What are guy’s thoughts when there’s a girl they find pretty?

[Anonymous]

So, out of curiosity, i’ve been thinking about a guy that i saw at the beach the other day and i’ve been wondering if he ever thinks of me too. He was a bit older than me, and i kept catching him staring. he was cute so i stared back but nothing happened, probably because i was with my brother and he heard it. he stared a lot but we couldn’t get to talk and right before i left, i stared at him one last time until we made eye contact and walked away. Ever since that day i sometimes find myself thinking about him, ofc im not in love but he made me feel pretty at that moment and i remember how exciting it was when i caught his eyes and made eye contact. like i said, out of curiosity i wonder how this goes with guys. for example, what might he had been thinking during our stares? what could he possibly had thought when i had to leave before we make any interaction? do you think he ever remembers it and feels nice like i do? how does it happen with men?

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's how I think most guys would feel in that situation:

He was totally checking you out! We dudes don't just stare at a girl that long if we're not into her. When you caught his eyes, I bet his heart skipped a beat. He probably thought you were cute and was building up the courage to come over.

But when you left before he could talk to you, I bet he felt disappointed he didn't get a chance. We hate missing opportunities! At the same time though, the mystery of it all probably made him even more intrigued.

I'll bet every now and then when he's at the beach, or just going about his day, a memory of you pops into his head. He smiles thinking about how hot you looked. And wonders who you were and if he'll ever see you again.

Guys can be shy approaching girls sometimes. But when there's a real connection, we don't forget it that easy. I wouldn't be surprised if he still thinks about that moment from time to time too. Makes him feel good the way you made him feel.

Next time you see him, give him a little smile and wave. Bet he'll be so stoked to finally talk to you! We live for those unexpected encounters with a pretty girl. Fingers crossed it happens for you both!

[Billlewis]

My first priority is to find out what I can do for her.