Do you think it's generally a red flag when attractive people have been single for 5+ years?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[SteveSmith1985]

No. I would just want to know why. But there are a million valid reasons. Everything from "I wanted to make sure I was fully over a bad breakup" to "I had a bad relationship, and decided to stay single for a while." Or "I didn't feel like I was in a good place to be a partner so I didn't date"

No, I don't think it's a red-flag. Look at the story behind it. That might be a red flag. But probably not.

[jahaims]

Nah, if you are selective and not actively looking then 5 years isn't very long depending on what they have going on in life. It makes sense if you are going to college full time and working full time to not have time for a healthy relationship for example.

[Nikki1989]

Maybe. They could be very anti-social or just really lazy.

[EmmaMary]

It could quite simply be their own personal preference.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Orion84]

I'd much rather date a woman thst's been single for five years over a woman thst's had five boyfriends in the same amount of time.

[Emmytexrex]

Hmmm 🤔 it is definitely worth looking into