After almost 7 years I'm going on a date with a coworker. What should I wear? What should we do/where should we go?

[darkwing91]

[Summeroflove]

You should just be authentically you as cheesy as it sounds. Don’t make yourself out to be someone you’re not if it’s meant to be it will be. I understand you may be nervous and wanting to put your best foot forward. Wear something nice and fix your hair, wear cologne, among just basic stuff like brushing your teeth.

[Zack-Bann]

She agreed to a date but not to a specific date?


Like you didn’t invite her somewhere you just said let’s go on a date and she said yes.


That’s good news it means she’s doing it specifically for you


Personally I like the first date to be kept simple.


Find a nice quiet bar with dim lights and have a drink and a long conversation
Flirt, make jokes, get to know her
Just keep the vibes happy and light


Afterwords you can go for a walk or a drive depending where you live and check out something that’s nice to see like a beach or a city skyline at night or the well in your basement
(Last one was a joke)


If all works well you should make a move.
Kiss her
Or better yet: let her kiss you by building up the tension, leaning in and just stopping halfway
Most women won’t hold the tension for long and will finish off the kiss themselves


After that you accompany her home and depending on what you both want to achieve you either wish her a good night or you come in for some “coffee”
Just make sure it’s protected coffee since you have no idea when was her past coffee mate and he might have had and given to her

[RedInnocent69]

Somewhere far from work