What do I do? I'm so lonely?

[Anonymous]

When I was 15, I did something with my boyfriend and I thought whatever I will have with him will be special or something. I had it with him from the back and now I noticed I have hpv virus. I'm 18 now. I regret every sh*t that I decided to do. What should I do I feel so lonely about it 😭🥺

[SueShe]

It is sad that you have to pay now for what you did as a child and that you were not cautious or aware of the possible consequences.

HPV type 1 or 2 are there to stay forever as they are dormant and cannot be cured with antibiotics. There's no treatment for the HPV infection. However, most HPV infections do not cause any problems and are cleared by your body within 2 years. If HPV causes problems, such as genital warts or changes to cells in the cervix, you can have treatment for these.

You can try to seek some psychological help from a professional that can talk about your issue and try to find a way for you to live with your problem. Your best option is to talk about it with someone that will not judge you for what happened. Good luck.

[Asker]

I will have treatment for the warts around my anus. I have them since 1 year and finally I decided to go to the doctor about it. It's been 2,5 years since I got infected I guess.

[SueShe]

I wish you the best of luck. Even though the HPV is cleared by the body after a while, the virus itself remains in the body but is not active. If you take all the necessary precautions, then you should not have to suffer from it.

[Asker]

They say body clears it with immune system and the test results are turning into negative

[SueShe]

Good for you and be safe.

[Asker]

Thank you

[itsannalee]

Sorry this happened to you.
This is why sex education is so important for kids, and kids shouldn’t have any sexual activity.
There's no cure to eliminate the HPV virus itself, but treatments can address the health problems it causes, such as genital warts or abnormal cell changes in the cervix. HPV infections clear them naturally within a year or two. The body's immune system usually clears the virus, so there's no specific treatment to eradicate it. Just see a doctor if you get something abnormal like genital warts. etc

[Asker]

Yeah I heard about the immune system clears it by keeping the immune system high right? Like completely removing it from body

[Zack-Bann]

Your immune system should’ve cleared it out by now


If not then it’s best to see a doctor about it
It’s an infection so there should be antibiotics for it


But I think your loneliness is a traumatic reaction
You did something that heavily harmed you even though you went into it looking for pleasure


It’s not easy to overcome such things but you can work on it
Either with a professional or just through community


It’s important for you to know that everything is gonna be ok

[Asker]

Thank you so much you understood me in an exact way 🥲❤️

[Asker]

Yeah I also wonder why my immune system hasn't cleared it yet if I really got caught to hpv. I think my immune system wasn't enough for that until this time

[Zack-Bann]

The only way to know for sure is to let a doctor look at it and tell you

If you don’t do that you’ll be endlessly wondering what’s going on and not knowing how to make it stop

[ohsheeT]

There are a lot of things you can do. There are many ways to stop the loneliness but I need to know what you want or ur looking for if you want dm me and I can give you some ideas and it will change your world

[Anonymous]

Sorry know a lot of girls who had this torment shared with them! Your wonderful and made a mistake listen to your doctors and make friends. Your but warts don't define you!

I'm sorry your going to have to live with it forever and pass it to your kids. One mistake and it's a part of you.

My friend did not even do it at she got the warts and disease. She found someone who was perfect for her and they don't want kids to have it also

[Asker]

But body clears it

[Opinion Owner]

It never fully clears it. Go to your doctor and he can help clear it but it's always in your DNA and if the guy has it might cause reproduction issues latter on.

Was the sex even good at all?

[Asker]

It wasn't

[Opinion Owner]

So sorry! From my girlfriend and all my female friends anal is never worth it. It's an excuse not sex.
It won't make the burning desire go away.

[Cyrus000]

I'm so sorry. But as far as I'm aware, the HPV virus should pass away within a few years?

[Asker]

Yeah it's been 2,5 years but I still have warts on anus

[Cyrus000]

I see... Hopefully it passes soon. Please use protection if you decide to do anything like that again and make sure it's with someone you trust is healthy. I hope you get better soon.

[Asker]

Thank you so muchhh

[Cyrus000]

No worries. 🫡

[Asker]

🥺🥺🥺

[molonski2]

At 18 .. I wouldn't worry about it , a plethora of fish in the Sea.

[Anonymous]

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