I understand black women love black men, but I thought I was the only one attracted to Asian guys.
It wasn't until a week ago I learned lots of black women like Asian men like me. I think Asian men are very beautiful. They have full lips, almond shaped eyes, broad noses and pretty clear skin. They are similar to black men in the physical characteristics I like. But Asian men are on the opposite end of the spectrum. Asian men are more focused on school and usually are great husbands, while sadly many black men aren't focused on school too much and many black men aren't trying to commit to any one girl.
I didn't know black women liked Asian men too until I saw this
Then I researched it and saw A LOT of black women like Asian guys. Asian guys don't like us too much which is fine. I personally find black men and Asian men to be the most handsome and I suppose most black women agree.
I just enjoy looking at eye candy anyway.
But there really is a whole large amount of black women who prefer black or Asian men. I think this is great because it's not just me and a lot of black guys made me feel stupid or bad for liking Asian men ever since I was 12 and I'm just now seeing lots of other black girls do too.
I think it's sad there aren't more black female/Asian male relationships in the media. The media seems obsessed with pushing black women to date white men, which as you can see from the poll the two groups really have no interest in the other so why force something neither group wants?
But aside from that I found out many youtube channels with black women with Asian men and so now I feel like I'm not weird anymore.
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I've written on here many times that I like Asian guys, and I'm black. I don't care about other people's opinions about it. The first two guys I "talked to" were Vietnamese American, and that was back when I was, like, 16-17.
I've seen that survey before. It has been called into question many times. My personal experience is it's more like...35% really only like black men, 15% really only like white men, 35% like both black and white men, 15% like Asian and/or Hispanic men, usually in addition to black and/or white men. It's just complicated with white men, and I think a lot of black women don't like to admit they like white men or are very hesitant to give white men a chance. But almost every black woman I know likes white men, even though most really only date black men. There's also a big gap in preferences depending on what type of black woman you're talking about... like more educated black women and/or black women who grew up in predominantly white environments tend to be more interested in white men, and these are the types of black women I tend to know. But I know some ghetto ones who like white men, too. I have never actually known a black woman who likes Asian men, or who admits to it, but I have seen it online, for sure.
I don't really like [American] black men much, and I think the percentage of black women who only like black men is going down because [American] black men keep treating us so badly and they verbally talk about how inferior we are to white women all the time. My preferences truly are like Asian men (from anywhere) > non-American black men > non-American white men > Hispanic men (from anywhere) > white American men > black American men.
Also, ignore AleDeEurope... he's racist as hell but always seems to find questions about race/blacks doing interracial. And @applesandoranges22, a lot of us consider mixed guys to be whatever race they look like/the more minority race. So, if you're mixed black/anything, you're considered black. Mixed people are a separate category to some, but not to me and not to some other people.