Do guys really like gold diggers who are clever enough to hide their true feelings?

[Babygirl_S]

Like she is always polite and nice but would be gone if you lose money or isn’t really attracted to you. Maybe you pursued her and she wasn’t that attracted. She doesn’t ask for emotional availability or quality time as long as her “needs” are met.

Do you find it harder to accept a woman who likes you for who you are but expresses her feelings when you’re toxic instead of being so clever? Would you rather be with someone who puts up with bad behaviour even if she’s not reliable?

That is like marrying a man who only cares about my appearance and not anything else I can do. It’s scary because what if I lose it somehow? I would mean nothing? Who can trust such people and how can you be at peace in such a relationship where you can’t even trust?

[SteveSmith1985]

I have never met a guy who liked gold diggers. Its not a real relationship. You're right.

[Shiprex]

Gold diggers aren't worth the time or effort. If she can't be authentically into me then she can gtf.

It's an US not a ME and SHE

Her engagement better be for the betterment of both our lives.

[IslaTheWitch]

simply don't get too close to people who are focused on such unimportant things like money or appearance...

[NathanDavis]

I've never had any issue with this

but I have never used nor needed money to attract women...

[Billlewis]

Not nearly as much as I love women who are very candid about their desire to use me for their own selfish pleasure.

[oldpigg]

No, I don't give my money to women.

[talka20]

I would say no

[ThebestIndian]

No lol no