Why do girls say thier interested then just block you or ghost you the next day with no explanation?

[Anonymous]

I think it's pretty straight forward. Why say your into someone and that your down, to meet up. Then block or unmatch the person the next day for no reason?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that's the worst! I totally hate when girls do that ghosting thing. It's so messed up, you know? Like, why lead someone on and then just ditch 'em with no explanation? That's just cold.

I guess some girls just get a kick out of the attention or something, and then as soon as they've got it, they're done. It's like they just wanna boost their own ego, without caring about how it makes the other person feel.

I dunno, maybe they get scared or have second thoughts, and instead of just being upfront about it, they take the easy way out. Either way, it's a crappy thing to do. You deserve way better than that, man.

The best thing is to just try not to take it personally. It's not a reflection on you - it's their own insecurity or weirdness. Just gotta shake it off and keep putting yourself out there. The right girl will come along who's actually into you for real, and won't ditch you out of nowhere. Hang in there, dude!

[Asker]

Yea very valid point makes sense

[NicholasRedone]

Everyone is human and everyone maybe just wants eye candy - and that's all. You gotta respect it 😊😈👁️👁️

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Because they weren't really interested after all and were just trying to be nice to avoid confrontation or the person did something that the girl didn't like, after the fact, that made her change her mind.

[Asker]

They were she was saying she can't wait to see me and next day gone for no reason. We never had anything bad in the convo. Avoid what confrontation?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Confrontation of having to tell someone you aren't interested and that you either got cold feet or had no intention of meeting them and things progressed too fast. Then the person might want to know why and have a debate or become aggressive and insulting. That kind of confrontation.

[Asker]

So because she's not mature enough to say how they feel they just unmatch me for no reason. Literally the last message see sent to me was good night handsome speak to you tom and then she's gone...

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Its not about maturity all the time. We are taught over time from experience to be more indirect when it comes to rejecting guys because some can become violent or angry.

She could also just be busy and isn't ghosting you. How long has it been?

[Asker]

We were talking on tinder and it's been a week. How can I become violent online? And she literally unmatched me

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Then she wasn't interested and was either just being flirty or nice.

Online not so violent but there are guys who take it too far and track women down to harm them. Maybe not as much on dating sites but still. It was more about avoiding a written confrontation

[Asker]

Why do you think she wasn't interested? She was , but she does live a bit far so that's the only reason I can think of

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I can't see the conversation to know if it was something in the conversation that did it or if she matched with someone closer or if she was never really interested at all and just has a very flirty nature.

Hard to tell why she wasn't interested. Probably best to just move on though.

[DishLady]

Not usually. If someone says they're interested and then blocks they're just garden-variety jerks.

[Asker]

Honesty smh

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Maybe they started dating someone the next day ik that's happened to me I would message like 5 guys at once and let them know that but if one made it official I'd block thw rest

[Asker]

Damn that's messed up why not just tell them. I rather someone tell me what's going on then just ghost or block someone.

[Nikki1989]

They see something in you that raises a red flag and they change their mind. It is only natural.

[Asker]

Are you actually going to reply? And there was literally nothing out of the convo that we had that would have that.