Boyfriend secretly subbed my OF, now is jealous?

[AnTina101]

I run a successful OF, and my boyfriend of 2 years knew about it totally when we got together. He never asked to see it so I never showed him. We'll he recently confessed that he joined it without telling me and now is super jealous feeling and self conscious about it, and would like me to stop. I think the main issue is I collab pretty regularly with male workers. At the same time he confessed that he had also been jerking off to the videos so I don't know. I don't want to stop as this is my sole source of income, so I don't know how to fix this

[Orion84]

While I don't personally condone or support OF, and would never date anyone that has one, in this case, I think your boyfriend is in the wrong.

You were open with him about your OF, and he still chose to enter into a relationship with you. At this point, he has no right to ask you to stop, because he knew what he was getting into. That makes it his problem, not yours.

Either he has to come to terms with it, or I'm afraid the two of you will have to call it quits. If/when that happens, it will be his fault, not yours.

[AnTina101]

Thank you. And yes I know for some guys the thought that their girl is fcking other guys may be too much, which is why I was very upfront with it. He even seemed supportive of it at first. But I'm also not sure why he's been jerking off to my scenes if he doesn't like it?

[Orion84]

Yeah, that would definitely be a deal breaker for the vast majority of men, and if you hadn't been upfront about it with him, I probably would have sided with him.

However, you did the right thing, by telling him about it in the beginning, so he had the opportunity to pass, but chose not to. He accepted the consequences, and the fact that he suddenly had a problem with it is his problem.

As for why he's jerking off to it, I have no idea. The thought of seeing my girl with another guy would make me sick to my stomach. It's possible he has a latent cuckold fantasy of some sort, but if that's the case, then you'd think he'd be alright with what you're doing.

[Zack-Bann]

Either you’re absolutely trolling


Or you’re dating a total cuck.


It’s one thing for him to know about it


Another thing to be ok with it


And an even bigger than to jerk off to it


Any man worth a damn would either dump you on the spot or give you the option to retire from that


Because only women can believe their own bullshit about it being “work” therefore it’s ok to be railed by some other guy.


fact is it’s documented cheating nothing more

[PeachyPie93]

He knew you were a hoe from the beginning so he should just leave if he can't handle it.. It seems stupid that he would date a woman who sleeps with other men and records it if he doesn't want his girlfriend doing that especially when she doesn't have another moral way to make money besides selling her body..

[AnonAndrew]

I mean, if he can't accept you doing OF, and you don't want to quit OF, then you guys are gonna have to split up unless one of you changes their mind. No other way out.

[TopShelfMan]

You should get a boyfriend that doesn't just accept you being with other men but one that likes it a lot. Would you want that?

[TopShelfMan]

Would you like to cuckold and humiliate your boyfriend on video for your OF?

[MrChinaski]

You have not done anything wrong. If your boyfriend is an ahole then that is his problem, not yours.

[DryGermanGuy]

That sounds like a potential Little Bill Thompson scenario (Boogie Nights). 🤔

[StevenMcGarrett]

He knew who you were before you started dating and you were honest with him. Tell him no, you are not going to stop.

[AnTina101]

Thank you, yes I was very upfront about what I did for work and that I slept with other guys fairly often for it. He claimed to be fine with it unfortunately I think seeing it may have been too much.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Too bad too sad. This is who you are, if he can't accept it, then find someone that can. Good luck.

[HighValue]

Never expect a good quality partner if you have done things like that.

[DCVsMarvel2]

I'll never understand things like OF. Why you need one while you have a boyfriend too, is beyond me

[Anonymous]

You don't. Pandora is out of the box. Now you have to choose between the two and he has to live with that.

[seeyounexttuesday]

He's a cuck, you're a hoe. Match made in hell.

[In_Trance]

You need another source of income. Showing your booty hole for $5 a pop is not sustainable long term

[yotaman99]

That would turn me on

[AnTina101]

So you're a cuck?

[yotaman99]

Yes I am I’d love my girlfriend doing that

[yotaman99]

Is that bad?

[AnTina101]

No I think most guys would actually enjoy it if they tried it.

[yotaman99]

I wish more women we a lot more like you

[yotaman99]

Do you dm?

[AnTina101]

Sure

[yotaman99]

You have to dm me.

[bowenw]

Tell him you’ll quit your job if he quits his.