How to handle extremely aggressive "woman"?

[lightbulb27]

I know her history and she's like this, puts a lot of worry in guys... but she put her sights on...

Came to me and said straight up... I want your sperm, your money and a little time. Said, the old way of doing things is futile and this is how it's done, time is short. She is a little older. Dating is terrible, so be direct.

I said Im married and thats way too pushy. She said, that can be fixed, I reserve all my options! WTH?

I called police but that's a waste, she has them controlled. She called me right after... said she has me under surveillance and knows everything. She has body guards that could clean this up... but doesn't want that, wants to kind and generous, to trust her.

How am I (we) supposed to feel? What to do?

Kinda looks like this... arrogant as hell...

Trouble is... I know she's shifty, lies, it's all business. I think she's a republican. "Dating" just doesn't feel like it used to.

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5 mo

PS and I'm a committed husband, I love my wife and just want to be left alone by these other crazies.

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5 mo

In case you don't get it, it's an analogy to other life events. I'm drawing a parellel.

I will say, I've met women nearly that aggressive and desperate and ran.

[Anonymous]

I've had that happen once. When I didn't react the way she wanted me to she accused me of sexually assaulting her. Fortunately for me, my past is exemplary and hers spoke for itself. So nothing came of it. Still about 35 years later I have no clue why she targeted me. Guess I never will.

I don't think there is any exact way to handle this. Every situation is unique. One things for certain. Being a guy and being the physically stronger gender, it's not going to be take that serious. And just as in the case with women, the victim will be blamed in some way. It'll be assumed you did SOMETHING to cause it, to ask for it. Unless she is visually bat💩 crazy.

[lightbulb27]

Yes, there is normalcy to "balance". Something is wrong... and goes wrong with strong urgency. But direct can be good too, it's some balance...

[Phoenix98]

How to handle extremely aggressive "woman"?

I don't I'm not gonna deal with that, that's not a worth while investment. She can be the next guys problem.

[Zionne]

This isn’t dating behavior—it’s harassment and a safety issue, so stop engaging, save all evidence, tell your spouse, and contact police again or a lawyer about a restraining order. Trust your instincts and prioritize safety over politeness. If you want help handling extreme situations and firm boundaries with confidence, a dating coach for men can help you navigate this without escalating it.

[DishLady]

How’s about don’t handle them bc doesn’t seem like you’d be able to based on how the “question” is ohrased…

[lightbulb27]

Ignoring might work for a while.

[ohsheeT]

Interesting.

We'll if you ever get bored you can always start writing sponge Bob cartoons..

[MikeMcMansion]

Some lawyer wannabe will give you some examples about what you are legally able to do given your country/state/jurisdiction to defend yourself.

Some guys might say nothing, just leave and never look back. They’d be right. It will be to your demise to stay and play. Nada nothing zip fubar, until sanity returns to society

[DryGermanGuy]

Hombre, are you okay? Someone spiked your drink, or something?

[lightbulb27]

I don't drink and have had no mushrooms and take no meds, it ain't that. But we are all high on something I guess.
Im just trying to think outside the box so I understand how others think and feel and what repercussions there are when there is creative, aggressive drive... when the rules change.

[MrChinaski]

Meh. Girl's got chutzpah. Take it as a compliment. Maybe lay off the late night Black Mirror binge sessions...

:)

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Didn't happen. Sorry, dont believe a word of it.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you need to visit the emergency psychiatric ward.

[MasterKS]

LOL!

[lightbulb27]

you should see what it's like being so desirable, you could say I'm priceless... it's really rough... and cold sometimes.

[Anonymous]

You need therapy. You have a screw loose somewhere.

[lightbulb27]

Thats like calling the sane person crazy. Id love to, so does that mean "the woman" is right and sane.. or its just how life is?

[AngryCarl2]

In next week's episode, more shit that didn't happen!

[Ariesman81]

I find a backhand and belt usually softens them up.

[Agape93]

What state are you in

[lightbulb27]

possibly a state of denial.

[lightbulb27]

like many of us.

[Agape93]

-_- nevermind

[Malwi93]

lol i dont believe that happened

[lightbulb27]

Good, see my update.

[FunkyMonkee]

Which one?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Who IS this broad?

[aceleon]

ignore it.