So you asked me out on a date and I said yes. What now?

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So I said yes to a date with you. What kind of date is it going to be? Tell me what we'll do, where you'll take and if you wish how do you think it will end hypothetically? Be creative, have fun and give it your best.

BadApple69 · Accepted Answer

I would greet you with a single red rose I would have booked a table at a very nice restaurant (something I know you would like for conversations we had previously). I would order us a nice bottle of wine. After we finished our main course the staff would come out with a cake and candle to sing you happy birthday. It’s not your birthday but no one except you and I knew that fact. We would both eat birthday cake as desert. During the time we slowly ate our desert I would mention about some of the new movies that are playing in the theaters. I would ask you opinion of which one you thought would be worth seeing. You would mention that there was one you would like to see more than the others…. That’s when I would show the tickets I bought for that exact movie. You asked how I knew. I would say that I listened to you when we talked on the phone and text messages. From what I knew of you already I believed this would be the movie you would want to see. You would be amazed and feel you found a guy who really did listen and wanted to learn about you. The truth…. I bought tickets for several of the movies hoping you would pick one of them. We would leave dinner and head over to the movie theater. I would buy us both large sodas (or drink of your choice) and 1 mega large popcorn plus a box of those little candies you like. We would go in and I would show you to your seat. After you sat down I would say I’ll go to my seat then walk down about 4 rows and sit down next to a person down there…. You would see the two of us talking wondering WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON….
Then I would get up and come back and sit with you. I would tell you I was joking about us not sitting together. You would ask what that guy 4 rows down and I were talking about. He told me to get out of his girl friends seat and I told him in a minute and he threatened to kick my but so that’s when I got up and came back to you.
We talked quietly through the previews picking out which movies we would like to see and which we would not. Me, I’m taking mental notes just in case the date goes well. The movie starts and we watch it quietly. We share that mega large popcorn and I playfully throw a few pieces of popcorn. You thought it was an accident the first time and wasn’t so sure the second time. After the third time you threw it back at me. We both laughed.
After the movie we left the theater and talked about what we just seen. I would drive you home and tell you what a wonderful time I had. I would walk you to your door and tell you that I'm sad the date is coming to an end (of course hoping you’d invite me in). You wouldn’t because you are a true lady (not that you didn’t want to…. I’m so handsome, charming and really made you horny as hell!). But you didn’t son kissed you goodnight and I drove away.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

First, I am a married man, so I would never ask you for a date. Second, I am 70 years old and if I did ask, you answer would be "No!"

When I was dating (before December 2020,) any lady who I asked for a first date would be invited to meet me for dinner at a nice but not horrribly upscale restaurant, such as Seasons 52:

So you asked me out on a date and I said yes. What now?

It's a nice place, not noisy, so a good venue to have conversation. I would suggest dinner at 8:00 pm on a Friday or Saturday night. If the date does not seem to be working well, we finish dinner and go our separate ways. If I sense mutual interest, I suggest that we walk across the street to the Capital Grille for an after-dinner drink in the lounge:

And if the date is going well, at some point, I will hold your hand and look into your eyes because direct eye contact is important. At the end of the evening, I will walk you back to your car, tell you that I had a great time and hope to see you again soon, and then I will step forward and give you a simple goodnight kiss. Lastly, I'll ask you to text me when you arrive home safely.

Summeroflove · Answer

Well assuming I don’t know you probably a coffee shop maybe it sounds boring or lame to some people. But if the date isn’t working out it’s easy to dip for both people without it being awkward. I want a easy scape as well as want to provide that for someone else.

If the date goes super well we can always find something else to do either that day or plan for something else. It should really be about getting to know one another.

If you say plan a extensive itinerary with someone you barely know and things become awkward now you’re pretty much stuck with one another. That can make for a very awkward day as well as awkward for someone to leave. I don’t want to do that to myself or someone else.

If I already knew you and we had similar interests. Then I may pick something else

HawkPerception · Answer

My go-to first date is always just coffee/tea at a cafe or drinks at a bar.

Or if weather conditions permit and she's cool with it, to go for hike to a scenic view, then have a picnic at that view point with some food, wine, and water.

I save the better date ideas for a girl that's actually my partner. I've never understood why people try so hard with dates when they're not even in a relationship with the person, then put in less effort when they're in one. I doubt that would make their partner feel special.

