What does a guy think when he sees an attractive woman?

[Anonymous]

As a girl, just wondering what their thought process is when they see a woman they find attractive and what makes that so.

[TipsyFr]

It depends how attractive, if she’s attractive but not my type not much goes on quick look and back to whatever I was doing. If she’s really my type it depends on the context if she’s at a random place and I’ll probably never see her again I think to myself is there an opening for me to introduce myself and get to know this woman or is she giving the I don’t want to be talked to vibes. If I’m at a social gathering I’m a lot more relaxed because time isn’t of the essence here, in this case I’ll get an opening and see where it goes, first impressions are super important though if she’s not got giving of the vibe I’m into that’s the end of it. This is all assuming I’m single at the time of course ✌️

[Asker]

Thanks. How would you describe as your ‘type’, and words would you say are going through your head when you see the attractive woman?

[TipsyFr]

Really a your type woman is personal preferences, a nice body is usually what catches the eye, nice outfit close to skin clothes, not baggy and not too eccentric, I like thick wavy hair not too short not too long. Nice cheeks and a good smile. Height isn’t a parameter, soft voice is a killer though. After that it’s about composure and the way she handles herself around people. As for what goes through my head is well as I said it depends on the moment if I’m at a coffee shop and she pops by I don’t have long before she disappears again out into the world. As a man you don’t want to ruin someone’s day by being creepy so you need to come up with something fun playful or just funny in general as an entrance. I refuse to use something like a line as I feel like people can tell and it defeats the point. After that it’s simple talk and a light flirt. This all goes through the mind of a man before he approaches a woman if he does it poorly it’s just because his nerves got the better of him. My initial thought though as I see her is just a wow feeling I guess. These are preferences though I’ve met women that didn’t look like my type and yet were everything I look for personality wise and still gave me that wow feeling ✌️

[Asker]

Thanks. This helps. Also I don’t really like wearing super tight clothes and have always preferred wearing more loose items. Is that unattractive?

[TipsyFr]

I find it to be but that could be just me don’t take anything I say to heart. Usually women don’t wear tight clothes because they’re not too keen on how their body looks, usually that’s unfounded though I’m sure you’d look great ✌️

[Asker]

For me I think it’s mostly the fact that I care about dressing more modestly and am more afraid of being objectified as a sexual object. I still want to be perceived as attractive, just not sexualized.

[Anonymous]

Honestly first thoughts. Damn look at that hot chick. Who is she. Man I’d like to see her naked, play w her tits, slap that ass. A lot of sexual thoughts. All the other thoughts come after if I do get a chance to meet her, talk to her maybe date her. Thoughts like her personality, what she’s likes, dislikes, does she like me. But in the beginning it’s usually sexual.

[_Maya_]

Well a lot of them are attracted to physical looks first. It's naturally the first thing you notice about a person before you ever say a word to them. No different than we see a guy. You're attracted to looks first and then as you get to know the person you start to like them for who they are and not just what they look like. Also I bet a lot of guys are undressing a girl with their eyes at first. That would not surprise me one bit lol.

[ShadowYamihiro]

My 1st thought is : wow she beautiful but hmm i wonder what her personality is. Looks catches the attention but personality catches the heart

[spartan55]

There is no thought process, not sure what you are talking about. If I see an attractive woman I will check her out without staring too long, being creepy... that's about it. There's nothing profound about it.

[Anonymous]

I probably just have a small thought that she is attractive and move on. If I see her more frequently, then I start to really determine if I find her attractive. That would be a combination of a plethora of variables.

[ProbablyClueless]

Just that she's attractive and then I go about my day.

[Sunnybeach123]

If I see an attractive woman I think of dates but also, to be honest, I think of what she might look like nude and I get aroused sometimes.

[Lokiion]

For me at least it’s just “she’s pretty” and that’s it

[Anonymous]

I only imagine her naked or in a doggy position, but then I forget her.

[Anonymous]

You gotta give us more to go on than just that. Some kind of context or were thinking nothing.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes we feel a lot of anger knowing she would never give us the time of day.

[Avicenna]

I imagine myself having sex with her

[Asker]

Uhhh. I meant in a non creepy way

[Avicenna]

Whether a guy admits it or not, that's what's probably going through his head when he sees an attractive woman. We're biologically hardwired for that.

[KrakenAttackin]

Why? We want to fuck hot women.

[artgorgeous]

Undress her in our imagination.

[jimmy2]

Like a dog,. hump day