Girls, What does a girl think about such guy?

[Anonymous]

I had a physical fight in front of my crush,, even though I dominated the fight, what kind of opinion she will be having about me? Shall I lose all hope now? FYI she is normal hardworking studious person, but play lot of mind games.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I have no idea what she thinks about it. But it would depend on the situation what I thought about it. If a guy was attacked and held his own in a fight, I confess I'd admire that a lot. But if he was an idiot and started a fight and won, I'd still think he was an idiot and be extremely turned off. So, that said, context matters. :)

[Asker]

Then I am doomed.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Well, you can get yourself undoomed... Just don't do it again, ha. :)

[Asker]

that person was psycho, he threatened me yesterday, but she was absent yesterday. As he is psycho I have to change my class. I get to know he was waiting for me outside with some goons.

[Asker]

so she is not aware of this side of story anyhow just leave her

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Sounds like you are in high school and being bullied. Why the heck would he threaten you?

[Asker]

no, but that person definitely has mental issues, I did not do anything. But at least crush started to make eye contact and notice me.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Well, if he's over 18 and physically tries to attack you, that's assault and he can be arrested. Sounds like he's just blowing smoke to show he's somebody, anyway. Anyone who has to rely on "goons" and verbal threats is insecure.

[Abbycado]

Why would you want someone that plays mind games?

[Asker]

yeah , but can you please answer the question

[Abbycado]

Depends on who started it and the reason. There is no context to that.

[Nikki1989]

There's no bigger turn-off than violence.