How to find a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I'm in my mid 20s and I've never dated or been with a guy before and recently I went through a heartbreak with the first guy i ever loved for real. Every time i try to meet a guy we don't click or I'm not interesting or they just want to use me and i can never find a legit love.

I try to not find guy from the country I'm from because i was treated so bad by them that i have some kind of trauma and I'm scared, not saying the men in other places are better but I'm talking about my own experience.

But seems like I can't never find a guy who likes me and wants to be with me and get married and maybe have our own family and this is so upsetting. I know a lot of people say I'm young and i should love myself but the situation of not finding someone and not being loved by someone is so frustrating because i also want to love someone.

Any advices on how should i get a boyfriend? Or just start meeting guys? by the way I'm a ver introverted girl so i struggle a lot with social environments

[ohsheeT]

I Felt every single one of your words.
And that's what we all want

But it takes much more than that You have to have a set of your own rules.

And you have to follow them And you have to learn this is a must. You have to learn how to read guys

When guys are talking to you
Don't just listen to their voice or their words
If a guy is trying to pick up on you Seven out of ten guys are going to bullshit you
With their words
But at the exact same time with their words They will tell you the truth

Learn how to read their eyes their body language their tone You will get more information from a guy That way then you will by listening to their words

I mean, I don't even know you and your question that I just read tells me so many things about you. It's unreal.

And that passion that love that bond That sensual touch that you like so much You project yourself Wanting to be loved so much without saying anything about it And this is why guys take advantage or use you

I mean, I've never met you. I don't know ybut from reading your question. I would I would love to do you
And i'm going to be totally honest with you for all the wrong reasons Because of all the things that you actually said Without saying them in your question

Okay so I had to be honest Now I'm going to be even more honest. I would also date you For all the right reasons because of what you said And the things you didn't say.
But you said if that makes sense Because that person is real. She has a beautiful heart And I can feel your passion your loyalty your trust Just everything good coming from you


This is gonna sound kinda crazy, but you should role play scenarios with somebody in a role play. I'd love to role play.
Just because Of what somebody might.
Say Meaning one thing but actually saying another

And when you do this a few times you get to learn how to read people. Or guys.
In a different.. well.. in many different ways

It because lack of experience or Experiencing all the above. With out being used or hurt..
You're just a straight up person and you have no bad or kinda evil agenda your just you.
And you think everybody else is just them. Selves too , but it's not like that anymore

And I honestly don't feel that you would have a problem finding a boyfriend. I think that's the easy part for you. Is everything else that comes with it? That you don't want is the hard part

But I mean, the only good advice I could give you is learn how to read guys. Their mouth might be saying one thing . But their eyes, their tone of voice. Their body language is telling you the truth and it's a whole different story.

I am also an introvert That has to become an extra route because of business
But I do know what you're saying and what you're asking for because I Go to the exact same thing

[Stevepro68]

Well good communication is always important. If you are shy. You should work on your writing first. It's unintelligible. Then they may figure out your interested in them. Also stay away from anonymous web pages like this one. There are unscrupulous people here who pretend to females to troll people. So it's easy to get bad advice.

[sawno]

Guys are interest driven, find an interest you have that guys also have and use that as your diving board.

[Asker]

I've done this and sadly didn't work and many times

[69Lonely69]

You have to try your best to look open
Lots of guys are introverted too and afraid of messing up or embarassing themselves
Just look inviting

[Asker]

I try my best but seems like most guys just lose their interest with time

[69Lonely69]

sometimes you have to initiate

[Asker]

I do sometimes but when we start talking they just disappear

[Anonymous]

Telling us you're looking out of your league without telling is you're looking about if your league.😆