Does height matter in a guy?

[texasman2002]

Ladies does height matter in a guy? If yes how tall does he have to be?

[LaureenVO]

Yes. For me it does, because I am a pretty independent woman normally. I always want to do things on my own. But in a relationship, I love to let go and feel protected, so that I can be more feminine. I love to let out my feminine side and to not worry that much. One of the ways that I feel safe, is to be with a man that makes me feel like he could physically protect me if neccessary. I am 5'10 myself, my dad is 6'7, my brother is 6'5, so a man for me would have to be at least 6'2. Luckily my boyfriend is 6'6. I do have to say that in my country, people are very tall. So finding a man above 6'2 is not hard at all. In other countries it will be different and my standards might differentiate. This is just a personal thing that attracts me. I have no hate towards guys that are shorter than that. It's just my preference, but in the past I have also fallen for guys shorter than me. In general it's a preference, but you can't stop love, even if someone is different from my usual type!

[texasman2002]

So you have dated men shorter than you?

[LaureenVO]

No, my current boyfriend is my first boyfriend. I have liked guys shorter than me, but I have never really crushed on a guy shorter than me. But tbf, I also have never really crushed on a guy taller than me (beside my boyfriend), so I don't know if that's bc of the height. But in my country there aren't many men shorter than me, so I don't really have to worry about it.

[texasman2002]

Where do you live

[LaureenVO]

Netherlands. Tallest country in the world

[texasman2002]

I’m 6”1. Am I short to you

[LaureenVO]

Yeah a little tbh. My brother was that height at 14. But I know that it is tall, it's just a bit short for me, because you're only a little bit taller than me. (please don't feel offended. I'm just tall myself, so then other tall people often feel short for me.)

[MizzArtFreak89]

Well as long as a man had a qualities of a man I’m looking for them it wouldn’t matter, but I do have a preference for a guy my height or taller than me. I’m 5’9” and I don’t expect a guy 6’7 but 5’9-6’3 is fine. Even 5’11”.

[texasman2002]

Is it ok for weight to matter for men since y'all can change that

[Abbycado]

No, doesn’t to me. Same height or taller, with the exception of @Circushowcowboy who gets a pass because he is pocketable.

[texasman2002]

What’s too short then?

[Abbycado]

There really isn’t. Take my friend that I tagged. He is 4’5” but what does that matter when he has a great personality?

[texasman2002]

So what physically matters to you in a man?

[Abbycado]

Well, have to be attracted to him physically for sure, but having a good personality is 100% necessary or it doesn’t matter what he looks like.

[texasman2002]

Does he have to have a huge dick?

[Abbycado]

No. I will say he needs to at least be in shape. I take care of myself and want someone of the same mind.

[texasman2002]

Ok then

[Valdemort]

@Abbycado so does he have to have a huge dick?

[texasman2002]

She said no

[Abbycado]

@Valdemort massive XD

Have to be able to hang my winter coat on it.

[kat1212]

my boyfriend is same height as me

[texasman2002]

What’s your height?

[kat1212]

5 foot 6

[texasman2002]

Oh ok

[Plugs]

Not below 5,11

[texasman2002]

So is it ok for weight to matter for men?

[Plugs]

Yeah , obviously. But weight can be changed. Height can’t. Height is the essence of masculinity. It’s not about looks alone

[texasman2002]

I guess that’s why it’s harder for men because y'all only care about things we can’t change

[Plugs]

If u have male privilege, u need to be masculine. Men made these standards. Not women

[texasman2002]

So I guess dick size matters to you as well

[Plugs]

Obviously