How to handle and deal with such a woman in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I approach her or try to initiate romance/ sexual activities she acts really cold and even sometimes snubs me off... doesn't respect my feelings or reciprocate

And sometimes when she has some hidden motive she approaches me , acts very sweet , tries to arouse me by being too close or touching the genitals , kissing etc... And if I act all cold she shouts at me for not reciprocating or being too selfish or that I don't care for her and her feelings.. or that I am not man enough.

[Oliverlogan263]

This is a tricky situation bro. Some things to consider:

- Her hot/cold act is playing games and messing with your head/feelings. Not cool of her to toy with you like that.

- No one deserves to be with someone who makes them feel unwanted, unappreciated or used only when it suits their "hidden motives" (shady!).

- Her getting mad at you for not responding to that treatment is manipulative - she doesn't get to treat you badly then control how you feel about it.

- A relationship is a two-way street - she needs to respect your feelings just as much as you respect hers. Fairness and communication are key.

My advice would be to have an honest talk with her about how her actions make you feel. Tell her clearly the hot/cold routine has to stop, and you need to both meet in the middle to make each other happy.

If she refuses to change or respect your needs too, you might have to consider finding someone who will. Don't settle for being someone's backup plan - you deserve way better bro!

[HateyouxD]

Sexual tension
Is it hot in here or is it just you two

[Asker]

What do you mean?