My definition of the f*ckzone. This is when a person (usually a man) hangs out and casually dates a woman for sex. She however has strong feelings for him thinking he will get into a long term relationship with her.
He isn’t a necessarily a liar nor lead her on with false promises. He will avoid uncomfortable discussion topics yet will treat her well when they are together. But he doesn’t call her “his girlfriend” nor identifies their association as being a relationship. The woman just naively assumes he will eventually stay long term with her. But he eventually gets bored or nervous from the pressure she puts him under and bows out. But she sleeps with throughout the entire process because she really likes him. She feels used afterwards.
Anyway I was guilty of doing that a few times with I was younger. I didn’t “speak up” about where I really stood because I knew the sex would end if I did. However when I got older I did start speaking up out respect despite knowing the sex would end (and it did). These women were initially heartbroken but at least I felt a peace of mind by not leading them on once I noticed what they really wanted.
Anyway I think the real reason why so many women play dumb and don’t speak up about how they really feel about the friendzoned guys is because they know damn well the attention/favors will most likely end if they do.
Just from my experiences most women (like over 90%) I’ve met won’t outright just won’t say “I just want to be friends” EARLY in the process. Instead they just want to keep milking all the benefits they can get from that bs scenario.
Anyway just like some women wise up and won’t sleep with a guy who won’t commit to them (despite liking them) many guys wise up to female friéndzone bs too. I haven’t had let a woman get away with that crap in over 12 years now. I call them out on it, walk away and never look back.
But is the f*ckzone something women hold grudges over to screw over other men?
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Only ugly guys do this.
I'm saving myself for marriage. I'm not dumb enough to sleep with an ugly guy.
Ah ugly guys usually can’t get away with that.
However I respect you for saving it to marriage. I am not proud of some my past decisions. Just saying.
Ugly guys try to tear down pretty girls' self esteem. And they can't understand why such an ugly guy doesn't find them attractive so they try to stay with the ugly guy till he does. I would never date an ugly guy. I have high self esteem.
You need to be more effective with your description because I read things at face value. Ugly to means physically unattractive to most people. Simple as that.
Now if you are talking about personality that’s a whole different discussion. But looks do matter unfortunately. Of course they are not the end all be all but they certainly impact romantic interactions.
A physically “ugly” guy doesn’t have the leeway to get away to get away with what I described above. A guy who is attractive physically but is an asshole in the inside certainly does. But a physically unattractive man is actually more likely to be loyal given his options are limited.
Handsome guys are the loyal ones physically unattractive guys like to cheat with ugly girls..
Okay I have no idea what hell you are smoking. Sounds to me you are too much of a idealistic.
I’ve known plenty of manwhores in my day. Almost all of them were at least semi handsome men who always had a personality. My brother’s former roommate/friend was considered a 10/10 by many ladies and he never went to bed lonely or with the same girl. On top of that handsome men who are long term single will get teased and accused of being “gay” (despite being completely straight). So they got more societal pressure to work it.
Now of course that doesn’t make that manwhore behavior okay. I went through a period of that myself in my late 20s and early 30s. I was a fitness model back then. But I admit my actions were wrong.
But you naively and wishfully thinking that a physically handsome man is going to be more loyal to you than a physically ugly one (when all else is equal) is crazy. Yes there are loyal good guy handsome men out there. But those guys usually get married young and they live in conservative areas. But the reality is the better looking the man or woman is the more options they have to tempt them. If he gets pissed off at you or just too bored it won’t be too difficult for him to get some side action if he’s attractive. On top of that other women can be more aggressive to already taken guys (which is asinine but that’s another topic).
You're probably thinking of anglo Saxon standards of beauty. To me they're 7/10... Not my type. Every handsome I've ever met has been nice and kind and sweet to me. The ugly guys are always rude and they try to make it seem like they're the trophy. You're making it seem like handsome men don't have morals. Also I'm a good woman. I don't nag like the women you date.
Well I do not know anything about your background. Where you were raised, your cultural/ethnic heritage, etc.
I’m white but I’ve dated women of all races but I tend to mesh best with latino and Asian women. Many white women over the years have driven me absolutely nuts (not all but to many). They definitely shit test way more. In the recent years a huge percentage of them have gone berserk about politics.
But I’ve also met some horrible latino and Asian women. I have an ex Asian girlfriend who ghosted me after 9 months of dating over a minor argument.
However getting back to your assumption that handsome guys are more likely to be loyal vs ugly ones cheat. Even across racial lines there is a standard of beauty.
I still think you are being idealistic there as well. You want to marry handsome guy who is 100% loyal to you. I hope you find him but that’s some wishful thinking you got going on.
Lmao but every handsome guy I met has been sweet kind and loyal to me. I'm speaking from experience. Sorry you've had bad experiences with women.
Yes, in that they don't want to have anything to do with the other sexually or boy/girlfriends.