How should a bring up sexual roleplay to a woman he is dating?

[darkwing91]

This is someone he is dating but who is not yet his girlfriend

[Nikki1989]

You don't but at 33 you should know that already.

[darkwing91]

The gif was unnecessary and rude

[Abbycado]

No, why is that any of your business, plus they aren’t even together officially.

[darkwing91]

I was talking about myself in the question.

[Abbycado]

You don't, unless you want to scare her off.

[darkwing91]

I don't want to do that. Why would it scare her off?

[Abbycado]

You're 33 and can't figure out why? 🙄

1. She isn't even your girlfriend.
2. Presumably you have not had sex.

Now, put those together and ask yourself why that might scare her bringing up fetish stuff.

[darkwing91]

I guess when you put it like that