Why my family don’t love and support me? why boys are more loving to me than my own family😓?

[Sugar100]

I fight daily with my mom.
once she told me she don’t like me at all.
Yet she don’t want me move out at age 27 as I’m not married. But I have bad luck I can’t even Get a first serious boyfriend.
I can’t spend time with her she shows no interest& yet she’s controlling & don’t want me have sex never.

dad also talks shit of me and fake nice.

they see other people successful cuz they got lucky and married and have many babies.
@27 I suffer baby fever and cry in secret but my mom don’t console me , she talks shit & shuts the door like a toddler.
it feels my family don’t understand me.
my married brother also isn’t loving or understands me.

This is why my biggest dream is be apart of a bfs family & spend my life with them 😞

i wish I can run away. 😓

even tho I can’t get a boyfriend , I have guy friends and they pay more attention to me than family. And I feel guys do understand me a lot. 😔

I want feel warmth of a boyfriend , and have my own warm home with a guy. I don’t feel that here in my life 😓

[slatyb]

You are an adult. Move out whether she wants you to or not. If she´s unpleasant, then cut the visit short. Soon enough she´ll learn to be pleasant to you.

[Sugar100]

I want be apart of a bfs family 😓 I been wanting run away for. Long time but can’t find a guy that’ll run away with me n take me away from my family

[slatyb]

Why do you need a guy? Can´t you live by yourself?

[Sugar100]

I want a future. I want have babies. I don’t want be single for my entire life. I deserve be in love

[Shiprex]

Take the first step, get a place of your own, move on to set up yourself ON YOUR OWN first and be independent. That way you will have less things dragging you down

[Agape93]

That's how life goes. Shit, @OlderAndWiser is closer to me than my own family ever was. Shit, I don't even know his name offline and I'd pick him over my family.

[ohsheeT]

With some parents they don't like anyone that show interest in you. because they are being selfish .
If your 27 and you have lived with them all this time that mean you probably help out around the house and do things for them and as they get older they know some day they are really going to need more help as they get older..

and what really sucks is they are only thinking of themselves. In stead if your happiness and your experiences that you are missing out on and if this is what is happening I'm so sorry. That you are going through this

And shame on them for being this way
This is one of the reasons we are on this planet to experience love romance connection the bond of becoming one with someone.

After reading this now I understand why you ask the question you do.

a lot better I'm sorry you are going through this I would be going crazy if this was happening to me
You are truly a better person than me because I had to experience every thing when I was way younger. When I was 16 1/2. I wanted independence connection love Intimacy passion orgasms. You are a way stronger person than me .
I'm way older now and not dating and I still crave it and need to feel it so I roleplay just to feel it sometimes

[Sugar100]

Yes they want me take care of them , and I haven’t experienced yet what it’s like live with a boyfriend. And I shudbt. Be living with them but I never had a boyfriend or a guy ask me to live with him. That’s y I’m stuck with parents

[ohsheeT]

Well, either you have to get out more often, or maybe someone knows someone. They think it would be a good match

I know it's probably hard to be patient, but you have to put yourself at the right places.

[wkhan_87]

I can understand your situation and feelings, but don't fight with your family

[Sugar100]

They fight me. They treat me bad.

[wkhan_87]

You have to petiance

[wkhan_87]

Because of morality