How do you know if a woman is being aggressive/hostile or sexually dominant?

[CasaNorba]

I'm mildly autistic and often times I have a tough time reading feelings and emotions at first view.

so i was at the club the other day and I went outside for a vape and noticed a couple within their late 30s or early 40s sitting nearby. they look kinda down and the man starts confessing to the woman how he thinks their relationship isn't gonna work out. at first, the woman reacted with a "boo hoo, big deal!" type of attitude. then as the man insists I notice the woman was now becoming angrier. she then suddenly exploded and yelled at him "it's not over till I say so and I'm gonna prove it to you, you son of a bitch!"

I got kinda creeped out and felt bad for the guy, I thought it was over for him; he is now in a committed to a clingy sociopath. but judging by her body language, the way she leaned into him, grab his lap and cringed into his face as she said this made me think that maybe she was just trying to sexually dominate him and get him ready to fuck all night long once they get home.

till then any tips on how to tell the difference from the two? it will be a major help if I knew between the two.

[btbc92]

What you witness is exactly what abuse is. What she did with emotional and verbal abuse. And I can see why that relationship isn't going to work out because that woman is crazy. I don't care how badly your relationship ended. You don't treat another person like that and say how you love them. A vengeful and prideful spirit will never be able to witness love and give love back in return. That's why you got to judge a person by their character.

[CasaNorba]

I agree all the way, is too bad that there are a lot of women like this here in my hometown of course.

hence one of the reasons why i dont date

[btbc92]

Good for you. Date elsewhere where the toxicity isn't around.

[CasaNorba]

good idea, though that's a little tough cause I'm Hispanic/Latino and a lot of our women like that by default. and for some reason, I have a feeling that I made be handicapped at dating outside my race

[btbc92]

Nobody cares about your ethnicity. You have just as many opportunities as other people. You just have to play up your best qualities and strengths and enough listening to the naysayers.

[jennifer_bloom]

A hostile woman will get angry at you if you don’t make her your number one priority and a sexually dominant woman is usually very greedy and vain and tends to engage in outward behaviours like walking in tank tops outside or saying bad things about her lover online or ganging up against him with friends. She tries to compete with her lover and does not take care of the needs of her partner.

[CasaNorba]

so, in other words, they are both toxic?

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends on the nature of the dominance - if she isn't invasive or possessive - you could say she isn't dominant - she just looks dominant because she is confident and a little too focused on her own happiness.

[CasaNorba]

oooookay, thanks for the heads up. more reason to avoid women at all cost now

[Ámayas_20]

Simple if you tell her you're uncomfortable with her behaviour does she get angry or continue, or does she stop.

[willzjohn87]

If she hits you with a frying pan, punches you the. She is being aggressive/hostile/mentally illed. If she gets on top of you or slight pushes you around in a playful manner, then she is being sexually dominant.

[hahahmm]

In a relationship a woman could act angry about an unrelated topic because she wants sex. Because she wants YOU to dominate.

I’m pretty sure that if she wanted to dominate a guy she would make it clear.

[sockandshoes]

no thats abuse. any unnecessary yelling at an attempt to a civil discussion is a red flag for a abusive relationship.

[QuietRunner]

well, you should ask and she should ask you if it is okay to be sexual

If she asks for consent for sex, then you know

Otherwise it is non-consensual

[lsjr16]

Aggressive women signs is they tell you what to do all the time, tell you not talk to her in s rude tone ,

[monkeynutts]

She just got dumped, it hurts, so she was angry.

[CasaNorba]

sounds like it, it also sounded like she didn't want to go down without a fight.

[michael45]

Well, in my case if my girlfriend is aggressive or moody, she wants to have sex.

[bill_towers]

When it is too late.

[smg99]

Sexxxxy thought

[BluesheepOwl]

She bitch slaps you

[CoffeeWC]

I wouldn't know