How do women want men to bring up sexual stuff?

[Anonymous]

We all know that seeing how someone does sexy talk is an important part of chemistry, and yet so many women are turned off by how men approach sexual conversations. That begs the question of how women want men to be sexual.

So let's hear it ladies! How can men talk about sex so it doesn't give you the ick?

[Guy13]

Be action oriented in a slow manner. They will slow you down when necessary. There’s no need to talk things to death like a woman. I do not know any women that like that. It screams insecurity

[BarryLiverstone]

Slowly and being subtle. Don’t go bluntly into it in an aggressive way. Instead over time casually mention sexual things so that she feels safe and understands it’s a part of your life. Does this make sense?

[dustybiker]

I always say it never hurts to ask (minding the way it’s brought up). Being open will make a relationship last longer. You know where each other stands.