What are some subtle signs that my fearful avoidant ex is warming up to me again (via text)?

[Anonymous]

I backed off significantly over a month ago now when he friend-zoned me. What would be some signs that he’s regretting that decision? This is all via text at this point due to distance.

[ohsheeT]

You don't have to worry about any of this if he's going to remain an ex.

If he's not going to remain a ex. Then I say good luck

Because the lesson that you were both meant to learn you didn't

So be prepared for part two

[Anonymous]

If your fearful-avoidant ex is warming up to you again, his texts will subtly shift—he might initiate more, respond with longer messages, or bring up inside jokes and nostalgic memories. He may show curiosity about your life in indirect ways, like asking if you’ve been going out or subtly hinting at jealousy. You might notice playful teasing, emojis where there weren’t before, or random check-ins after periods of silence. If he starts sending memes, songs, or asking for your advice, it’s his way of maintaining a connection without making himself too vulnerable. Fearful-avoidants test the waters before fully re-engaging, so if you see multiple signs, he’s likely feeling some regret but unsure how to act on it.

[Anonymous]

Texts are emotionless and meaningless most of the time.

[Shiprex]

His ardour may have cooled but it's not absolutely true this could be a change of heart. I is worth holding out for greater confirmation as he may be seeking a respectful relationship without the strings

[jahaims]

Move on