Women, is it weird dating a man shorter then you?

[Summeroflove]

Yes, I know all women are different so are all men. That’s why I’m asking different opinions and perspectives. Please be respectful to one another, just because you’re wanting different things doesn’t mean that you need to hate on one another.

[Anonymous]

God Why do i always find shit that makes me more insecure than I already am! Like it’s not fair! I’m short because of a medical issue. I can’t find a partner! No girls are interested in me! I am convinced i’ll die alone. You can’t control height either way! So if you judge height, i wish the most horrible day! Jk, or not…

[Summeroflove]

Look Anonymous good things come to those who wait. Find peace in being alone just be glad superficial women aren’t choosing you because you would be miserable.

Some people are judgmental and keep in mind romantic rejection isn’t always personal rejection. If someone’s not interested in you be glad they aren’t wasting your time.

[Armourdillo]

You have short man syndrome, stop talking about height, no one cares and height mean nothing. Dating, sports, employment, etc. just work hard, height means nothing, only short men care about height.

[Summeroflove]

Some people care more so then others and I understand that. It’s why I’m asking for perspectives. As you can see there is many different ones

[Sachem]

Not so. Women engage in body shaming short men (am short so that I've experienced it first hand more than once). Men often body shame women for being fat and they get condemned for doing so. But while women body shame men for being too short they are not condemned for doing so. Again, this has been my experience, perhaps yours has been different.

[Beckybooboo]

I was in love with a guy about three inches shorter than me. He had a problem with it, I didn't. I met him at a bar once, when he walked in, I got up and gave him a hug (I was excited to see him)... He yelled at me! "Don't ever hug me like that! Like I'm a little kid"! Needless to say, it didn't last long.

[Shiprex]

That's actually quite sad he did that. Sorry to hear but you're probably better off that it didn't carry on too long

[Summeroflove]

That really sucks sounds like you really cared for him and he took things the wrong way. If he was uncomfortable by something he should have communicated like a adult and you would have understood

[Summeroflove]

@Shiprex yeah,… some people aren’t affectionate

[RingOfFire]

Sounds like he was really insecure about his height and that's why he reacted that way. I think many women don't really see a few inches difference in height as a deal-breaker, but they do see a lack of confidence as a deal-breaker. This sounds like a case in point.

[itsannalee]

For me yeah, because i’m short (165cm) so men under 165 are so weird in my opinion.
I never dated shorter men, my shorted ex was183cm. It’s not like i only pick tall guys, but it’s like mostly only tall guys hit on me.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I can understand that. Everyone has preferences and standards. The only thing that gets me is when someone is entitled to their own standards but is offended someone would ever reject them…. It’s a little hypocritical

[Summeroflove]

Like. If a woman’s six foot complaining the men as tall or taller won’t hit on her. But brags about rejecting shorter men…. It’s like you can like who you like that’s fine.

But the issue is that they take pleasure in rejecting someone but get offended when
People don’t pick them

[itsannalee]

Agreed

[Summeroflove]

Right. Rejecting and being rejected for most people is unpleasant. But it’s a part of life and some people frankly aren’t worth it either

[Shiprex]

Rejecting people on superficial traits is lame af.

[itsannalee]

@Shiprex you do what you need to do, i do what i need to do. Your presence ain’t my business

[Summeroflove]

@Shiprex I always tell men quality over quantity. Sometimes certain traits weed out the superficial ones. They aren’t worth focusing on

[Summeroflove]

That’s true everyone’s different. At least you’re not wasting someone’s time you’re not attracted to. As well as can take rejection yourself

[Shiprex]

@itsannalee
superficiality isn't a positive trait

[Shiprex]

@Summeroflove
I agree, superficial people are vapid and uninteresting

[TheRealPepperPotts]

He would have to be very short to be shorter than me, LOL. :D

[DishLady]

You mean if she dates a short guy then asks me out? No go. I only drive stick shift.

[Unap0logetic_]

Yes because I’ve never dated anyone shorter than 5’9.. I’ve tried in the past and it was too awkward for me.

[Summeroflove]

Fair enough. Doesn’t mean you hate them as a person or a human being. Just never been compatible. And that’s okay

[LisaS]

I've usually found it's more of an issue for the guy

[QuietRunner]

@LisaS
sometimes we like taller women

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it depends everyone is different. As you can tell a lot of women are weirded by it as well

[IslaTheWitch]

I know they exist, but I've never met a guy shorter than me... so it isn't something I spend time thinking about :D

[Abbycado]

Only dated two guys. Both were taller to different degrees, but I'd have no problem dating someone same height or shorter. Not a thing for me.

[MemeSupreme]

no but it feels weird if he is a lot shorter than me

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Nah, even though I'm taller for a woman, it wouldn't bother me if a guy was like 5'5 or something. My boyfriend is the same height as me at 5'10 so it works out nicely, but if he were shorter I'd still love him the same.

