% of them, and lack of commitment is the #1 reason for divorce. So yeah.

https://www.regain.us/advice/divorce/what-is-the-number-one-cause-of-divorce-in-the-united-states-legal-dissolution-statistics-in-the-u-s/

[kylee2437]

Women have more means to get away from unfulfilling/toxic relationships now a days. The fact that you sexualized the one group of women you go for says a lot about you.

[Asker]

Just the reality of heterosexual relationships.

[kylee2437]

No it’s not the reality, it’s you turning a you issue into a blaming women issue.

[Asker]

It is. It’s why you see problems with crime and addiction. Don’t be abusive, but don’t marry someone too progressive is my main message. I’ve seen too much reality in my life.

[kylee2437]

Why shouldn’t a woman strive to be with someone that has a bright future?

[Asker]

A lot of women see relationships as something more translucent, than most guys do. Most estrangement, broken relationships, (not romantic, or sexual), are initiated by women, and generally not over the person engaging in antisocial behaviors like harassment.

[kylee2437]

It’s amazing how you feel this way but your overall outlook on relationships seems very ungenuine to begin with. You are just projecting seems like.

[Asker]

It’s just not worth the risk of ruining your life when you get to a certain age. You have to protect yourself, and generalize people.

[kylee2437]

You are ruining your own life by being an unhealed human being and lacking accountability for it especially when accountability should be a common sense factor after a certain age. This is why women especially my age are giving up on dating because men are so unself aware of how unhealed they are and then project it onto every woman they date. We are over it

[Asker]

They aren’t really, it seems like more people are getting married, and having kids, every year.

[kylee2437]

Yeah sure seems that way because you are heading into your 30s but your mentality is still left in your teens. It’s typical.

[Asker]

I didn’t think this way in my teens. I think generalizations are smart. Like for example men are more likely to be criminals, especially men who are of color. I think it’s smart be cautious around them in public if you don’t know them. It’s not something socially acceptable to say but it’s the truth. I can tell what women will be less likely to fuck you over, and it’s not all women, just like it’s not all men who will stab you in Detroit but you should be careful, and have intuition.

[kylee2437]

Yeah the worst combo you can be is racist with a mix of misogynistic. Maybe you should work on that. Your out look is very low vibrational

[Asker]

I can tell which women will be less likely to fuck you over like for example a former sorority girl, who’s father is the county judge, will be less likely to fuck you over in a marriage, or something, than a Berlin, dutch blue haired, woman with tattoos.

[kylee2437]

So you judge women before you get to even know them. That sounds like a personal problem

[Asker]

Typically not, it’s once I know them.

[kylee2437]

Sureee

[Asker]

You can typically tell be attitude but you should also know their family was her mother a whore? Is she estranged from any of her family members and why? Does she have very socially progressive political views?

[kylee2437]

So you judge people based on their parents. Hopefully your parents are perfect.

[Asker]

These are real questions a man should know before putting a ring on it.

[Asker]

Not perfect but at least normal.

[kylee2437]

A man that judges ideas based on that probably will never get a woman to even remotely be able to put a ring on her finger.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t openly judge that to her face, but it’s important to know while dating. I’ve seen too many lives ruined. Too many kids grow up to be messed up people.

[kylee2437]

Yeah you learn that by getting to know someone, not judging them based on things that don’t add up to who they necessarily are as a person. If you are a person that does that, you are way too immature to be dating

[Asker]

Not dating even, but for children, and marriage, where if it goes wrong your life is ruined as a guy, and your children grow up to hurt society, damn right.

[kylee2437]

No where it goes wrong with them is when they have parents that are unhealed and lack accountability that inhibits them from being good parents.

[Asker]

I’ve seen it with guys also. The dad runs off with the nanny, or a coworker, and the kids grow up to be criminals, but it’s not as common in my personal life experience. Either way you need to be careful in the heterosexual world sadly.

[Asker]

I see that behavior more with the moms, but not always.

[kylee2437]

Yes but then that’s someone that is unhealed and has lacked accountability and from my experiences, many times people that end up having kids with someone knows that someone is unfit but still does it anyways.

[Asker]

Not always, you got to be careful. I’m scarred from just being a witness of some of these things. Like I am not marrying someone who doesn’t have similar values, and doesn’t see the importance to relationships, and most divorces, I’ve seen their lives are totally over especially if they are children involved.

[kylee2437]

Yes it is always lol people don’t take red flags to face value and then get all pikachued faced when their S/O ends up exactly what they’ve been showing them lol I’ve literally ended a friendship over this. My ex friend did not listen to anyone around her about her baby father not being up to par from the very beginning

[In_Trance]

I believe so