I'm dating a woman who calls herself beautiful and I kind of like it, is that weird?

[Anonymous]

I told her she looked beautiful in her dress and she thanked me and said "I AM beautiful, you're so lucky to be out with me right now, I kinda envy you!".

[SteveSmith1985]

Personally I am so put-off by that, I can't even put it into words properly. I would be done as soon as that came out of her mouth.

I think that it's good that there is a type of guy, who likes that. I don't get it. It's beyond weird to me. But that's because we are clearly very different people with very different tastes. That's cool. I hope you two work out. It doesn't really matter that it's weird to me. If you're happy, who cares.

[Asker]

I find her to be fascinating, so one of the things we have in common is we both love talking about her.

[Asker]

Like they say women love when you listen, I've never found myself not paying attention to her, I'm locked in.

[SteveSmith1985]

That... sounds a little unhealthy to me. That should be a mutual feeling. But again, I don't get it. AT ALL

[Asker]

I guess it sounds weird to others, but it works for me, I'm fine with it being all about her. I could listen to her for hours on end.

[SteveSmith1985]

That's not healthy man. I'm not going to try and convince you. But that shit is not healthy. For anybody. Guy or girl. It should be about both of you. You are denying you own self-worth in a dynamic like that. You're just food for a narcissist. It's not healthy that this makes you happy.

If this relationship continues long-term, buddy, you're fucked. If you snap out of this stupid bullshit in a couple of weeks, you'll be fine. But dude... that's not healthy.

[Asker]

I'm not seeing the downside here, TBH.

[SteveSmith1985]

I know. And like I said, I'm not going to try.

[serious]

As long as it is confidence it is fine. However, if she is arrogant in her behavior then it is red flag.

[EmmaMary]

Good luck in dealing with such an arrogant, self conceited, egotistical lowlife.

[Asker]

She is referring to me as her boyfriend now.

[EmmaMary]

Be careful... It will be wedding bells before you know it! lol

[Asker]

I'd be fine with that, something about her arrogance is a turn on for me. lol

[EmmaMary]

Each to their own I guess. lol

[Asker]

Someone suggested I should buy her a mirror. lol

[EmmaMary]

I saw that post earlier, and I strongly tend to agree with @SeriouslyNotSerious

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the MHO.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Narcissistic. Might as well wear a big mirror and let her date herself.

[Asker]

Even so, something about it makes me drawn to her. We both love taking about her is something we have in common, I find her fascinating.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Well, good for you. Just a suggestion, gifting a mirror might impress her more. ❤️

[Asker]

You might be on to something, thanks.

[Nikki1989]

Context Matters: The way she says it and the frequency could influence your perception. This could be either OK or downright abysmal.

[Fireguy17]

For me that would be a one date and done.

[Asker]

I'm drawn to that type of attitude, not sure why.

[Fireguy17]

Me, I am not, but then I am not the one attracted to her.
Best of luck!

[MrChinaski]

Sassy. Not weird.

[Asker]

I agreed with her and told her I was like lucky to be out with her, she smiled and said "Damn right! No clue just how lucky you are!".

[MrChinaski]

Sassy.

[alice55]

Why would it be weird?

[Asker]

Some might call it conceited.