Why is it so hard to get another girlfriend after having one?

[Anonymous]

So my first girlfriend didn’t come until I was 29 we broke up in 2023 and I haven’t even gotten close to another one haven’t been on a date actually have had some women openly call me rude names

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Thanks for opinions

[jahaims]

You haven't done anything to get a girlfriend. They don't just appear in your living room lol

[Asker]

I don’t have the social skills

[petitedollbabee]

How have you tried to get another one?

[Asker]

Most think I’m repulsive I have never actually been called that but I strongly believe it

[petitedollbabee]

That doesn’t answer my question. In what ways have you actively tried to get a girlfriend?

[Asker]

I don’t know how or what to do

[petitedollbabee]

So you’re saying you haven’t gotten close to getting another girlfriend or even going on a date, and it’s because you haven’t actually tried to do anything. Are you expecting a girlfriend to just drop out of the sky? Lol.

[Asker]

I legitimately don’t know what to do