Boyfriend always staring at other woman in public. Am I over reacting?

[Anonymous]

I know there’s plenty of attractive people in this world. And I know it’s normal to look at people, but I noticed when my boyfriend will keep looking at woman and staring. Today we were out eating, and there were 2 ladies eating, and my boyfriend kept on looking over there at there table. Not once or twice, but many of times. And it made me very uncomfortable to the point I was like I’m ready to go. I almost want to just call it quits. Am I over reacting?

[DishLady]

The fact is that guys are ALL going to look. They're wired that way and there's nothing to do to change it. Their distractibility level when a set of boobs or a nice curvy ass crosses their path is part of an animal instinct men have... end of the fucking story, ok?

STARING is a different issue. It's just rude. It's rude to YOU, it's rude to the woman he's staring at, and it shows he isn't a gentleman.

So, you have a choice. You want an animal or you want a gentleman? If you want the first one, stick with this dildo. If you want the second one, let this guy off the hook to roam free and stare at whatever he likes.

[deniz_9]

your feelings are valid girllyyy! you might want to talk to him about this! wish u all the best 🫶

[Purpleronnie]

There is never a need for “staring” but I couldn’t , like many other red-blooded heterosexual males , stop noticing other attractive women if I tried. It’s honestly like I have radar.


It’s not like my lady doesn’t notice other guys , we both expect it of each other at times , never has to be commented though.. that’s crossing the line.


Staring is rude no matter who it it , made worse by this type of situation. If I were you I’d fire him a warning shot and if he takes no notice then dump his sorry disrespectful ass

[Anonymous]

No, you're not overreacting. Your feelings of discomfort and hurt are valid. While glancing is normal, persistent staring, especially in your presence, is disrespectful and undermines your sense of security in the relationship. It signals a lack of consideration for your feelings and can reasonably lead you to question his respect for you and the relationship itself. Communicating your discomfort is crucial, and if his behavior doesn't change, considering whether the relationship aligns with your needs is a reasonable response.

[NicholasRedone]

There's eyes, there's looks, there's stares, glares and then there's gazes.

The only one a woman or a man should ever curiously caution is - the gaze. Lol 😆 🤣 ahhh the gaze. The lovers gaze 💘 💘 😈 oh cupid

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I tell my man he can look bit not touch but I mean I point women out and we discuss

[hello4433]

That's a red flag cause he's being creepy

[Anonymous]

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