Girls, What girls think of such boy?

[Anonymous]

Honesty opinion needed does not matter how brutal it is.

I never had girlfriend because of family responsibilities. Some people think of me because of this as a loser. It doesn't affect me anymore.

But want to ask what girls think about such boy, i am from south Asia.

[SueShe]

Not having a girlfriend or wife at your age is nothing unusual. Some people prioritize other things than a girlfriend.

You have your family responsibilities that take up all your time and that is fine too. You kind of sacrifice yourself for your family and that is a positive thing and you should not feel like a loser because of that.

I am aware that in Asia, there is a big pressure on young people to have a husband or wife and to marry before the age of 30. Don't let yourself be brought down by old traditions. They are no longer applicable to the 21st. Century.

[natured]

You are NOT A LOOSER, at all, you just had your priorities and I applaud you for that. It's never too late to find your significant Other, but don't be so hard on yourself, and let people talk, they are sad..
Only people that are SAD and FRUSTRATED make comments like that, you enjoy your life, focus on yourself and enjoy life.

[NoDecision]

You are only a loser if you resign yourself to the fact that you are one in your own mind. If you are going to believe in your mind that you are a loser, you will never be anything but.

[Abbycado]

What now? About you having family responsibilities? That doesn’t make someone a loser.

[Asker]

Still have it, and can't involve with anyone. But my friend see me like weirdo now, once he gets to know I never had any. I never disclose it to anyone usually i never had girlfriend.