[NicholasRedone]

@Summeroflove I'd know who wears the pants lol pants 👖

[red-lipstick-girl]

I wouldn't consider dating a man shorter than me.

[CrazyKittyCatLady]

I haven't met many guys shorter than me, I am 5'8 but if I did it wouldn't bother me.

[Alexa6]

If I date anyone shorter then me they be children or little people.

[Anonymous]

It's weird for me. I don't want it to be too long, but it has to be a little taller than I am.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Wdym by “it”

He’s a person, not an “it”

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't mind dating a taller girl, if she's really my type of girl.

[Anonymous]

It’s never happened to me because I am very short but I don’t think that height should be such an important factor!

[Anonymous]

I'm 4ft4. I wouldn't date a guy under 6ft.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Just curious but why?-

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill well it would be like dating a little boy when I want a man.

[WhiteBoyChill]

You realize most men aren’t 6 feet or taller?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Also, in the same way you don’t want to date a “little boy”, why should any man want to date a “little girl”

You are well below the typical height for an adult women, and even below average for girls that are 13. Js

[WhiteBoyChill]

Scratch that. You are below the average height range for 12 year old girls childrenswi.org/.../normal-growth

[Summeroflove]

Opinion Owner you’re allowed to want who you want,…. But that doesn’t mean you necessarily hate men who aren’t your type. They are just people the same as women I'm not inserted are just people.

Some people would see you as a little girl as well….

[Summeroflove]

@WhiteBoyChill unless someone’s a Pedo. Most people want to date a woman, even if a woman’s short. She can’t control that but if she doesn’t act like a woman for most men that’s cringe.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever it is about men, they've no problem dating a short girl

[Anonymous]

It’s disgraceful and weird. Why would a women spend 9 months giving birth to a child that might be physically inferior than her

[Shiprex]

Can tell why you remained anonymous for that toxic bullshit

[Summeroflove]

Inferior? I don’t think just being short means someone’s inferior. It’s okay to not be attracted to someone but I’m 5’11 so not super short not super tall either. And have been shown interest by women taller and shorter then me.

So it depends on the woman. I think people who only judge based on what osmeome can’t control mant times don’t find the kind of people they want. At least it someone judges someone for being overweight. Someoem can control that

[CaitlinSims25]

The person is using rage bait

[Opinion Owner]

Ovum chooses the sperm. It’s the survival of the “fitest “ not short weak guys

[CaitlinSims25]

Your weekass women

[Opinion Owner]

@CaitlinSims25 short unmasculine loser

[SmokinAces2000]

Lmao rage bait at its finest

[Shiprex]

Ovum doesn't do shit. It gets moved along the tubes by the follicles then settles somewhere until a sperm MAY encounter it.
That's the most idiotic thing I have heard. It's a MOBILE sperm and not even the MOST mobile just the one that comes into contact BY ACCIDENT ffs.

[Summeroflove]

@CaitlinSims25 I can see that. But I’m just conversing

[Summeroflove]

Opinion Owner. Think of a man whose 6’5 and muscular. Most those dudes are dating gym rat women…. Just saying. So it goes both ways.

[Summeroflove]

@SmokinAces2000 yeah seems to be

[Summeroflove]

@SmokinAces2000 these people are the same people crying when they feel rejected by who they want. But ain’t nobody better feel entitled to them the way they feel entitled to who they are wanting

[fish5505_87]

@Shiprex wow, agreed! So, easy when your anon!

[Summeroflove]

@fish5505_87 yeah exactly. They’re ashamed to stand on their own opinion

[GAGsucksballs89170]

I know a girl who's married to a guy shorter than her. Three kids, very wealthy

[GAGsucksballs89170]

www.google.com/search

[CaitlinSims25]

I hate tall men. Prefer shorter men.

[Shiprex]

Shorter than you or below average?

[Summeroflove]

Hating someone based off a characteristic verses just not being attracted are two different things.

If you HATE someone without a cause it signals there is something wrong inside of yourself that you feel the need to hate people for

[Summeroflove]

There are plenty of women I do not feel attracted to. But do I hate them? No.

[CaitlinSims25]

@summerflove is rage bait for a reason. you can never take a joke. all tall men had be jerks to me. Still prefer shorter men

[Summeroflove]

Everyone’s different. A lot of people project their own standards on others. There are men that choose women I never would and claim all men want that. I respect
They like who they like but

[Summeroflove]

Also preferences change. Some people mature and drop some standards while also gaining others.

[Summeroflove]

Hate tell men not short men…. Sorry I misread it. But still. It’s wrong to just hate someone. Just because someone isn’t your type. Based off something they can’t control

[CaitlinSims25]

Is called rage bait for reasons and I never like tall men since I'm on the shorter side of women.

[Summeroflove]

Well yeah but you can not be attracted to someone without hating them

[chrissykerdock]

not if your on your knees for him often

[Summeroflove]

What?

[Summeroflove]

Madam this question isn’t about oral sex.

[Miah06]

Never done it