AviatorTom · Answer

We'd make a day trip to San Marino, where we'd climb Mount Titano. At the top, we'd enjoy the sights, as we dine on pasta and Chianti, and watch the brilliant sun set in the west. After that... we'll have to see.

exitseven · Answer

I would tell you to dress like you would be going on an adventure. I would be at your front door at precisely the time that I said I would be there. I would pick you up in my truck and we would drive into the city. I would point out all kinds of famous landmarks while we drove to our designation, which is the tallest building in the city. We would walk to the building and go up to the observation deck and look at a panoramic view of the city. this will afford us time to talk about ourselves. After spending time looking out at the city we would go downstairs to have dinner at a great seafood place. After dinner I know of a great club which is very intimate and usually has a solo artist or small group playing some acoustic type music. Afterwards I would head back to home but on the way we would stop at in ice cream shop that I know that makes good sundaes. We would get sundaes and walk across the street and sit on the seawall and look out at the moon reflecting off the ocean. While we are sitting there I would start to figure out if I should ask you for a second date.
Afterwards I would drive you home and walk you to your front door. I might take your hand and ask you if you had a nice time and maybe would want to go out with me again.
Then I might hug you gently and say goodnight.

Cormac995 · Answer

After probably spending a good 5 mins in stunned silence letting it process so I can believe it I'd take a hypothetical date to a coffee shop in town that I like a lot. They play music I like, have a small, nice lunch menu with some baked goods and homemade Ice cream but best of all they have tables where you can place chess and checkers. If things went well and she was ok with it, I might ask her to walk with me in the park after if the weather was nice. Ideally if things were going well, we'd find a quiet spot and probably sit together a while and maybe cuddle and talk for a while but if things are still uncertain, we might just leave after the walk. Really, I'd just go in with a few rough idea's but try to keep my mind open to adjusting the plan. I'd also ask if they had anything that they wanted to do or try on the date as well and if possible, we'd make some of her wants a priority on the date. there's also a good chance I'd bring some flowers if I could, but it depends on some variables like if I could afford them at the time or if I didn't think we'd get a chance to preserve them before they died like if they came without a vase.

molonski2 · Answer

So assuming I already know you and I'm super keen..

We have a very casual bar on the Cliff top where you can watch the beautiful natural sunset in Hua Hin , its novel because its natural , so I'd warn you for attire..

Now the guy who owns it , lovely Thai man , I would have red roses placed with him in advance , would order you a cocktail , I'd have a mocktail , present you with the roses on sunset , as I held your hand while overlooking the coastline , then as the sun come down I'd hold you tight , and we would walk together barefoot along the foreshore.

I would be looking for " point of difference " on my part , casual but mysteriously camouflaged to produce the desired , memorable moment.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Using my creativity...

I will have investigated your main interests already. I will feel attracted -basically- about your views already.

I may not know your true motivations, although I'd assume a positive ''outcome''.

The schmaltzy options of ''dinner'' or going to some fancy venue are out of question.

The cheap options of ''café'' or a ''walk in the park'' are out of question as well.

I'd only ''date'' someone who I am already familiar with; and where I'd have a feeling that we may get somewhere.

Soooooo...

I would expose myself to your own preferences - excluding the schmaltzy or cheap options.

The hypothetical end: we had fun and gave our best :)

Next: we will have a second... ''date''.

Shiprex · Answer

I'd pick you up on my motorcycle and whisk you off to the place you've never been before but it excites you no end. You're gripping tight as we wind through canyons and forests and I can feel your body pressed against my back especially when we brake. But you're fingers are gripping too fkin tight. CHILL TF out, I got this.

loveslongnails · Answer

Depending where in Italy you live, I would charter a private water plane, presuming you're ok with flying a small craft? I thought to take you to one of the Aeolian Islands for the day, longer if you wish. Beaches, markets, local restaurants and nightlife, relaxation, etc.,. How does that sound? If that's too far away, let me know and I'll come up with something else. :)

talka20 · Answer

Hypothetically, we'd go on a motorbike ride and stop at some mountain or lake and simply sit and have some talks and any activity that can be done there like aiming stones at something or making stone bounce on water or getting feet wet or if its mountain then climbing or racing whoever climbs first... and yea we can try to find unique stones or things from lake or mountain... and on the way back we can have snacks but whatever comes in the way not specific spot bec we'd already be tired

NathanDavis · Answer

karaoke + picnic... on top of the Jeep

just before the sunrise, we'll make it to a spot by a cliff... homemade selection of good stuff to eat, and whichever are your favorite drinks

boombox of course... how else would we karaoke at the top of the world... not really focused on how it ends, I rather focus on your favorite songs and the stories behind them, lol... when I really like someone and enjoying with someone, I never think of a "end" the moment is right there

Tarifa · Answer

I'd make it very special and memorable for you. I'd pick you up in a convertible car - I think you'd be uncomfortable on the motorcycle for a first date - , take you to a nice restaurant and order several dishes I know you'd like, small portions so you can taste them all. After that, we'd drive to an open location and watch the falling stars, with the top open and lying back comfortably. I would of course have picked a day with loads of falling stars.

We'd talk, I'd ask you about your dreams and future plans. I'd wrap a blanket around you if you get cold. We'd just spend hours talking and getting to know each other.

I'd take you back home, wish you good night and maybe steal a kiss or two. If you let me. I'd want to take it slow.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

On an adventure we would go, something fun & something in the sun.  Do you like roller coasters?

Miristheiss · Answer

33?

Why would you still be single?

HUGE red flag. Guys get looking to smash ask out 33 year old single ladies.

I guess attempting to smash is what happens.

Relationship? That is for the 18-22 year olds.

Maybe some divorced dad with 2 kids will want a 33 year old.

Nik1hil · Answer

I will make a Venn diagram of things I like and things you like..

Select an activity, that overlaps and make a day of activities that we both like!.

I will be open to let you invite another female friend or sister of yours with her partner.. if you wish for things to be comfortable!..

msg321 · Answer

Even if I don't have any idea about yoga. I know you love it so I will practice it with you. Before date I will look at recipes from internet for cooking somethings for you and if you accept it I will invite you to home and cook for you and I would pull your chair and serve the dishes I made by saying romantic things like , your soup, lady, your dessert, signora e. t. c. after dinner we can watch a romantic movie together. I'd let you to choose the movie but if you want me do it, I'll choose a heartwarming movie for you🍿 I hope you will trust me and come to my home for the first date

fish5505_87 · Answer

I think the zoo is a cool firs date, it's relaxed, fun, leisurely. After a couple hours there, we can grab some coffee to go and take a trip on a schooner on the river, and enjoy the palisades. Head back in for an early dinner, at a restaurant on the water, and finish with plans for another date!

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Judging by what I read about you, you seem like an outdoorzy person so somewhere outside where there's lots of colors, and good food cause I know I can't go wrong with good food.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I would make a chariot out of fireflies and take you to a date on a star, so we can watch the earth and place flowers of cosmic dust in your hair, to make you flowers from the beautiful colours of the universe while our minds dream with endless hope

DrPepper12 · Answer

"Meet me at "Books & Nooks" at Eighth & 17th for coffee & pastries. Well wander the aisles discussing books & life. Figure 90 minutes. Look forward to meeting you IRL!"

moneymagnet24 · Answer

No honey I won't take you on date I have girlfriend and I'm loyal to her... sorry. 😏

Levin · Answer

We can walk in the English hills and do some sheep spotting if you fancy.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

Id bore you to death as I have no interests or hobbies besides playing video games. Also im gay and socially inept so i wouldn't waste either of our time

jamesgoldman · Answer

I didn't expect an affirmative response so now I'm stuck

Sunrising · Answer

Being ahead of the game, we'd have to decide on somewhere exotic, a place we would always remember !

Anonymous · Answer

It's difficult to imagine such a situation, cause I've never asked anyone on a date, I'm too shy for that.

blackeagle007 · Answer

So many ideas. When and if the weather warms up, why not putt putt?

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Coffee at Starbucks followed by the customary BJ in the car.

Agape93 · Answer

Depends on what you enjoy doing tbh

QuestionObsession · Answer

What are you, attention whoring? :-)

Jerre · Answer

I pick you up on the time agreed and head to the restaurant you chose

Jay-_- · Answer

Whatever your dream date is, with me, I win. Lol.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

now u go on a date? whats the problem?

NicholasRedone · Answer

@thegreenyogi coffee and mall

retarb · Answer

Wanna go watch a dirt race?

Anonymous · Answer

I will kiss you , what else 💋😘😊🤭

dougeats · Answer

now netflix lol

Smile456 · Answer

Actually, I didn't.

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